Family atmosphere
By thanks1961
@thanks1961 (7035)
India
December 18, 2010 4:51am CST
Hi all,
It is my curiosity - on being with myLot have you any one felt a family atmosphere in myLot? - I mean, the closeness, openness, sincerity, cooperation, etc. More than a friendship, I think the relationship goes more precise and attached. Just like all friends here are same from one family? Some time I think how friendly we all and just like a feel of being in the home? Does anyone feel whenever we engage in the discussions? What is your opinion on this?
Thank-s
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19 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
18 Dec 10
MyLot for me is my online home and over the years since I joined it has become my online family, The more you intereact with the regulars then the more you get to know them and it feels like you have met them personally.
I have a bunch of online neices and nephews here now
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi Mysidan/Richa,
I expect both of you would come with your views. Thanks for your comments. It is really our online Big Home.
Thank-s
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
23 Dec 10
Hiya thanks,
Sometimes I do it´s just that I cannot be on here long enough really. I do engage in responses as much as I can and I try to come across as well as I can too. Whether or not the other Person feels the same I really cannot know.
I can be friendly and chatty but I love the other Family offline and relatives too.
It´s a bit of a mixed bag of feelings because although I feel chatty and all that the other People might not feel that to the same degree. Again I don´t know because I am not sure how others feel.
In the end I try to be here as often as I can. I cannot do any more than that. Take care now.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Jan 11
Hiya thanks,
Yes I suppose we all try to do the same thing be on mylot as much as we can. I have missed one or two that I have not heard of for months. It´s like they were part of my own Family.
There are at least two or three, one has just come back again after many months of being away.
I´m pretty sure that it is their Job with many many long hours that keeps them from being here so often.
Enjoy your mylotting as well thanks same feeling here reciprocated. Thanks very much right now I have a challenging time with a lot of offline work to do but I will try and keep up as much as possible.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Jan 11
It is an effective and open fact that if myLot earning varied little more, I am very much sure that all of the crowd will reman and am sure that those left myLot also will come back. Here we got the unique feature that the addiction. But people are not always the same and their circumstances will change time to time.
Many will find better of good jobs, job changes, place changes, and so many other factors would affect to keep away from myLot or such places. But if the admin realise the fact do the modifications periodically, they can retain all the people who left form myLot.
In fact company is looking for more of new people and they will many not require the oldies to remain more. I am here nearly one year now and there were so many old friend and not even 10% are now here and they got their own reason for being keep away from here. But from their comments, once thing is sure that after a period of time, once they enjoyed the charm and fame, they want to stay stiff by a better earning too. As it comes a slower ratio, they would move to looking for still better ones.
But I am sure that here we all got a family, a big family with fun and a lot of enjoyment too.
Thanks for your remarks.
Thank-s
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
24 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Everyone do the same – they will try to be around as much as they can. Your words itself is saying that you like to be whenever have time. This liking is the fact that we are here for little bit of talking and sharing. It is a nice feel that to communicate with people for some time when we are in a good mood. Here includes all. Our pleasure and feel is the main fact.
I hope whatever time you are here with myLot may be a kind of enjoyment and pleasing.
Thanks for your comments and response.
Thank-s
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 10
It is not surprising to have that feeling of closeness with each other here as we meet and interact almost everyday in mylot. I grow to understand individuals I come in contact here and yes, mylot is a place that I can really feel at home and the friends are more like my extended family.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Nice to know that you are really enjoying the myLot sessions. We can see that many people are really enjoying the variety of attractiveness of this site. It is really a family oriented because we get a feel of so understanding and the site deals with many of the family matters and worldly related subjects.
Regards,
Thank-s
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@kekexinfeng (1295)
• China
20 Dec 10
I also have this feeling,in mylot,I make a lot of friend,some from China,and a lot of from all of the word,we talk with each other,exchange the same opinion by English.I feel happy here,and I get more.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Thanks for yor comments. Yes, the wide spread English knowledge made the things so simple and made it so popular. We all have worldwide friends here and having a great relationships also.
Feel good that many friends here in myLot are really enjoying and the closeness make a wonderful attachment.
Thank-s
@vandana7 (100609)
• India
18 Dec 10
Thanks - that is a nice avatar. :) Anyway - yes. The reason is we are not facing the normal situations here. We dont face jealousies, anger, rough words,etc. We can simply choose to avoid people we dont get along with. In real life, it is different. Nevertheless, I like myLot very much. Here, I learn a lot.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Thanks for your comments.
Yes, here such words are have not much place. People here are more mild and have so much of understanding. It is not just because of myLot violation, but people interest only. I have notice that those who comes with some extras are not getting too much support and they are ignored. Many are concerned with decent and nice way of dealing and discussions. This comfort make all of us get more closer regardless of all demographic differences.
Thank-s
@harshavardini1 (235)
• India
21 Dec 10
hi friend,
i'm attached and i feel the closeness, friendly and the family atmosphere in mylot.
we can discuss and solve others problems just like how we solve our family problem.
many discussions have touched my feelings i'm very thankful to all mylot users thank you friends:)
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
23 Dec 10
Hi Harsha,
Yes, many friends here got the feeling of a homeliness and a better openness towards many of the subjects discussed here. Even though all are coming here with different issues, it may be some way or other related to everyone and it becomes a common issue for all. That is why many are commenting on the topic as it felt to them as well.
Good to know that you enjoy the myLot sessions just like a family get together.
