Pisces54

@Pisces54 (49)

United States • Age 69

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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do you think long-distance relationship really works?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Mar 11

i have a boyfriend who i really love and i cant bear to be away from him for a long time. i have given up a lot of opportunities of working abroad because i am afraid that he might find another girl when i am away. I have heard a...

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Pisces54 It is true that long distance relationships don't last, most of them anyway but some of them do work. It will depend on you and your boyfriend. You and him will just have to make a commitment to each other. But don't waste your oppurtunities for your career...

20 Mar 11

Why do we dream?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 6 Feb 11

There is no biological explanation of why we dream, but there are facts that say the dream was not real in real life, is not likely to occur and not be controlled. But there are people who are aware when a dream they can organize...

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Pisces54 There is really no explanation on why do we dream. Some people say that when we dream it is a manifestation of what we want in life, or the things we want to avoid, or problems that we want solutions to, or a warning of something bad that is going to happen....

7 Feb 11

Today i am lost

akangirl @akangirl (2436) • India 3 Feb 11

I don't even know why i am writing this? For no reason maybe or i am totally lost.Life seems without any purpose.Right now alone sitting at pc and feeling so alone.If i try analyzing myself then i am just empty.I lost the only man...

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Pisces54 I know it is hard and painful for you right now but you have to do something for yourself. Don't be alone if possible. I can suggest to do volunteering work like for the elderly or handicapped people or the sick. When you are with them, you will realize that...

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Noticed Something Weird !!!

sunnycool @sunnycool (12714) • India 23 Jan 11

Am i the only one coming accross such lotters who do weird stuff! Few promotes 'Mylot' on mylot ... cant help than to LOL when they introduce mylot to the host of the discussion! Promoting mylot in profile is way different...

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Pisces54 Some people do things like that. I think to me , it is just an ego trip. People like that wants to be heard and recognized but the problem is they do it the wrong way. So good luck to them. I hope they find the recognition they are craving for.

23 Jan 11

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Do you find it easy to talk to stranger?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 21 Jan 11

Some people have the gift of making small talks wherever they go. My mother happens to be one of those people. Even when she takes public transportation, she will talk to the person sitting next to her. After just ten minutes,...

make small talk

talk to stranger

talking

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Pisces54 I am like you. I find it awkward to talk or make small talks to strangers. Most of the time my mind becomes blank when I try to find something to talk about. Anyway lately I try to start smiling first when I am with strangers and says hello. Most of the time...

22 Jan 11

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Over the counter medicines.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 15 Jan 11

We often see even educated people using medicines available over the counter for minute ailments. Is this justified? Should not this practice be discouraged & the offenders be punished severely?

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Pisces54 These OTC medicines are considered by FDA as "safe drugs". They passed the safety test by the FDA. To me I rather have the OTC drugs for minor ailments than run to the doctor everytime I have a slight fever because it will be too expensive with the doctor's...

16 Jan 11

Choosing discussions to answer to, regarding + and - : Newbie vs Old Timers.

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 12 Jan 11

On responding to discussions here in mylot, do you consider if the discussion was made by a newbie or an old timer? We all know that there are so many newbies who doesn't understand what the + and - for, and for that we end up...

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Pisces54 I don't really care if the discussion was started by a newbie or not. What I care is if the discussions is something I can relate to. The star rating doesn't mean anything to me either. To me My Lot is a place to share opinions with others whether they are...

12 Jan 11

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It's difficult to love people that hates us!

ricextreme @ricextreme (964) • Ecuador 9 Jan 11

There's some people that you find really easy to love. People that is friendly, respectful, those ones are easy to love. But there's other kind of people, people who aren't too easy to coexist with. There are some...

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Pisces54 I don't love or hate people who don't love me. I just feel indifferent to them. Most of the time I just ignore them. If I can't avoid them then I try to be civil but not friendly towards them. I try not to let them affect me or what I do in my life. I've...

10 Jan 11

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Should Sarah Palin be blamed and reprimanded for Gabrielle Giffords' shooting?

nickventere @nickventere (1420) • Zambia 9 Jan 11

Last year, about March, Sarah Palin came up with a very graphic image with cross hairs in her campaign to oust the Democratic representatives that helped pass the health bill in the House. Less than a year after her despicable...

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Pisces54 No, I don't think so. Sarah Palin has nothing to do with the shooting of Gabrielle Giffords. If you listened to the sheriff of Pima County, he mentioned that the shooter is probabaly unstable but not insane, and there is a possibility of somebody working with...

9 Jan 11

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new friends here

bravowoo @bravowoo (78) • China 8 Jan 11

i am now working in saudi arabia. who works here in abquiq. i like to make friends with you. I do not care about who you are and where you are from. please chat with me here. see you friends.

