Complicated Relationship

Well, I think you should start a relationship with some other girl because this one is not for you right now. You should understand that the girl is already into the other boy and it is not easy to forget the relationships so fast. It will be good for you if you have other options out there. Don't get there and don't call her many times because you are only friend, even if you have feelings then control them because this way you will get yourself into trouble. Tell her that you have other works to do so can't call everyday, why are trying to carry the problems of the other when you don't have any special relation, or you don't have the relation which you want to have. I think it is going to be tough but this is the way. If you like the advise then I a m happy and even if you don't like again I am happy, choice is yours. Thank you and wish you good luck.

Well it seems that she's still not over the other one! So try to give her time, let it be! If you are willing to wait until she moved on then be ready for her come back! But if in those time apart you'll find someone else then go enjoy life...maybe it just not meant to be! It is hard and unfair for you if you will be just a rebound for her! ;)

It seems like she's not ready for a relationship right now and there still may be some feelings for her xbf and thats why shes still talking to him. She just needs to let go and realize theres other men out there that will treat her better than her xbf ever did. But until then I would give her some space and wait for her to come to you. Don't keep pushing the issue because then she'll leave and you will never have you're chance with her. But good luck with it and I hope things work out for you.

well it seems that she is definately not ready for another relationship. it also appears that she may still have feelings for her ex. this is an indicter that maybe you should just forget about this girl because she seems a tad immature.

It seems like she is not over her boyfriend yet. If that is the case then you have to ask yourself if you're willing to wait until she sorts out her feelings. If you are willing to wait then give her time. Obviously, she is still hurting and she may still be holding out hope that she and her ex-boyfriend will get back together. Give her that time. Who knows what will happen in the long run.

i think she truly values you as a friend for now because if she accepts being in a relationship with you then there is a great chance that that relationship will not work out. Just give her a little more time to sort out her feelings. You do know how hard it is to come back from a traumatic relationship and it very hard to pick up the pieces to make yourself whole again for someone else to love. I guess she wants to make sure that deep in herself she is whole and fully in tune with herself so she can better love you as well..hang in there and don't give up on her.

i think she is just not ready yet to start another relationship... i am making this assumption based on your post... and also, she also haven't get over her feeling with her ex-bf yet... i advice you to stay away from her (even though i am a woman myself) and find other woman who is ready to accept your care and love... good luck... take care and have a nice day...

Do you like her or love her? If so then try to tell her your good intention and promise her you loving heart. Ask her if she had the same feelings like yours then have a clear relationship. Not like that seems you are trying to catch up each others feelings and sometimes one side got jealous because you are assuming more that a friend relationship. Clear to both of you what is really the point behind your friendship. Tell her your true intention. Even i was confused about your relationship. You don't have the right to demand because she is not your girlfriend and you are not her boyfriend. Both of you don't have the right to each others feelings.

No relationship can be seen in colors of black and white. there are always going to be gray areas. Just when we think things in a relationship should be one way theey can turn out completely differently.

The problem is quite simple. She's not been able to move on yet. She is still holding on to the broken relationship. She still has hope, false hope if I may say so. Don't worry, she will soon realize her folly. But let me tell you something now. I can understand your sympathy for her. But sympathy and love aren't the same thing. You don't fall in love just because you think your partner needs you. Do I sound selfish? Well, I am just trying to save you from an imminent ruin. The feeling of love is totally different and you don't feel pity for your lover. It's spontaneous and it's totally independent of the situation you two are in. This girl you're talking about is a psychological wreck. She needs more time to understand how relationships work. Leave her alone. Give her enough time to understand that. Don't be so overprotective about her. Let her face the shock because there is no better way to understand the crude realities of life.

She's not ready for any kind of commitment right now. I think she wants companionship. She already said she likes you -- you already have a foundation. Be there always and time will come, everything will fit accordingly. If companionship is all she can offer right now, then grab the opportunity to be her companion -- that is if you truly like/love her.

friends are hard to be patient if a relationship in facebook and it tested our patience to maintain a relationship. because the facebook of all things can be a complicated issue and can bring us to the road end and once it is in the pity if it should be ended. but believe that true love will never be easy to go because of the trivial and certainly dianya will also understand the problems that he faced.

Her feelings was hurt by her ex-bf,maybe it was hard for her to forget and recover,so she couldn't start a new relationship,just be frirends to her and wait for her if you can't leave her.But if she really just want to be your friend then you should't ask more from or you will hurt both especially yourself.

She's not ready for another relationship yet. She still is confused about her ex boyfriend. She is also in the phase of a break up where she fears that the same thing might happen to her as it did in the last relationship. The best thing I can say is to be a good friend, if you can't do that the best thing is to just leave her. You'll only be tormenting yourself trying to be there for her and clearly she is not ready for you and the truth is she may never be ready to be in a relationship with you. I think it might be doing both of you a favor by just letting her go.

maybe she likes you as a friend not as a lover. she still loves her x bf that's a fact. so, you better stay with her as a friend. do not expect more from her as of this time. it will make you sad.