Husband Vs Wife
By dollarman007
@dollarman007 (78)
Philippines
6 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
12 Dec 10
I think the secret to a strong marriage is, respect each other as individuals. Obviously you won't agree on everything so in those cases you will have to "agree to disagree" to keep the peace in the family, communication as all issues must be discussed. You can not sweep them under the rug and pretend like they have already been resolved, and time. You must spend time together and time apart, to grow and learn. The time spent together must actually be quality time. I can spend 30 minutes with someone watching tv or 15 mins with someone reading a book. The act of reading the book is "quality" even though it is less time. You also need love and the "want" to make a marriage strong.
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
12 Dec 10
Hello, dollarman.
I still face marriage as one of the most important steps you can take in life. However, some people already start it thinking that, if it goes wrong, they can simply divorce. I believe that, when you accept marriage, you should never consider quitting.
Perhaps the biggest secret is not making the relationship become something that you get "used to". It is necessary, both for the man and the woman, to bring that fire back to life. Never letting it die, doing new things, exploring the world, exploring each other.
Knowing each other deeply is like the minimum you require to be happy in the marriage. Reading thoughts and expressions, knowing how to please her/him, surprising.
Respectfully,
Munhozmib.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 10
Happiness is the main purpose of a marriage. To reach it, it takes a joint effort between husband and wife. Without the efforts of husband and wife, then happiness will be getting away from the marriage. Difficult to share happiness is influenced by various factors, one of the most influential factor is the adjustment. Adjustment plays an important role, especially in the early years of a marriage. A good adjustment will deliver the couple is ready to take off into the next stage in the life of her marriage. The better the adjustment married couples, then the happier the marriage. Conversely, the worse the adjustment married couples, the more unhappy marriage.
@alam2010 (12)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 10
to make a happy life depend on u..for example if u are can make discussion with your couple for everthing likes...how to budget your house income,what u want to buy and many more in your lifes..remember! the marriage is not a game that u can make a jokes...its will change your life forever...
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 10
perhaps most important is that we should be able to keep our treatment of things that can make one of you hurt. because it can make your relationship into a dispute. then keep your relationship with your best to avoid conflict or disagreement between you.
@Beth2010 (12)
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12 Dec 10
Marriage is like an investment, sometimes you win that is you have a complete and happy family and sometimes you lose that is you have a broken marriage. Now before entering a marriage life, we must know very well our partner, not only him/her but the entire family, the background. Though, i sound like a dectective but we must.
To have a stronger relationship in marriage we should have LOVE .... a love that is genuine, UNDERSTANDING ... to all sort of things, CARES .... specially when he/she needed you most and PERSEVERANCE.