minding one's business

I worked in a bakery and did the same thing. I had to lift the mixing bowl with the bread dough in it several times a day. My collegue noticed that I was losing weight...or gaining muscle and even commented on how "stocky" I got. I took it to offense after hearing her tell the others she thought I was on speed and steroids, and then I bit her face off. She was rather plump and iced cakes constantly so guess where her weight came from?? I worked there for about 5 years, and when I work manual labor, I tend to tone up. I am also 5'0" tall and not really 115lbs. And to her comment on my weight, Puh! I actually gained 10 lbs of muscle in my back, thighs, and arms. I told her to mind her own business and do her job. It's rude and insulting and I appreciate it when people keep to their own sometimes. These are the moments when the "mean girl" comes out and I want to look at them and say "awww jealous much?".

That's too much for people to jump into conclusions for something they know nothing about. That's really offensive. And sometimes, too, they bring out the demon in us.

That's right, gaiza. We would be the first to know if we are uncomfortable with the way we look and it is not their business what we are wearing. They didn't buy the dress, anyway, so why care? If they had nothing better to say, then just don't say anything, right? It's better for all. Sigh!

Quite right, hatley. We are not blind and we know what we look like. I like your reply..."is there anyting else you want to know?" It will surely floor them. I'll do the same to this person next time. You are a fighter, hatley, and I like that. Thanks for your response, hatley.

I agree with you. They show who they are by what comes out of their mouth. Thanks for your response, jane.

You are right, stepmanimbao. I should remember it....being talked about means we are worth talking about. I actually smiled when I read your last line. Thanks for making my day end with a smile.