Some Mylot users are Still Arrogant and Defiant

Sadly there are older Lotters who seem to think that they can get away with things just because they have been here longer. That is not the case and when they get caught then the rules are the same for them/us as they are for everyone else. Patience Letran or your wrinkles will start showing long before time!

Good Evening LK25, One thing i like about this site is they are not tolerating any rude member here,like what jaiho2009 assured me before that no one will going to condemn me if im going to made some mistakes regarding my English grammar. I hope i will not experience it here coz i don't want to be disappointed :D. Rules is Rules though sometimes we need to break it hahahah!Just kidding Have a nice day!

Hey Letranknight! Chill out, my friend! Just ignore them. Do not put any discussion or response you read to be beyond what we expect of them. I mean, we have different personalities here my friend and there may be some who are truly nice and the others are arrogant. Some may be stubborn and others are not. Every time I read a discussion with regards to rule breaking here in mylot, it likewise makes me grin and say, "whaaat?"...But after a few seconds, I am fine with it. I never put it in my mind and put myself into trouble. Although there are times that I cannot also control myself not to butt in.

Ok. I've been here quite some time myself, and yes, I've been forced to report some discussions. Discussions that were designed to inflame rather than share an opinion. But I've also discovered several things along the way: 1. not everyone is a native speaker of the English language (sadly, that also includes people who claim to be fluent!), 2. it's easier to walk away rather than shout myself hoarse, that is to neg a particularly vulgar response, and 3. they WILL get what they deserve. I let the Admin folks do their job, and I vet to have less gray hairs by not worrying about pleasing everyone OR no one! :)

hi letran rules are rules not matter how long or short we have been here and lately one o lder user has popped up again with discussions that 'should be banned he insinuates that most of us do not agree with him and his words are you are a liar and a hypocrite. I blew up at one of his discussions. of course then mylot admins woke up and deleted it. he has made another bashing gays and using the same abusive terms and a gain I reported him to the admins.I cannot help wonder what enjoyment he gets out of riling people and getting his stupid arrogant discussions deleted.

hello LK, Hmnn...any veteran mylotter here acting rude? That's sad then...it should be veteran mylotters who will guide the newbies. If they keep acting rude,then how can we attract people to join and enjoy this site? I hope they (veterans) should be of help to newbies and not to drive the newbies away from this site. Have a great weekdays ahead dear brother

i agree with you totally on this... rules are rules and it applies for everybody here regardless of how senior or experienced you are... if you are a senior here, you even have to show good examples and be a role model for the other mylotters here and not play around with the rules... good on you for trying to enforce the rules here... take care and have a nice day...

I do not run into that too often. I did once. A seasoned user decided to copy/paste recipes, at the rate of one a minute in fact, for thirty minutes or more at a time. This was after she had done it one time, one recipe, and then a couple more, and I commented, without reporting her, that posting recipes was against the guidelines, and copy/paste of copyrighted materials was against the rules. She just said "Well, some people like my recipes." She is gone now. It is frustrating.

I hope I don't get reported by you if I slip and unconsciously stepped on your toes. Just because I have been here long enough to be considered an old horse that doesn't give me a license to be arrogant and defy the rules here. I am a law abiding citizen of mylot. But probably there are times when I am provoked which makes me defensive and turned tyranny verbally. That is rare though as I don't wish to be tagged as arrogant. There is no need to be arrogant as we are here for socializing and making decent income. Using swear or foul words will only create bad bloods which defeat the whole purpose of our existence here.

You call it pride with a dash of superiority complex. It's everywhere. Not just in myLot. Have you noticed that in your workplace, the seniors tend to be the grouchiest, edgiest, meanest people? As if they never were newbies in their time? MysD was right. They shouldn't feel like they are exempted from the rules just because they've been here a long time. But really, I don't know who we're referring at!

I know what you mean, and it is one thing that has kept the site from being wholly wholesome. I notice some fights and nasty exchange of words. Oh well, I have learned to stay away from those posts. I'd rather stay where I am than tread on those forbidden areas. It is more relaxing that way, no pressures, no stress.

