A son's last word to his father ...

The loss of anyone close is really a big one and there is nothing that can compensate this loss. Our words and actions during the existence of the person would at least be a consolation to us that at least we were good to them - the regret would be less and as you come over the reality, you would feel less burdened. But if you were harsh and non-loving to the departed, the burden of the fact - that you could do nothing when there was time would be more torturing. My wife's brother who was against our marriage expired last year. He was a great person. After our marriage, we tried taking steps to pacify the differences between us in the family. Today, I regret that if I had some more time, our differences would have been resolved. The regret would have been much higher if we would have never tried to resolve our differences and my whole life I would have been thinking - I wished I did take that step when he was alive - and this would have been more torturous to me.

hello hon, Thanks last night..and sorry for making you cry again. I know what you feel last night, i do understand...that's ife my dear,no matter how we try to make things better still somethings goes wrong beyond our control. Be strong and always be positive facing every trials....there is always sunshine after each storm

jaiho, it's fine no need to say sorry you always see me laughing and crying, i am very much thankful becoz i was given a chance to have a friend like Bro.and especially you :).

hello ling_li, There are times we took for granted those people who love us the most,maybe because we are thinking of making up things on the next day,but,much to our regret...it's already the last day. Yes,we should always let our loved ones knows how much we love them each time we had the chance,not to regret for things unsaid and undone. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello laydee, Yes,it is true that we always realize the value of someone/anything once we lost it. He is not actually a bad son...i knew him personal. There are just times that he doesn't listen or ignore his dad's advices and that make his dad angry. Those makes him sad to think that he give his dad some headache (which is just common for teenagers to be stubborn at times) He just missed his dad's...and the thought that he will not be seeing his dad again (alive) makes him regret for all the things undone. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello Sree, Thanks for always being here my dear sister. Last night i visited the wake and saw his son. He haven't tried to look at his dad's remains...i asks him why..and he says "maybe on the last day...i still cannot accept that hes's gone...i want to remember his face when he's still alive " I can feel the bitterness in his words...i can feel how much he loves his dad. Thanks for your response dear and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello darshan, Yes,kids sometimes mistaken the care and love for anger. And only realize the truth once they went wrong and then,they'll remember the advices their parents given to them,yet they ignored. I always remember when my mom tells me before that... "you will realized what i am saying once you will become a mother yourself " Truly...now i can fully understand how it is to be a mother,because i am not a mother. In this life,we realized things once we are facing it personally. We realize the value of one thing once we lost it. We understand the feeling once we felt it in our hearts. There are certain things that we always asks why and find the answers once we into that situation. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello mods, Words left unsaid and things undone really hurts. No matter how we tried to make our love ones feel our love..sometimes we feel we haven't done enough once we lost them. We always regret things...and blame ourselves for nor doing certain things with our loved ones when we still have the time to do so. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello dear bhai, I do appreciate every words dear bhai. I know sometimes we don't know the right words to say. We can not choose the right words to speak with events like this. The empathy is not easy to express through words. Thanks for being here dear... HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello cssiduys, Parents love is unconditional. Kids doesn't realized it sometimes. Kids sometimes mistaken care and love for anger when parents doesn't allow them to go out or have party with friends. We cannot measure a parents love,we can not understand parents way of loving their kids unless we become a parent ourselves. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

hello sinawaliboy, It's really sad when we only realized the importance of someone once we lost them. Thu how much we regret for things undone and words left unsaid...there is no use at all,the person can not hear of can not feel the love. So,now that we still have time,let's make the most of it. Let's show our love ones how much we love and care them. How important they are in our lives. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR

Opsss...this is not a crying forum okay Go to the bathroom and shout in there ...then come back and read some topic... i am sure you won't be running out of tears here... so..have your blanket ready with you ,your tears might cause flood in there love yah