Stressful and high pressure situations : Fight or flight?

lately i faced pressure like yours,,, spend so much stamina and times don't you? but i can passed one by one.. just try to make them understand with several action even not 100 % done. one by one of them able to understand if i "still on my line" to do several things based on each part (my boss / girl friend / parent / society) need passion and action to make each of them understand ... maybe it just a time / process of our life that must be face stay calm and do an action for it

I've never encountered a boss that makes fun of his employees and if ever i do i can file harassment from it. In case of high pressure situations, i always find myself fighting for it. I'm not the type to just give up. I may hold it off for a period of time but that's when i think of another way to solve the problem. I try my best to think of plans to produce a great result with minimum effort so i plan a lot.

most of the time, i flight... but sometimes i fight as well... that really depends on the situation and who am i dealing with... i always try to find a win-win solution to every situation and i don't like confrontations... that's why most of the time i prefer to run away... not because i am a coward... but i just don't want to waste my time and effort to argue and quarrel... take care and have a nice day...

i will stand against for my position as far as i can stretch, when i find that i am no more wanted and i can no more win, i will give a one last try and try to win.. If something is impossible, i would just let it go... Try , try and try!!!

Well, I get easily upset if someone is picking on me, so first I "fight", trying to make my point of view clear. Then I usually calm down and think again and analyze the situation. After that, I come up with some kind of solution, I don't let these conflicts last for too long.

It is indeed a very difficult situation when people pressure you despite the fact that you already told them honestly that you cannot handle that stuff. I can't understand how people could be so cruel sometimes as not to be sensitive to another person's weakness. Instead of encouraging them to work better, they push them hard which results in a discouragement. In this case, I'd rather leave that place and find another work. If I don't have a choice, I would then just tell them honestly and accept their threat and wait if they can put that into action.

First, we must get our thinking straight. The only one who can create stress is you. You decided how wound up you will get in any case simply because you decide how important any thing is at any moment. Is it all worth sacrificing your health??? I think not. Next, as with everything in life, do your very best. No one can ever expect any more out of anyone doing their best. So now, you are stress free and doing your best. Now if the boss or your friends come to you upset and stressed out themselves, greet them with love and kindness. If they make impossible demands, tell them to show you how they want it done. Perhaps they know a better way. Volunteer to be as helpful as possible. They will soon discover what they ask is impossible and bring their expectations back to reality. Have a long talk with them for they are choosing that their stress is more important than not only their health but the people around them.

You will have to fight back because this is called reality in life. If you try to flight, you will not be able to do so and you will have to surrender and that will be the end of your free life.

i dont fight with them but fly away too.i try to handle the situation and lead in such way that nobody gets too much angry and we get into a situation..

The only thing i've to say to you is: don't leave without fighting, you leave because you want to leave, not because the force you!!! You can try my trick i use with my pregnant wife who has craziness crisis every twenty minutes: use all the tricks!! First you start by getting angry, really angry, but not long...after you have to directly apologize and explain straight away why you are angry and what is your position about the problem. use trick sentence like : i'm sorry i get angry really but understand... i apologize sincerely, i get carried away, but it's because..the reaction should be something like: I understand, but you have to understand in return... If not write to me i will give you the next step!! (but 75% chances it's working) Good luck!!