did a friend ever fell in love with you? how did you react?^^

Wow, yes this his happened a couple of times, once when i was a very very young boy and at primary school, we were friends but way too young really for anything to really mean anything, the relationship just fizzled out. But then there is the time when i was at college, i had been in a relationship for just over a year and that came to an end, but when the next year started i was on a different course and i met a load of different people, i always love spending time with women and i did a course on care at college and that had mainly female students, anyway, i got close to a lot of women, especially one, she and i were so alike in so many ways, she ended up falling for me but i was still hurting from my breakup from the year before and so nothing happened even though i did like my friend also, it is a shame as i do think about her sometimes, i guess she will be happily married now with a couple of children. But while at college atleast we did remain good friends. A part of me wishes i could just turn the clock back. I would have changed things and given her a chance.

Actually it happened to me ones, and it wasn't so pleasant. we were a very good friend and we talked a lot and even meet almost every day. And i had a girlfriend at those days, my friend was very supportive and helped me a lot when i had problem with my girlfriend. A few days after me and my girlfriend broke up, my friend told me the she had feeling for me i told her that i like her to, but she said that she always loved me and wait for this moment i will be available. I just wanted to stay friend but it was very hard to know that she want more.. It was a very embarrassing moment and we don't talking since than..

A friend of mine did fall in love with me once and I was honest with him. I told him that I viewed him only as a friend and not in a romantic light. I apologized that I couldnt return his affection. I did however lose the friendship because he thought I lead him on by being his friend and treating him as I would my other friends.

Hello Sweet, usually if i pick someone for loving, i know it from the first moment. I mean - if i will have relationship with someone, i know it from the moment i met the person. Only once i had such experience, when my best friend was the one i loved. It was hard time, i was little jealous and mean about the girlfriend he just found. But he was patient enough to wait me and to see how I will deal with that. He supported me all the time, he was just a good friend. And until now nobody knows that with the exact friend, i had flirt and i wanted to be with him, because he was such a nice guy. Even my present boyfriend knows the guy but he doesn't know our serious friend-friend moment, when we had to deal with my feelings and to be still friends. I had reason to start my post the way i started it. It's because i never give hopes to people i don't want to be with. I clearly show if i want a relationship with someone, if i love him and i say many many times in different situations examples how i can't start my relations with someone as a friendship and finish them with relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. That's how i skip the moment when we will have conversations with my friends about being together or such things. They will just know how i think about that and will respect my point of view - for sure. That's how friends do and i'm happy to have few but really great friends.

well it happen to me a few times and i ended up going out with them. i at some put loved them back but they all ended just as fast as they started.

hello! i still remember i have a good friend he try to proposed on me his been honest with his feelings i was shocked becoz i thought he is just really a sweet one but to find out he is after of something on me, when i found it out i was confused becoz i don't like him nor love him yah i love him but as a friend nothing else. I tried to talk to him in a way that he will not be hurt but there is no easy way to do that what happened is i lost a friend :( can't bear with him anymore after the revelations. I can't stand to look at him after that so i decided to end it up. have a great day!

My best friend since 7th grade actually confessed about 10 years ago that he was madly in love with me and always has been. The conversation started out one night over dinner that we needed to catch up more instead of going so long between seeing each other. I asked him why he was single and he said he was waiting for this girl to wake up and smell the "juston". I thought that was odd and then he told me about this girl that he met when he was a kid and told me all these wonderful qualities. I was envious, as I always wanted to be considered beautiful, talented, wonderful, caring, honest, and was really laid back. Well, the drunker we got the quicker it slipped out that he was madly in love with ME! I was all of those wonderful things he said. I was THAT girl. Unfortunately, he's more a brother than a boyfriend and I told him that too. I didn't do it harshly but he knows all my bads goods and uglies and I just felt it was nice having a friend that cared enough to listen. We are still friends today, he's finally found a girl that matches some of those things and they have children together. I am proud of him.