Thanks for your comments.
Thank-s
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Dec 10
hi thanks it to me is verymuch a family atmosphere and here I am accepted and not scorned for being elderly at all. I love my wonderful mmylot friends who have always been here for me and I am truly beholden to them all.It is a wonderful feeling to have friends
from all over who really care about you and I find how much I have
'come to care about all of them too. it really is a great site and
a great experience too.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
18 Dec 10
Maybe I haven't been active enough, or I have a different approach. I love seeing other views, and to me I look at this somewhat as a college class. Individuals coming together to learn and grow, treating each other with due respect, and goodness. When I "log off" I am with my family who loves and cares for me.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
It may be my fault. I got a drawback that people I have so close with me always feel like a family member. From the very child hood to this date I do like and this may be the reason why I asked this question. Now-a-days, I am too much with myLot and all my free time is here with myLot. Every day I sees all these faces and talks and talks like anything and they responds. As this is on going and goes like a continuation since a long period of time, now it makes me all you are a member of my family of something like that.
May it is my own feeling. In fact there is no commitment or any kind of relations other than the mental movement through the key board and monitor. Still it touches somewhere in the mind and reflects that there are some people still sitting and communicating somewhere - from so far way, no even knowing nothing about those people, still make a feeling of the family member. Feel strange, but it is like that for me.
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Yes, you are true. A family means togetherness in common for a period of time. Be here for sometime and i think you will get the feeling later on.
Best regards,
Thank-s
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
21 Dec 10
Hi thanks: I have this ame feeling too. I have shared a lot of feeling around different problems on Mylot that for me we are really a family. When we share a lot of thing swith the other members we become a kind of familty: we start knowing better our friends, we care for them, give them and also receive some very good advices, etc. So I totally agree with you. Thanks for sharing with us your thoughts. Merry Christmas.
ALVARO
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
18 Dec 10
Hi Thanks,
For me, yes, my life has become and extended family kind of thing for me., I just have a few friends who are more close to me - even closer than many of my family members and I have no guilt in admitting this.
I have a few great people and I expect to meet some more on a daily basis with whom I would love to grow my relationships. I know we are miles/countries/even continents apart, and many just would be the opposite of what they are here but still... I feel close and like a family.
All this just because of a few things -
1. We have been sharing personal issues with others
2. Getting suggestions and views that even our real-life friends would not have been able to give us (I say this because we know our friends and they know us... many a times, they would just not show you the bad side/aspect just because they are aware you would not like it... Nothing of that sort here... if there is a bad thing up they would still say it out loud and clear)
I think the participation in the personal discussions does bring me close and attached to them.
Regards,
theSids.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
I felt that you will feel so. Also no need to feel a guilt, but can be proud. We are truly involved and sincerely participating so that we get such a feeling of closeness.
I cannot say how true it for all others, atlest few like us are maintaining an open and more precise attachment with our friends here. It is a best example that may are come back after a break and looking for friends. Some of the discussions I read and found how close they were been in those days. Many are so happy to give them welcome back and such greetings. So, it is really a great place for us to keep our mind to cool and relaxed.
Thanks for your comments.
Regards,
Thank-s
@nicregi (1934)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 10
Hi there!
In fact, I always consider myLot as a family place. Whenever I have any doubts or questions, a simple post (start discussion) and I can get tons of replies. This is definitely great and I am loving it. Even though I am not earning the amount I am targeting, but myLot is definitely a fun place to be at! Proud to be a member of myLot! Definitely!
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Nice to hear from you.
I think this is the feel for many of us over here. Several people have already agreed that some of the suggestions and recommendations through myLot friends are really helped and to resolve some of the issues. I really appreciate such recommendations that our friends provides. Feel good that you are really enjoying the sessions out here.
Regards,
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
Yes, this is what I mean, we all are the members of a big family and only difference is that it doesn't happens to meet each other. This may be a reason why, a discussion with an 'Avatar' posted member is appeared we feel more comfortable that we are talking to someone in front of us. May be it can be a kind of psychological phenomenon. However, many have the opinion that all of us are part of a big family.
Thank-s
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Yes friend I feel that too, so different here from all the other sites, that's why I feel excited whenever it is Mylot time already, I want to check what my friends posted, the new posts and what people have to say to my post.Enjoying while earning and learning is really fun.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
18 Dec 10
Hi dear,
I feel happy that you all are enjoying the sessions. Being here is it is a good experience a better time ahead.
Thanks for your comments.
Thank=s
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
18 Dec 10
I enjoy my time at mylot... I don't know if I would call it a family atmosphere... but I also don't think my own family atmosphere is all that great either. But, I do enjoy my conversations here and feel like if I need help with a problem people at mylot are always ready to lend an ear and advice for my situations.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
19 Dec 10
Hi thanks anna, Yes i like this mylot site so much, we can chat, discuss, give response very open, make good friends. You can see nice people over like you, who not only cooperate, they will guide, give good support, leave their opinion, share views. Nice decent people you can see here. This is like a place where we can feel meeting place for family members and good friends. I feel like telling the known members hi when i see in the discussions as if they are like a college friends but with all age groups. No restriction for the age, place, all are equal. Nice place with nice people from all over the world. That is why i will tell this is a MYLOT CITY.
Have a great day anna.
@figurativeme (1089)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
More like am in a circle of friends. Sometimes, you open up more to friends than to families. There are things I have shared here which I have not open to families and relatives.