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Pisces54 I had worked in Saudi Arabia for 10 years so I know how it feels to be there. Could you describe how is Saudi Arabia now. During my time it is very strict and it is really boring. Are you new there.

8 Jan 11

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Life is All about Love!

stepje @stepje (35) • Philippines 6 Jan 11

In this world we have a lot to learn from our everyday experiences. Lessons in life that needs to be reflected and pondered that we may enjoy life. I just want to share to you guys what I have learned in this walk of life. The...

command

life

love

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Pisces54 Yes, I agree with you. Life is about love. I feel it is the best command ever. It is hard but if a person looks at the good side of another person then it is easy to find something to love about that particular person. If a person is basically good, it is easy...

7 Jan 11

How to find a true, real friend?

daiweian06 @daiweian06 (1405) 6 Jan 11

Well since grade school we never had lots of friend from our neighborhood. Until we decide to move to another place when I was in high school. Still the place we transferred are not close to us. And now on our present house is...

friendship

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Pisces54 My true friends are my sisters. I don't really have a friend outside of my family. I have colleagues or co-workers outside of my family, and I call them social friends. We can hang out and have fun but not really share the most important feelings that I keep...

7 Jan 11

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How long you been in a relationship before you get married?

daiweian06 @daiweian06 (1405) 3 Jan 11

My parents never been in a relationship before they get married. I just don't know why those times once you hold there hands and then grandparents saw you they will insist you to get married. They are so conservative. Now a...

get married

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Pisces54 I had been in a 2 year relationship before I got married. I had to know the guy first before marriage. Rushing into marriage is easy but it is hard to undo it when a person realized that they are not compatible. Although people get married for different...

3 Jan 11

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Always start things....never finish

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 2 Jan 11

I just can't seem to find a hobby that I really enjoy. I bought puzzles , paint by numbers, yarn so I can knit or crochet but nothing seems to hold my interest for long. I started some puzzles did...

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Pisces54 I do that too a lot. I start something and I don't finish it. And then I felt remorse why I wasted my money buying those things to start with. But I just can't help it. I get bored easily. I started jewelry making, sewing and I got bored. Now I am into...

2 Jan 11

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Is couponing really frugal?

happythoughts @happythoughts (4109) • United States 22 Dec 10

I get four sunday papers. We just went down from eight. Im trying to decide if I could do better by skipping the coupons all together. I have to pay for the paper so that offsets some of the savings. Most of the coupons we get are...

bulk

coupons

savings

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Pisces54 If you are trying to save, why do you get 4 Sunday papers? If all these are free then it is all right but if you are paying for the 4 Sunday papers, I think 1 is enough. In 1 Sunday paper you will have enough coupons for a month. Yes, it is advisable to buy in...

27 Dec 10

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I am wondering what you think re: companies that declare new unpaid holidays

whiteheron @whiteheron (4222) • United States 20 Dec 10

I am working as a contract employee and am frankly tired of it... I just today got told that I will not be able to work on Monday as work has just decided to give me an unpaid holiday on the 27th...I am upset as I will be at...

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Pisces54 I work as a contractual too. I guess what I signed is that I don't get paid holidays if I work. So what I do is I tried not to work holidays. Fortunately ,I have it in my contract that I can do my own schedule so I don't need to work if I don't want to. Yes it...

21 Dec 10

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I got a raise!!!

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 18 Dec 10

I am so excited to say that I got a raise. Now, I don't really LIKE my job (OK - it's OK..) but I suddenly have a new vigor and enthusiasm for working now that they've increased my hourly pay by a buck. And I have actually noticed...

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Pisces54 I am happy for you. Getting a raise will also give me motivation on what I am doing even if it is boring. But nowadays with the economy bad most companies don't want to give raises so you got lucky. Congratulations.

18 Dec 10

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It was a disturbing evening last night, my heart began to race

dragon54u @dragon54u (31634) • United States 14 Dec 10

All of a sudden around 6:30PM I felt as if my heart had jumped into my throat and it was racing. I've had this before and it lasted for just a few minutes. Last night it kept going and around 8:30 I just went to bed hoping to get...

racing heart

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Pisces54 See a Cardiologist(heart doctor). It looks like your heart had an abnormal rhythm. Look for Abnormal Heart Rhythms on line and check the symptoms if it coincides with yours. But definitely see a cardiologist. Take care.

14 Dec 10

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What will you do if your husband cheated on you?

chelzeea07 @chelzeea07 (157) • Philippines 10 Dec 10

What if the man you choose to marry and to grow old with cheated on you? Men are considered to be polygamous in nature but not all of them are the same, correct? There will always be a good apple in a basket of rotten ones. What...

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Pisces54 I will probably let him go if he will be happy with the other person. It will hurt a lot but that is life. As I grow older I've learned people change. His needs become different from your own. And to satisfy those needs he will look elsewhere. The problem is...

10 Dec 10

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