the lovers should be together or not be together?

I suppose people immediately assume this because they think that one or the other will develop other interest and somehow loose the zest for the relationship. It really depends on the couple really as love can be strong enough to overcome all obstacles. Good luck to you both.

well..im with my bf for about 6years now..me live in the different city and it's soo hard to see each other because we're still studying and we just keep in touch with calls and messages..i think in your case..it will last as long as both of you have faith in each other and love each other..yeah..i do sound like im too matured but it;s true..even if lovers see each other everyday and got to spend all time together..it will not work out if one of them cheat or the didn;t trust each other..

I can understand that a long distance relationship is not easy. But two years is not a short time. I wonder whether both of you still study in the college? If so, perhaps in the future when you graduate, you can find a job which make you live in the same city. As you will be free after graduation. Good luck! I love China

If two people really truly love each other then no matter how far the distance that will separates them they will eventually be together in each others arms one day. Love will never fades but sometimes people change and when they changed the feelings also changes. But other long distance love affair survive the test of time. Only the love so strong can withstand the trials and test of time.Hope you and your love one will keep the love alive in your hearts. What is meant will truly be together in the end. Good luck to your relationship.

It would drive me crazy, to have a long-distance relationship. it's definitely not for everyone that's for sure. But if you can make it work out, then good on you. There's no such thing as a "perfect relationship". For me, physical contact and just being around them in general is a MUST. But if you both are in love, and are meant to be together..You both will make it work - somehow, some way!

it is part of consequences for two person who love each other and separated with a distance, as long as communication run well and both trust each other everything will be ok. for how long it going to end ask him for serious relation maybe married is the best option then is going to end

Hello callofwind...you know what? I was once a victim of long term engagement that was just being broke down by distance relationship. I mean, we never meant to be because we've been apart for a long period of time until everything went gone. All of this was because of distance love affair. Well, though I believe in some sayings that "no matter what would happen if you both are meant for each other, all will be done"... For me as long as it could be avoided lovers should not be apart to avoid the risk of unexpected separation. But time has lot of factors or reasons why a certain relationship would turn into "sourness" then into complete separation may it be between a married couple or just a mere boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I think it would all depend on the situation. If both parties would be willing to sacrifice their individual interest for the sake of their relationship they must do all means and ways to stay them closed together.... Nice topic my friend... Thanks... Mobhomeir here...

Yes, of course they should be together, especially if they love each other and soon will be together for all time. I am assuming you have been in contact and you have been communicating with each other. It is up to the people in the relationship if they want to be together or not.

People are doubtful whether the relationship will last or not because of the saying "out of sight out of mind!" But this does not apply to all. There's just a greater possibility that it will not work out because of distance because love is so demanding and it needs physical intimacy! There are some exceptions though especially when the love is pure and true, it can overcome any obstacles including the distance. So, if yours is working out, then you are one of those lucky ones!