who makes you laugh when your feeling lonely?

Philippines
December 15, 2010 9:14am CST
i feel lonely right now i feel like no one loves me... and im trying to make myself happy. im trying to laugh but its not working.i feel sad still..:(
6 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
19 Dec 10
I have been in a similar situation...and I feel like that mostly in the winter, because it is hard to find activities that I like to do. So...what about spending some quality time on yourself...a facial (oatmeal and honey works if you are strapped for cash), a foot soak in warm water and bubble bath, or soaking your fingernails and giving yourself a manicure. Sometimes, when the kids are gone and I am able to go to the store...I "window shop" but I really have to be in the mood for this, but it makes me feel so good writing down all the things that I am going to buy.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
16 Dec 10
Yeah, we all go through those depressing times once in a while. Don't feel sad about that. You are not the only one for that. There are ups and downs in life, not just downs always. There will ups after the downs. One of the ways I try to get rid of deppressive feeling is to listen to my favorite songs and music. Jazz music is one of my favorites. It really makes me refreshed and happy. What is your favorite music ?
@peavey (16936)
• United States
15 Dec 10
I don't think the opposite of feeling lonely and unloved is laughing. I think it's contentment or a basic change of attitude. Have you ever gone to church? You might find something there...
@jane239 (521)
15 Dec 10
I'm sorry that you feel the way you do. Most of us have moods like that sometimes but they tend to pass. I'll call someone or email a friend if I'm not in the mood for talking. Or I put my favourite music on or some comedy DVD's to help lift my mood.
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
15 Dec 10
Hi glimpse, Why should you feel lonely and no one to love you when you have got such a large pool of friends in mylot. just mix up with them, contribute in their joy and happiness and you will forget your sadness and loneliness and earn some money too. As for me When I am sad along with mylot I have got my two lovable daughters and a beautiful wife. Try to get a partner for you if there isn't one. That will solve lot of your problems.
• Ecuador
15 Dec 10
When I'm feeling alone... the only thing that makes me happy is any person I love telling me how much he/she loves me, and demonstrating it. That's the only way I'll get happy.