Ever had a crush over someone you can never forget about!?
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
United States
December 19, 2010 3:59am CST
I had my first real crush/love in the fourth grade. Once I laid eyes on him .... It was like I knew he was the one and I liked him for a long time.. things between us never worked out but anyway it seems like I can't let it go. It's like apart of me will always have some sort of feeling for him.
Can anyone relate? If not do you remember your first real love?
11 responses
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 10
I didn't care much about my first crush anymore. but there is someone which I like since I was 15. But we are close friends and it is very hard to make a move when we afraid we might lose the friendship. She's still single now while I already have a son and happily married. Maybe we are not meant to be together. But there is no regret of course. We are still friend though.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
19 Dec 10
Lol, you said that so fast, I didn't care too much about my first crush. But anyway, yeah we will always have "someone" in our minds but I'm glad you're both still friends and good to hear you're happily married and have a son. :) Keep it up!
@harshavardini1 (235)
• India
19 Dec 10
i didn't have crush but when he proposed me i also accepted and fel in lovw deeply wiyh him but he was playing with me in the name of love:-(
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
19 Dec 10
Oh my gosh, what happen?
A guy proposed to you and you accepted and it turned into a joke? Playing with you? What :( Oh my gosh..
Sorry to hear and thanks for sharing.
@harshavardini1 (235)
• India
20 Dec 10
he came back to me and apologizing me what shall i do i still love him but i don't trust him
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@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
19 Dec 10
Yes, I think that first crush and real love stands out in our hearts and minds forever.
My first crush was in kindergarten, and I had crushes on girls ever since. None of them (of course) was any sort of "real love", but when Denise and I kissed (yeah, in Kindergarten) it was out of attraction, not just giggles.
If you ever saw the tv show, "The Wonder Years", Kevin and Winnie's relationship mirrored ours pretty well.. except they were in Jr High and High School.. we were in Elementary and Jr. High. :~D
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@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
19 Dec 10
Asian. All I know is when we kissed, it wasn't like kissing my sister or grandma. I never considered that my "first love", but it was the first time I kissed a girl, knowing that I really REALLY liked her and kissing her.
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 10
Well I never had such feeling over someone which I never had a real relationship with but I do remember my first real love. I really cared for him and I was always happy to have him around. But he made be believe at the end that he was not my first real love because he ended up cheating on me with someone else. After that I found someone else who is now going to be my husband and we have known and been together for 5 years. I believe he is my first real love and my biggest crush in my life hehe. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
20 Dec 10
I am sorry to hear that you were cheated on and glad you moved on and found someone that is a keeper :) Best wishes to you and your soon to be husband. Thanks for sharing & have a nice day too! :D
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
I remember my first crush. He usually bully me during elementary days. He is like a chinese child actor. But later on, he told me he likes me that's why he usually does that. And I told him I like him too. But sad, we move to different place and I never see him after that day.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
19 Dec 10
@ Zaga_cleuth - Aww, I used to do that to a boy I liked, I made fun of him and stuff...
Sorry to hear that you both moved away :(
@thutton58 (16)
• United States
20 Dec 10
Had a big crush on one of the cheerleaders in high school..was very shy at the time..finally got enough nerve to call her and talk to her ..finally after a few phone calls I went to her house and had a really nice time..we just talked, told her I really liked her..guess she was not into me..only as a friend..I will never forget her she was my first crush..to bad she didnt get to know me..
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
20 Dec 10
Aw , sorry to hear and yeah our first crushes always stick by. Thanks for sharing :D
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
20 Dec 10
i had ever have a crush when i was still a teenager... both in high school and uni... it didn't work out for me as well... but fortunately, i am able to let them go and guess what??? God gives me a much better man for me which is now my hubby... i can still remember my crush every now and then... but that's about it... take care and have a nice day...
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@thenextnoel (396)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
The first one is always the hardest to forget. For me, I've forgotten all my crushes lol :P I guess it was just puppy love and nothing serious, although at the time I really felt as if we were meant to be...
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@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
20 Dec 10
I remember my first love, and what I felt was very strong, but it was a one sided love, and there was a moment when I just got tired and stopped caring.
Of course I don't feel like that anymore towards that person, as I know how to pass the page when it's neccessary. The first love is important, but new loves will always come, and we need to learn to leave the things of the past in the past, and go on with our present lives
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@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
19 Dec 10
Hello friend, i got two men in my life, who will never forget for sure.
One of them is the one, who i made my tattoo for, it's a shark and reminds me about our good experience together. I learned a lot of him, he wanted my best, but our life changed a lot and we went to different ways without each other. I was so so much hurt of him, it was large pain in the past, but now i realize that he did my best, without staying annoying and painful talking between us after we stopped talking. Now i got present relationship, which is pretty good and i love the person. But i bet that i'll never forget the green eyes of that person, it was just few months but he gave me so much emotions, i just can't compare it with my present relationship.
The second guy i met two years ago, we had great experience together too. Before i meet him, i liked mostly much older than me men. I always liked the emotions, for fun, communication with grown up, the fun with people, who are grown up and like their own life. Two years ago i met the guy, he was so strange, creative and interesting. He always stayed apart of me, like he didn't want to loose my interest, if you know what i mean. The most interesting stuff in life are these, which we don't know so good. That's how we feel like conqueror of something day by day, learning different stuff for the person. When i saw him, i felt like this person is the one for me and i wanted to live my life with him to the end. We didn't spend so much time together, only few full days with each other, at the other time we used phones and internet. When he watched my eyes i felt like he understand what i'm thinking about, he understand my secrets, my wishes, his eyes was like an ocean and i could read his soul. For my happiness that situation finished soon. As you said "things didn't worked out", and i'm thankful right now. I still got my great memories, which i'll never have with him, but i know that if i was able to know him better, it would be full of pain for me.
Now what i learned from all of that, that two relations which finished soon after starting is ... if you wanted to be with the person so much and if you thought that person will be perfect for you, you will always remember them.
A friend of mine told me a lot before an year, he told me - forgive yourself, forgive them and continue your own life with fighting, find the right person for you, who will love you and just move on. That's what i did. And if i have to be honest, right now, i'm still chatting with the second guy, who i loved so much, but all my feelings for him are calm and friendly. He just finished long relationship and even if he broke up with me without i wanted it and even if it was so painful for me to forget him (took one year of my life), i don't hate him. Instead of that i don't want to have so personal relations with him, he is just a friend and i'm ready to help him anytime.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
19 Dec 10
Hi there,
Thank you for sharing and I believe everyone will always have someone in their life that they won't forget because they impacted your life so much.
I hope all goes well for you :)
@harshavardini1 (235)
• India
19 Dec 10
i didn't have crush but when he proposed me i also accepted and fel in lovw deeply with him but he was playing with me in the name of love:-(
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