who says i love you words the most in your relation?^^

I sometimes think that my boyfriend and I compete with the I love you's.. As we are a very much in love couple and when I entered his life, I suppose I have stressed the values of how important it is for both of us to cherish and truly mean it when we say I Love you. It comes quite easy to stop whatever we are doing and say I love you.

For me,saying "i love you" to your love one is not important.the most important thing is the action.because i believe that "actions speaks louder than words."it would be very useless if you will continue saying i love you and you really didn't mean it.

In our relationship.. it's actually her. She's the one saying it a lot because I really don't believe in saying I love you like the second guy. But, when it comes to saying good night... when I say good night she always say that i forgot something... and up saying I love you. :| so there... I say those 3 words already every single night I'm saying good night.

I believe there is no way to quantify who does it more or not. When someone says "I Love You" there is a corresponding "I Love You, Too!" So I believe both lovers say it often to express their love. Otherwise, they are not in love to each other after all.

My husband says i love you most of the time and i don't. There's some strange awkwardness when I say those words unless I really mean them and I really felt that way. So to my husband, when I say those words to him, he feels so happy because it is so precious. I say those words to my son most of the time and every chance i get, but of course the love of the mother to a son is different.

We both do... I may not be good at saying sorry but I have learned that life is too short not to express how you feel wholly

Hi sweet love forever: Even if both parts should express their love at the same level I would say that I'm the one who usually say I love you most of the times. That's because I need to express love, to feel it. I need this kind of warm, I need to feel the presence of love, to liberate it and to show love as much as possible with my words, hugs, kisses, etc. ALVARO

I think both of us do say i love you most of the time. We say it through text, call and chat. Sometimes we send emoticons on chat exchange of emoticons of love..so cute heheh.. It's overly used from our relationship, i know, but i can still feel the love and the real meaning of it.

You are right about one important thing sweetloveforever, it's a pretty good idea that the couple share those words, meaning the man say it sometimes & the man say it another times so that they feel really loved & loved back. I gess love relation & especially marriage needs those " i love you " words from while to while to keep the heat of love up between lovers. For me personally, am not the kind of guy who say i love you many times or too much, lol, although i deeply mean it in my mind, but i gesss women especially need to hear it a lot, haha. I'll have to work out on my " i love you " words skills sweetloveforever, it's good to say it aloud from while to while.

I think that in the relationships that i have had in the past it has always been about equal with us both saying it the same amount. I do not take those words lightly, if i am to say them then i am to mean every single word. They are magical words and it is such an amazing feeling, they don't need to be used everyday, to me that seems false, it is like you are having to reassure your partner. It is great to have an equal balance of things like this in a relationship. Always best when said from the heart and when your partner least expects you to say it.

Well in my relationship I normally keep saying that I love her a lot and cannot live without her and all sought of romantic things which she likes even she says stuff like this but only when I am angry or upset with her or when she is really in a romantic mood or she wants to kiss me then........

I think its about even in all the relationships i have been in. If i say it they say it back and if they say it i say it back.

Hi i would suggest you read a post of mine about 11 wrong concepts of love. :D heheeh :D i hope it would be of use to you. Thanks! God bless you! have a happylife!

Hi,there!! I am not a guy but a Mama already and widow. At first when my late husband and I met a long,long time ago he always said these words but when we got married and had children and grandchildren, he more or less showed his love through his actions and fidelity to me until that day when he felt he was dying. He suddenly called me and told me he loved me. I was caught by surprise pleasantly and told him so. I told him I was always the one to say those words not him but I told him I was happy and told him I loved him,too,myself,then that evening he passed away.Sad, isn't it? But the point is...a man is not very vocal about it when he really does love a woman.Sometimes some say those words just to impress a woman. I much prefer a man who is true to me than say words that he does not mean.anyway.

With my relationship, we always tell each other"I love you". Yes it's just right that both parties will say I love you often.It nurtures any relationship. But we also have to understand that there are people who are not much expressive with their feelings.One reason I can site is the way they were brought up, maybe they are not used to be as vocal when they were growing up.In the case that your boyfriend or girlfriend do not always tell you the romantic phrase because he is too busy, then do the part. Be the one to tell him what you also want to hear from him. In this way you are encouraging the expression of love through words in your relationship, and most of all you will be as sweet as ever. :)