hello cat, I remember one friend who claims and tell it to my friends and relatives that he loves me,days before his wedding (shocking) This happens during my younger days,i was 16 years old then. He is a good friend and count him as a brother since he is older for 12 years. Then,days before his wedding,he was a bit drunk and was looking at me in my aunt's souvenir shop where i work part time. It happens that i was not there that time,and with frustration he was almost shouting and saying that he loves me...but was not able to tell me because i was too young. My cousin told me what happened the next day,and it was a real shocked for me. How could he do that,his wedding is due,and what happen if his bride to be will come to know that. I was a bit angry and looked for him too,and when i found him i almost punch his face..but i hold my temper. He was sorry,and admitted that he loves me...he repeatedly says that he loves me. Gosh,i want to crushed him and say that...he should respect his bride to be. On the day of their wedding i never show'd up...i don't want to create any trouble if ever he sees me. And after that,i decided to stay in my grandparents hometown for sometime to avoid him. it's not a good experience...and it's not the first time that a friend of mine admitted secretly that he had fallen in love with me but was scared to admit in my face. Have a great day always dear

Hi sweet love forever: I think once, one of my best female friends have fallen in love with me. She have never asked me this idrectly but she gave me some clues. I like her but I wasn't really interested on starting a relationship with her so I know I would be honest. Thanks God it seems that she has noticed that I wasn't interested on her but only as a friend so she now has some other interests and it didn't affect our friendship. ALVARO

That was a good move not doing anything after hearing from your sister that your friend liked you. Ladies should never make the first move. I have a friend who liked me before, i only said liked because i can't say it was really love because we were too young then. He said he liked me and wanted us to be more than friends but i really said no because i don't have any feelings for more than friends. And because i know that my best friend likes him. I also wasn't ready to fall in love that time. Studying was really my first priority. We remained friends after we talked and then after a few months they got together with my best friend. I was very happy because i know that my best friend was happy.

Hi, In my case, love always started from a friendship and when it ended it not only destroyed the love but also the friendship. Some people are never ready for break ups. Some anticipate break ups even before making the proposition. Now when someone has no direct contact with you will prefer to use a medium to establish contacts. This has two advantages. First of all, it makes an unreachable person reachable. Secondly, if the proposal gets rejected, you can still maintain a good relationship with him, as the rejection was rather subtle and indirect. You never have to say yes/no on someone's face. Because of all these advantages, a person chooses an indirect way to reach the person he thinks he likes. In my opinion, you can never be true friends with someone you find attractive. Thanks. God bless you.

My bestfriend loves me but did not made clear of his feelings. Back in college, he said me he needed to say something to me but he will tell it on our graduation day. We were still in our second year. I told him he will forget that after 2 years. He said he won't. Graduation comes and I ask him what was that he wanted to say to me, and he answered "Never mind. It's not important". I did not insisted anymore coz i know why. He did not have the courage to say his feelings anymore because I was into a serious relationship at that time. A year after that, I pulled a prank on him saying me and my bf had broken up. And he said, "Ok, so now I have the chance on you". But really even if I wasn't into a relationship, I couldn't love him more than a friend. He's a nice and sweet guy, but I can only offer him friendship and nothing more.

Hi, My response to your question is yes, a friend did fell in love with me once. However, he never tell me in person, because my other friend talked him out of it. (My friend knew I didn't like him in that way) lol. I was really surprised though..because he seemed to act really natural and comfortable when he was around me. But when he was with some group of girls, he was really shy. Anyways, I didn't want to break this friendship so I didn't say anything. ^-^ I guess our stories are quite alike in some ways. We are still good pals now~

ya many of my friends felt in love with me but i told them to be as friends if they don't agree i'll not speak to them

I had this really sweet guy friend who I loved more then any girlfriend I have ever had. I use to joke and tell him he was the best guy/girl friend in the world. He and I could speak on the telephone for hours every night and share so many things. I started to notice that he had something for me so I told him that I could not be with him as I saw him like a family member, and I explained how friends cannot date as if the dating does not work out then the friendship will die. He always told me he understood but as time when by I noticed he was getting more serious. No matter how many times I told him I could not date him he one day dared and kissed me. From then sweet our friendship went down the tubes. I use to talk to him daily and now maybe one time per year. As I did not want him to get hurt as I could never date him. He did get hurt but at least I was honest with him.

Well we already kind of discussed that :D As i said if i love someone i know it the first moment we met ;) Then is the time i somehow get to know if we are going to be only friends or i'm going to love her ;) or maybe she is annoying :PPPPP But well i got one girl that i fell for and well she is my friend for like 6-7 years now and well i have the feeling somewhere stored in there , for me its kind of special friend :) Well if some friend tell me that she love me i will react depending on the friend :P i got some friends that are very nice and sweet that i might give it a try but well it never happens :P I suck :D

haha,the same to me. once a upon time,I love my best friend.She realize my meanings.But we pretend nothing to happen,until each oue of us got marry with other person.oh,it is fate for us. It is that all