How do you select Christmas gifts?
By scheng1
@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
December 17, 2010 1:30am CST
Christmas is coming. Some of us have completed shopping for Christmas gifts, while the rest of us are still thinking what to buy.
How do you select Christmas gifts? Do you make or buy? Do you pay attention to the cost of Christmas gift?
Do you have a budget for Christmas gift?
If you want to buy cheap yet elegant Christmas gift, what are some of the items that come to mind?
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12 responses
@nadrolski (220)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
i usually give gift to people i ONLY know best. like this morning, i went to a near-by mall to look for an "advance-christmas" gift for my seven (7) year old brother. he loves characters like ben 10, phineas & ferb, bakugan, beyblade, etc. but i think of something different besides his favorites and aimed for a WWE Royal Rumble Action Figure, and immediately grabbed the Triple H action figure. i do not know if the price matters, because there were two Triple H figures there: one that can do "punching" action and costs Php1.3k (around $30.00+), and another that is the typical wrestling action figure but with lots of accessories (like Triple H's signature weapon, the Sledgehammer, etc.) which costs Php1.5k ($35.00+). since it is christmas, and of course, he is my favorite brother, so i choose the one with the Sledgehammer thing :D. and still not contented, i grabbed another couple of toys, a Tech Deck skateboard and a neon-colored-theme Hot Wheels muscle car. at this moment, the toys are still in my possession and i will surprise him later before he and our parents go to Taiwan. i believe the excitement and his eager on his face to play with them later is priceless.
and my next gift-hunting will be next week for my daughter. i am sporting a kinda-long beard and i hope the sales ladies won't laugh if they see a beard-man staring at those Barbie dolls and its accessories.
i conclude, you can be "cheap" when it comes to giving gifts to others, but the price will not matter when it comes to giving gifts to your special ones.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
17 Dec 10
Hi Nadrolski, your younger brother is lucky to have you as a brother.
I think that is the best part of being so young, with many older brothers and sisters around.
I hope you do not spoil him!
The problem is that while buying gifts for our loved ones is quite easy, since we love them and know what they want, buying gifts for colleagues and bosses are not that easy.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Dec 10
Well this year was the first time I was finished way ahead of time and the best thing is that everything is paid off. That has never happened before. So I have been blessed this year. As for gift giving I usually ask my two grown daughters what they want or need. Then I pick a few items from the list and buy them. This year will be the first time I'm separated from my girls since they are living in New Mexico and I'm living in Puerto Rico. However, I had everything mailed to them and they will open them on Christmas morning. I also had a bunch of stuff sent for my granddaughter. I like to give gifts that are needed so that is why I usually ask. My parents since they have everything they need I sent them giftcards to buy food and gas. They received the gifts today and were happy because the gift won't take up space. As for cheap but elegant I always think anything to do with candles is pretty cheap but classy too. I also try to keep a budget and this year I did and I'm just so happy that I'm going into the new year with no credit card debt. Its a greatest feeling. Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Lelin, I love candles too.
I have the intention to buy scented candles as gifts for my colleagues. The best about candles is that they are not fragile, look elegant, and yet affordable.
You must really enjoy yourself in Puerto Rico. Are you there on holiday or work? How is the weather over there?
Puerto Rico is one of the places I love to visit one day, and experience the culture of the people.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Lelin, I really admire your courage to just pack and go.
Are you staying alone or with your family?
I guess it is quite tough if you migrate to another country without friends and family around.
Are you buying a place or renting a place?
