First Time Away From My Family

@julyteen (13252)
Davao, Philippines
December 25, 2010 8:07pm CST
It's a very sad Christmas day I have away from my family. As all you know here in Middle East people are not celebrating Xmas season as part of their culture except those people who are temporarily residing for work or business. Although we cook some foods but the celebration is different. Most of the people celebrate it inside their rooms not in public. Well, this is what happened during the day. On 24th I work from 3pm to 12 midnight so in my country 12midnight equivalent to 5am already so the party already finished but here it's the start. At 8am I go to our cafeteria to have my dinner but I am little upset because the foods preferred was not good and it's only a very ordinary vegetables menu. I didn't eat instead I drink only a cup of tea. I went to my room at 9pm for break. When I enter my room I am amazed because alot of my co-associate get together and prepare some foods for the Noche Buena and start sharing a glass of wine. I eat a little but I refused to drink because I am on duty. I returned back to my work and excited to be finished so that I can joined my friends and fellow "Kababayans" inside my room but the 2 hours was a long time to wait. Wow, it was 12midnight already and it's time to go to my room. I finished early my report so that at exactly 12midnight I go out already to the office. But the things happened was not in my expectation. I reached my room with the messed only and the people are all sleep because of the alcohol. The worst thing was, they didn't remained even a single glass of wine. They are all drunk and me was still alive and wanted to drink but how can I buy wine here, the wine we buy was delivered a week ago because police know that during this season people like us will illegally sell and buy wine. It's a very sad Christmas time for me. I am alone in the room. what I did was to monitor my status in other socialize network and communicate with my friends and shared my experience. I felt pity with myself but some of my friends said to me that it's normal for us who are working abroad away from our family. The most important my family are happy with the party they made from the earnings we sent them from our hard work. I am hoping that next Christmas I can celebrate it with my family and friends in my own country. How about you guys are you happy with your Christmas celebration?
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@Katie2009 (144)
• China
26 Dec 10
Sorry for the unexciting Christmas.I know how important it is to be with friends and family to celebrate this festival.Actually,this year's Christmas was not charming to me either.For some reason, as a college student,I have to take a test on the morning of 25th,therefore,both my friends and me spent 24th on books and went to bed early in order to get up early the next morning.You see, having a test isn't really some kind of celebration that is intriguing~At any rate,Christmas is a time for giving.You celebrated it in a way devoting to your family. It is also memorable,even though not as pleasant as other things. But still, Christmas season is still here. Have some fun with whoever is close to you now! Merry Christmas!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Dec 10
hi katie Merry Christmas and some hugs from hatley just to make'you 'happier maybe.lol
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Dec 10
Atleast you are beside them although spent a little time with the celebration. Unlike me I only imagine what happened to their celebration without me on their side. It's really really hard to live without family around. Specially if you live longer at their side. Maybe on the next Christmas I can manage even I am away from them because it's my second time already.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
Well, I agree i have experienced it myself being alone in holidays ....i remember it when i was transfered to another city for work related matter, im the only child and we are use of celebrating christmas together... and the worst it was my first christmas ever and feel so alone , i know my parents are sad. I just wen't to my room alone..crying and missing home so much
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Dec 10
Better I am not alone celebrating Christmas alone because of work but in your case it only a city away but for me it more countries away from my home. Imagine 9 hours air travel to my country? But anyway, we are thankful that we still alive and still doing myLotting. Happy holidays to you my friend.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Dec 10
hi julyteen I am sorry it was such a bummer for you but rest assued that others are also in sort of a sad situation at Christmas. well yesterday was like christmas for me as my son spent most of the day with me and we talked and laughed and just enjoyed each others company and i was able to give him fifty dollars from the one hundred dollar gift I got and a sack of food stuff for him to help him out.he has a part time job only and was really short on money. he felt bad that he could not afford to give me a gift but july he did ,a gift of hie time which was priceless to me=here in this tiresome retirement center with some 90 peopleI get so lonely for him as he is my only family.today he could not come as the buses run few times a day. so I did feel lonely til I started mylotting. one thing he lives in govpaid housing with three other men just six miles away.we are homeless thats way we are where we are and'because of my age I could live here by paying them my social security and ssi check mostof it I mean, I get whats left over. but mylotting is here for us both and we have real friends here tool Merry christmas and may both of our New years be much happier for us both.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Dec 10
Another sad story of Christmas! Atleast you saw him and enjoy the season with him even not a longer period of time. In my case it's different but both of us felt pity why this happened to us. I admire with you for being a good mother. Because of that I remember my mom while reading your post. I missed here and I know she won't allow this happened to us and she don't want me to go abroad to find a good job for our future. Best luck to both of you and your life on the year 2011. Would you mind to post you sons picture on myLot Lovers group?
• Mexico
26 Dec 10
Hi julyteen: That is a really sad story. I have never passed a Christmas without the presence of my family and I am sure I'll miss them a lot. Christmas is not the same without the ones you love. Hope you can celebrate next Christmas with your family. ALVARO