I am sorry for being a Respond Collector..
By RebeLotter
@RebeLotter (253)
December 20, 2010 8:23am CST
I saw a discussions about mylotters criticizing people who don't respond or comment to discussion.
I am still at my newbie stage and try to get to know this site still. not always active all the time so i won't be able to do things to just violate some rules here. i don't wanna do that.
my beloved lotters, spare me the tantrums please. I only wanted to save the comment's best for last. believe if i say i will comment but probably later.
I used to criticize a lot but now i am trying best to turn into a new Water-Lemon here. Bear with me if you wouldn't mind.
please don't ever get tired of responding to my topics since am on the road to do what i can..
to share...........
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11 responses
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32697)
• Calgary, Alberta
20 Dec 10
I was able to get 9 stars as a reputation in a week just responding back, reputation is important here. I saw a person here who gets flop discussions despite of being active because she is not responding back. No one is really perfect, it took me days to respond to every participator in my discussions, i do it one at a time so I wont be torturing my self.
To make responding back easier, make sure the topics you create is something you are really into.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
Very nice albertI guess you really don't have to rush it most specially if you don't have the time or the strength to be in mylot. thank you so much for comfort. i will follow your advice.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
20 Dec 10
When I am here, I am here to chat/discuss/make conversation and if I see that a user is here at the same time that I am and is also here to keep a topic moving then that is when I enjoy myLot the most.
I also respond on topics where the starter comes back later and I will also comment back to their comment later too.
Then there are those who don't come back at all. That is their choice - but it is not what a discussion is about so I will avoid their topics in future... but that is my choice.
After all, it is all a question of choice here 
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
20 Dec 10
Uhm... I just re-read the title here:
'I am sorry for being a Respond Collector..'
and I was thinking that surely if one is sorry, then they do something to make ammends... 
@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
I will will mysdianait! but of course i don't have all the time i need. but am glad you're giving me some insights.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
Why should you apologize, you should realize by now that every one has the right of time when ever a person becomes active or not. otherwise, you will end up pressuring yourself to be active even i you don't really want to. better to mylot at a time of your convenience rather than forcing it and ends up being irrational
. it takes relaxing and good mood to post a good discussion
. it takes relaxing and good mood to post a good discussion@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
well, that's because the person above you mentioned about people who don't comment back so i apologize. yes, there's nothing wrong with that, am just being humble.
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@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
there's no way i would fall for it that's one thing for sure. i think i can stay here long enough to be sure that i can participate.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
25 Jan 11
Hello Rebelotter,
No one's really gonna judge you. how ever, i do apologize i started this kind of topic but that's because it's an issue for mylotters that they needed to have some views to get on this matter. but you don't have much to worry about knowing that you have done you're best to make the discussion very nice and eliquent.you shouldn't worry about it too much. anyways, you can get over with this and keep posting.have a nice day.@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
this is a great response you are correct no one has the right to judge me since they do the same. we are all in this together. i hope see you in coming post.
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@Nobody4me (165)
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25 Jan 11
rarely, i start a topic and respond to it either. come to think of it, it's been months since i have particiapated in mylot. there's not need to apologize. sometimes, you can just express yourself and leave the commenting later end.
@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
nice to see you around. i was told you're a a person from NK? am glad i have seen you also in this wonderful community.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
21 Dec 10
don't worry too much about that... just relax... i am guilty of doing this as well every now and then... especially when i am busy doing stuffs... i tend to forget to comment on the responds to my discussions... i try my very best to do it whenever i can... but if i can't, then i can't help it as well... take care and have a nice day...
@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
I see, that means every body is doing this right? that's good to know. basically i will make less discussion easy enough for me to respond. thank you.
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@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
21 Dec 10
No worries Take your time man! It's normal. We have all experienced that stage here but as it goes on, it'll be easier for you as you get to know more friendly Mylotters here who are willing to guide you along.
Take your time man! It's normal. We have all experienced that stage here but as it goes on, it'll be easier for you as you get to know more friendly Mylotters here who are willing to guide you along.@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
Oh, i see don't worry i will take my time to comment on discussions. that's right i will do my best for people to get to know me. actually, you guys are pretty helpful.
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@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 10
That is not a problem for me, it is always acceptable as long as we will notice the responses and comment it when we are free. Same thing happened to me once because I was really ill and could not come online and comment on the responses I received for my discussion. Good luck and have a nice day
@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
ah, ok. but i have not responded to you're discussions, but i will in the future. it's hard to think when you're sick since it requires mind to think about things.
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@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
20 Dec 10
That's normal if you don't answer at the time, when someone respond you.
It's because of the world clock, so for me it's not so big deal, i always answer to catching topics, so don't worry 
For me it's nice when i post a discussion late in the night, before sleeping and find around 10 responses on the next day. It's more than pleasure, means like an hour to read and answer to everyone, so i don't have much time for other discussions, but that's ok, because i got the answers, which i need.
For me it's nice when i post a discussion late in the night, before sleeping and find around 10 responses on the next day. It's more than pleasure, means like an hour to read and answer to everyone, so i don't have much time for other discussions, but that's ok, because i got the answers, which i need. @RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
thank u there. sometimes answering to response really takes time for me to think. world clock eh? i guess any time people would also respond to my discussion when i make one
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@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
20 Dec 10
No worries, everybody has days when they just don't have time to respond. I, too, also wait until I get a few responses before responding to the first one or two, because I think it makes the discussions flow better. Just keep doing what you can!
@RebeLotter (253)
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25 Jan 11
Thank you for this. it's not that i want to wait, just don't have time to do things lately. for now I am enjoying my time here and hope to be more active in the coming few days. it's not easy to be here in the start. for now, i do will best not to worry much.
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