If you find Puerto Rico unbearable in term of weather, you should try Singapore. Our place here is hot and humid. The sweat sticks to your body, and the air tastes of salt when you are near to the seaside.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Dec 10
Well I have to say I have been blessed and have bascially retired to Puerto Rico. I worked for 32 years in New York and then moved to New Mexico for about three in half years. I just moved to PR in August and loving it. At this time of the year The weather is usually about 90 degrees during the day, and at night it can go down to about 65 degrees. It is mostly though in the 70's during the evening. When I first arrived here the heat was unbearable (and I love the heat) but it was because it was hurricane season and it would just get so hot I was taking anywhere up to 4 showers aday. That period lasted about two weeks for me. Its just a slower pace of living and just a happier lifestyle for me.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
18 Dec 10
For any holiday or birthday I pretty much know what the interests of most my family are and even friends. I also ask them and provided them with suggested ideas that can always be useful or wanted. I also let them know the limit of spending. Of course there is always the usual joking of wanting a Mercedes or a diamond ring far beyond my affordability but usually we buy between a $5 and $25 limit. I try to shop early and all year. I still have shopping to do though as we have had some new additions to the family recently. Doing this eliminates unwanted or needed gifts and still if you have a list of 5-10 items someone can use or needs they are not sure what you will choose so they are still both pleased and surprised.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 10
I usually only give a gift to my family members and also to my love one, depends on my budget. I don't usually buy expensive thing but I always make sure that the gift is something that they can use everyday or at least few times a week. Books, jumper, socks, games, and so on are my favourite gifts to buy. Sometimes if I have ran out of idea, then I will just ask my sibling what kind of gifts they wanted. Have a nice day and Merry Christmas in advance
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Kodukodu, I wish I can just give gifts to my family members.
Just too bad that my colleagues practice Christmas gifts giving, so i have to buy something too.
It does not look nice for them to give me, and for me to go empty handed.
Not all companies practice gift-giving. All my former workplace did not have this practice. We just worked half day on Christmas Eve, and wished everyone a happy holiday.
@melodielove (9)
• United States
18 Dec 10
Oh my god, Christmas! I am so looking forward to it right now. As a student that is currently taking exams, I am really looking forward to this upcoming vacation! I haven't bought my Christmas gifts yet. But I usually select my Christmas gifts based on quality and prices and whom I am giving it to. I don't really have a budget yet, but I just plan to head down to the mall after the exams are over and see what I can find. If I want to buy cheap yet elegant Christmas gift, I might buy a pretty necklace that looks expensive or decorative things on huge sale. Have a wonderful Christmas!
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Melodie, nobody expects you to buy expensive gifts. I think all your friends and relatives prefer you to spend more time on studies and get better result.
I think it is good to check out those shops which offer discount to students. You might want to think of buying from fellow students who hand-made the items. I think that will make it very special.
@leeh2229 (85)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
When selecting a christmas gift for someone.. i believe that it is best if the gift is what best suit their personality for them to appreciate it. It is also cool if you bring personal touch to the gift. Anyways it that thought that counts! :D Merry Christmas to all!
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Leeh, for immediate friends and family, thoughts do count more than the value of the gifts.
However, for those people in the company, the worst happens when you buy the cheapest gift of all, and your boss remembers you forever.
Just too bad that Christmas has become such a commercialized holiday, and also a tool for some people in the office to get close to their bosses, in order to get more salary and promotions.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
17 Dec 10
I choose my gifts carefully. They have to be something the person has wanted for a long time or something they would want if they knew about it or thought about it but it is a complete surprise and they are very, very pleased when they open it. When someone opens a gift from me they know I have thought a lot about them and what they like. Sometimes I buy things that people need--I got my son some sheets last year as he didn't have any on his bed. But they were 1500 count sheets that were soft as butter and very luxurious. Every night he goes to bed he knows I love him and want him to be comfortable.
Parents are hard to buy for. Mine are 84, 89 and 86--stepmother, dad and mom. I heard my stepmother say on Thanksgiving that she loved a certain kind of candy but it wasn't for sale in stores so I ordered her 2 pounds of it for a Christmas gift! Dad like it, too, so that will do for both of them. I got Mom a thick, soft bathmat because the bathroom floor hurts her old feet. I got my sister soft, fuzzy socks that she admired when she was here but would never think to get for herself.
That's how I choose gifts! They may not be expensive most of the time but they convey my love.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Dragon, you do have very good genes.
Since your three parents live till such an old age, I bet you can live to a hundred and more.
Over here, Christmas is more like a commercial holiday. Some companies with mainly young employees join in the fun of having a Christmas party, and gift exchange.
Those companies under Chinese bosses or other non-Christian bosses are unlikely to join this type of celebration.
