Does first love never dies?
By ellebj
@ellebj (784)
Philippines
December 13, 2010 7:32pm CST
They say first love never dies... Til you grow up, you will never forget your first love and the feeling will continually haunt even if you have a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband.
What is really first love and why did they say that it never dies?
By seeing your first love, do you really feel the same feeling even if you have a love one?
Does first love also apply to a love that hadn't been expressed to someone you love?
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9 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
14 Dec 10
I think true love is expressed by both people involved in the relationship. I do not think it can be true love when is only one sided, that kind of love would be much easier to "forget." I think you will never forget your first true love, even if you marry someone else, than that is a different love, but it doesn't mean you love them less.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
For me I don't believe it, the most important is your last one. The one that you will feel complete, then you will forget the past and move on with someone much deserving.
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
In y case, i can never say it was first love, because is much deeper than the word itself. what i mean what we may feel or perceived as first love later on you would realized it was never a love but an obsession or an infatuation. In my opinion at some point in time if indeed it was first live and you found another love, that first feeling may die depending on yourself if you will still be nourishing it, or it may die because your husband is quite adorable and you forget you have ever such a feeling of other man in your life or of having a first loved.
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
15 Dec 10
It could have been true to me. It took me years to get over my first love. But when My bestfriend, who happens to be among his circle of friends, told me that my ex had not broken up to his gf back in his hometown even before he courted me, I was angry and humiliated that I regret knowing him. I hate him for being my first love who is a big liar.
I am not sure if love can be applied to someone you have not expressed your feelings. Maybe it could, maybe not. The answer may depend on the person feeling that.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
14 Dec 10
I think that first love remains in our memories and so does every other love. For me it was an experience and it doesn't matter how successful it was for me. I think love is a part of life and not the life. People get fall in love everyday and sometimes they are successful and other times not so its not a big deal. If you have found someone new then try to concentrate there don't think about past just enjoy the moment. Thank you and have a nice day.:)
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
14 Dec 10
It depends on the individual. Because normally, first love is still a love. It's the first time when you are in love, and the feelings may or may not die off.
@imurbigfan (12)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
well never happened to me.. when i see my "first love" .. i feel normal. the feeling that i feel for her before is gone. doesn't haunt..