friend in mylot?

Philippines
December 25, 2010 7:20am CST
Do you think that you can really gather some good friends here in mylot? You know, I've been a member of some social net sites, no need to mention some of them, and sometimes I see irony in this social churvaness... You see all of those friends that were included in my list were really nothing but strangers to me.... I mean, I know some of them, they're real friends, but others, were friends in a sense that they're included in your friends-list account. And the problem is they're just there... whenever i post a comment on their account or greet them for example, they don't even bother to respond.... Well, actually, I've never experienced it here in mylot... that's because I haven't made any churvaness in one of my so-called-friends-in-my-list... hoooo..
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14 responses
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
Hi there roger! One thing I like in mylot is I was able to gain friends,friends I could say and I could feel that are real friends even if I'm not yet seeing them in person. There are some here who always responds to my discussions and I really enjoy replying to them. I even somehow know some of their life's background through their responses,and I'm very glad I had some connections to them through discussions. I even met friends here whose helping me earn money on other sites,we are just like one family,and I'm so glad about it! I'm sure in time you will find one of those people here in mylot. See you around!
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
Hi my friend Vidhyaprakash! Of course you are on my friend's list! I visited your profile and see what site you are telling me,I was thingking I hope I'm not yet a member of it so I can join under you but when I saw it,oh my,I already joined that site. It is one of the available task here in mylot that I was able to accept. I'm not yet active in that site but I will in time since you said your wife got payments from it already. My username there is the same,you can find me there friend. Anyway,if there's another site where I can join under you,just feel free to tell me friend,I will be willing to join 'cause I wanted to earn money. See you around friend!
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
21 Aug 12
I personally believe no one can really gather some good friends not only here in mylot but also in any other such sites because a real friend is now something like a rare species. So just by adding someone as a friend does not make a real friend in life.
@ifa225 (14459)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
well maybe this is the reality of internet social society. we know each other-do we really know each other? i doubt that- we care to their problem, trying to solve it but still we can't cal them as a really true friend just like in real world
@jugsjugs (12967)
26 Dec 10
I know a few people that are on this site as well as a few others, some people on here i know as in i see them, other people i have been friends with since i have joined this site as well as never met them.This site is better than other sites like facebook as there are no nasty things that i have come to see on discussions from other people.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
29 Dec 10
I do think that it is possible to make friends on the platform that we use here. I haven't had the opportunity to meet any of the people that I've met on mylot in real life, but I have run into some of them on other websites and yes, there is a certain commraderie that I feel with these people once I realize who they are. I think that if I ever had an opportunity to meet some of these people in real life that I would feel like I was meeting an old friend.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
That's one of the good things here in myLot, members here are real and not just making "churvah"! People here are more friendly and are really friends online. We help each other here and no one is, or as far as i know, is not practicing crab mentality here. Unlike other social sites that pulls you down whenever you reach the top. I love myLot because all of us here are real and not just making false mark of having a lot of friends but real friends that helps you reach the top!
@aylim14 (501)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
by just reading your post, i can sense you are a fellow Filipino. In fact, having the same province too. Anyways, i would have to disagree with you on your opinion about having "real" friends here in mylot. I know that i have made quite a few friends here despite not being able to "meet" with them personally. But i can say that a connection has been made with them to which you can "feel" on the responses you make with them and the responses they make to your posts. Basically, your interaction with each other becomes more personal.
@alilin28 (1527)
• Uruguay
26 Dec 10
being honest, i really know one of my entire list of friends on mylot. i like to add people HERE because is a good manner to know people, the discussions they have made, and to know different things. i have sent and received a pair of messages with a guy but nothing more of these. i dont know the truth about making friends here, but we dont know what is going to be on future, so i dont close the "door". have a nice day
@06MLam (620)
25 Dec 10
Sometimes mylotters are really supportive and cheer me up when I am unhappy though not all my friends here have interaction with me but mylotters are always friendly. They might not have interaction with us might be because they have quit mylot or forget their account.
26 Dec 10
i guess in a way they are just really internet friends, where we always call in to their profiles and do there discussions and things like that, they are who we class as friends in that we put them in our friends list as we know they will do our discussions and we will do theirs. Unfortunately we do not really know them and many could come from other countries and so we may never meet, but it is nice to have them help us as we help them and so in a way they are a friend.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
26 Dec 10
I have friends here who are all busy in their own business like I am busy. I have friends on the other social networking sites also but I will say that in those sites I have only very few people who are very true friends and others I don't consider friends. In Mylot I get the almost same response from everyone. I don't have any special friend here but I like it this way. I get the response for my needs and that is all I want.
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 10
In every person's life, will surely need a friend who can share in times hard and happy. Friend does have a role that could make life more colorful. But the presence of friends is not to replace your spouse or lover. When you have a good friend, not a gift or gifts or presents that they want. But the attention and patience they need. Sometimes friends also need to be heard, be it happy or in sorrow. So if you have a friend, then prepare enough time and patience to listen to all the problems and grievances that they feel. Companions will help solve the problems you face. Or maybe just talk about work or life is going on around you. So it is with his friends, they also want you to do the same. Dividing the funny stories that can also make your closeness with the friend.
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
Lols at the word "churvaness." I'm only new here and don't really have friends yet but I hope I will be able to get some good friends here in mylot.
@spencari (265)
• Indonesia
26 Dec 10
i think is normally when we join in network society like mylot.. for me as long as we can respect to each of.. it does not matter.. someone who has not reply a comment it doesn't mean they do not want too , may be they just busy with they time and forget to reply it .. just let the wind blow i guest :)