Hi dear, But I think while we are preparing the response there may be certain words come up and some times in the absence of a substitute word is not matching with the context, it will post as per our wish. A few occasions, before submitting the content, I was warned saying that the particular word cannot be used and I substituted with another one. Also, I don’t know if we do not change the same word, it will accept to submit. I never used any bad word or abusive or such words ever and it is not my way of discussion. Of course, sometimes if we are not aware of the word and if it simply goes in, I am helpless and I have nothing to do as I am not aware of such words. I always prefer to go in a ‘decent’ way of communication and if anything find on the way, I never responded to it. Also, I don't think anyone want to do it purposively to demote anyone in such a way. But on the verge of the topic and discussion trend, some words may be only with that particular context and it many not mean to hurt anyone. Thank-s

Hello friend, once i had discussion deleted, because i wanted fresh and new ideas where to spend my birthday celebration and i learned to study from the mistakes of the others. Now i don't check so much my letters for the discussions of my friends, but for deleted discussions and topics - that's how i understand completely how to protect myself of such things. I don't know about the veterans or so on stuff you noticed, but i am trying to respect everyone here, trying to understand everyone here and trying to be as kind as it is possible with the people, who has different opinion than mine. I've never reported no one for his mistakes, even if it is needed, because one admin can't check everything with details. I think that people, who are serious here, who take Mylot as challenge and enjoy it, they know the rules and would never break them with what they do. People, which sometimes got 0 responses on their discussions, they need to ask themselves why is that? May be because the others, who keep the rules at first place, don't want to waste their time with discussion, which will be deleted. So if a person thinks so more about here, trying to have whole opinion for the website, it needs some thinking about what and why happens. Keep smiling, i like the blue horse

I would say that people should fully read the guidelines that are set. I must admit i have glanced through them but that was when i first joined. I try not to break any rules and i don't think i have in the time i have been here. I don't know how people that have been here for so many years can still carry on violating the rules that they know. Surely they should know better and to be honest they should lead by example for the new people like me that sign up to this site. We then wonder what we can and can't write. Maybe even the people that have been here years need to re read the guidelines again.

Oh I agree with you Letran. I just left a very rude discussion from a vetran Mylotter. I had to walk away from it, I was so angry. I had a long day at work and maybe some of it is me just being tired but I don't see the need in rudeness and name-calling...personal attacks and accusations. I've always had respect for the person so I just walked away and I'll avoid his discussions...it's easy enough.

Hi, Some of the so called all knowing veterans have been several times brought to book but they come up once again with a different account. Horrible it is that they are arrogant and defiant and would not mind to say you any vulgar words. This is really silly.

I have been on this site now for over two years and i love it, other than all the links that i keep getting sent all the time that is.There are a few people that have put silly things up on here as a discussion, like how do i earn on this site,lol, but other than that i have no idea what you are talking about.How are these people violating the rules as unclear if you are saying that they are saying bad words, putting links up on their discussions, or one liners as others call it.I have been off here for a few days and it seems like i have missed out on alot of things.Do not let things get your back up.

You are right, that the rules apply to all of, newbies as well as the oldies. The rules shouldn't be violated from either one, but it seems like they are violated everyday, because people think they don't have to read the rules, as they know what to do, and when they are told about them, some will get antagonistic, and others are very thankful that they were told. I will still continue to tell others, as long as they are appreciative of the help. The ones that don't want help, I just won't bother with, as it would do no good anyway. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

Hi. I haven't really encountered some kind of veterans here. Not ever, yet I do not wish to become anyone like them at all. I know how you feel about it, and sometimes I also make a mistake like that, though I keep my mind open to mistakes and accept as I do. I hope you will just calm down and let karma go with them.

You know I am very active here and see it being done daily. I can't stand it as old members really should know better. But what else can we do outside of reporting, really?? There is one member who only comes here to specifically spam and gain referrals. This member only comes on here and never participates outside of gaining referrals. I have reported it numerously but nothing has been done about it.