For us, the traditional festival, such as Chinese New Year, Deepavali, and Hari Raya are more important.
That is why gift giving during Christmas is not really that widespread. I need to buy gifts this year since my colleagues will buy. However, I do not need to buy for my immediate family members.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
17 Dec 10
This year is my "hom-made" Christmas, and gifts have been chosen by things that I can make. The little kids, were given two gifts a piece and they were items that they both asked for. The older kids are getting items that they will all be able to use in future years and for future holidays, along with some Christmas food. I have one gift left to make for my Mom, and then I will be done with all my Christmas gifts. I have had so much fun this year making gifts for my family.
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
I really have a list for the people I give gifts during Christmas. I always wanted those people to receive what they like. I make sure that my gift won't be wasted so I find ways on how to know what their wishes are. Christmas happens only once a year so I guess, I can give my loved ones elegant gifts if that's what they want. I budget my money enough among them and shop for the best.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
17 Dec 10
Hi Reco, that is a good way of managing your budget as well as giving the best for your loved ones.
For some of us, Christmas is a social holiday, instead of the most important festival in the year.
For example, we value Chinese New Year more than Christmas, since we are Chinese, and Christmas is just a commercial holiday. However when our company celebrates this festival, we have to start buying Christmas gifts.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Dec 10
I try to treat everyone differently that is on my christmas list. some are easy and joyful to buy for. Some are more difficult to find that right gift. i like to make a few of my gifts as well. I get more joy from giftgiving when it comes from my heart and not just my wallet.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Sender, if I have the talent to bake or make handicraft, I would try to make things myself.
I think it is more meaningful in this way.
Actually I do not celebrate Christmas, and most companies I had worked for did not celebrate it as well. In a sense, it saves a lot of money for us. They normally spent more on Chinese New Year, Hungry Ghost Festivals than other holidays.
However, this year, I join a new company, and my colleagues will be buying Christmas gifts, so I have to follow the tradition.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
17 Dec 10
Initially,I try out various things to buy for Christmas gifts.But among those gifts some gifts turn out to be useless to the person.It's not two or three persons I am talking about.I give out presents to all my relatives involving more that 30-50 people.In such a case,I run out of gifts very easily.So I turned to buying apparels as gifts which surely will be useful to everyone.They are cheap indeed and vary well fit in my budget.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Narnia, I am in about the same shoes.
My immediate family, close friends and relatives do not celebrate Christmas, so we do not have the gift-exchange party.
However, my colleagues enjoy the buying and giving of gifts. I need to think about what to buy that will please everyone. I think buying apparels is a good idea.
@aishiya (14)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
I haven't done shopping for Christmas gifts and I'm still in the thinking mode.
I select Christmas gifts based on the receivers' likes or needs. For example, my brother is into gadgets and high-tech stuffs so I buy stuff that are computer related but since he's not into games and entertainment, that's when the difficulty of choosing a gift for him comes. My sister on the other hand prefers cute but not too girly stuff. She's more of a rocker who likes cute stuff. That's another challenge, what are the things that she considers cute but not too girly. Flowery stuff are definitely a no-no. My mom is into clothing, jewelry and other accessories but my style is totally different from so I have to be pretty careful about it. My dad on the other hand loves gardening and carpentry but he already have everything he needs so I sometimes take a look at his tools and see if there's anything else that he doesn't have.
Listening and paying attention to what others like usually helps aside from being observant on what they usually own or collects.
Staying on budget is a must for me. I don't want to go overboard on the prices of my gifts. Before I decide on what to buy, I must first be very firm on my budget per person before deciding on what to buy.
In case what I'm intending to buy is way above my budget or I bought something cheaper, I would make sure that I will wrap the gift with some personal touches and a little creativity plus a simple note or a poem that I personally wrote.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
18 Dec 10
Hi Aishiya, it is actually quite easy to buy for immediate family members, since we know what they want, and we can listen to them complaining about lacking this or that.
The difficulty comes when buying for many people, such as the colleagues and friends in the office environment.
The problem comes when you do not buy for someone in the next department, and she gives you something. I think that is quite embarrassing if you just buy enough for all you want to give.