Blast From Long Ago

December 15, 2010 2:26pm CST
It has been almost a decade since we broke up, yet I still dream of him. I am happy with my current relationship. I even tell him about the dreams and how I feel disturbed having them. He understands. My past and I are still friends. He has a new gf and I have a very good relationship (6 and a half years) at the moment. But still, I am having dreams. Unresolved issues? I decided to just erase everything related to him -- his phone number (as well as his sister's and his bro's). I removed them from my friends list in FB as well. I hope the dreams would stop at this point. I think of my current bf all the time, but I dream of him. Tsk. I hope I won't anymore. It is bothering me!
1 response
missybear
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Dec 10
I think it's normal. I had a boyfriend for 7 years that I was crazy in Love with even though he was such a crazy, scary, violent but also loving person. I've been in a loving relationship for over 8 years now but still think about my ex . He used to call me after we broke up and we talked but sometimes that got out of hand so now we haven't spoken or seen each other in about 2 years. Even now when the phone rings and I look at the area code I always wonder if it's him......I quit answering the calls cause it caused static with my honey and I figured it's time to cut the ties.
luvnidandan
@luvnidandan (131)
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15 Dec 10
Yeah, I think it's time to totally erase everything. I think it might help me in not seeing something related to him at all. Maybe the dreams would stop. I hope so. I do not keep this from my bf at all. Then I would tell him I am sorry, but dreams are out of my conscious control. Current bf even asked me why I deleted things related to ex. I said it's better this way, I guess.