i'm stupid.

Hi zaga, I know that you regret your choice, but you must forgive yourself. We all have made some wrong choice in our lives, so no one can cast a stone on your wrong turn. Stop beating yourself up and learn from your mistake. That would be the sad part, if you don't learn from your mistake.

Hi zaga, Enough of regretting. Time to buckle up the shoes and get prepared for the next day. If you get this straight, you would realize that what happened was for good, you have learned your lessons well and the thing is to overcome them... so that you are a better person - yes a really better person - in the days ahead. Realizing is one thing, learning from mistakes is another (this another will see you reach the top and be successful). Cheers, theSids.

we all have done stupid things in our lives, so you are not alone here ,dear. We regret them and wishing the same wishing thinking of turning back the time and undone what we did, but, we can not. So, the best thing to do is to move on and learn from the mistakes in our past. Let's call it charge to experience and make sure not to do it again or else we are really indeed stupid to not to learn.:)

I've done stupid things and a lot of them since my teen age years, so i know how you feel. May be angry at yourself and looking for way to make everything better, as it was before. What i would do, if i can't do something to change my mistake is to keep doing something interesting, so i'll stop thinking of what i made. If one mistake can't be fixed, we better save us from nerves moments we can have blaming ourselves, just keep yourself busy. I hope everything will move on with the time. If we can't fix our mistakes, we will have to give them time for forgetting. There is nothing more you can do in my opinion. And don't be too cruel with yourself...

There are things that we can no longer undo. All of us have done something not right at one point in our life. You can call it stupid or whatever words but it's up to you how you are going to face your future. Life is not all about what happened yesterday or today. It's always a question of "What are you going to do about it?" I hope everything turns out ok with you. God bless.

yes i did once..i let one of my friend to ride who claimed that he can ride bike.and he broken his ball and socket joint at the knee,thogh he transplanted it still he cannot run anymore. so i miss him when i am playing cricket or football.in cricket always we used too open and in football i was right forward and he was left.and we had an really good understanding.so sometime when i am playing and i see himsitting nearby i feel very bad and sometime i just hit the wicket.i feel really bad for him.

we are just human beings and of course we do make mistakes every now and then... it is inevitable... and after that we regret it... it is the same like me... i had made many stupid mistakes in the past which make me regret now... but there is no use... we can only look forward, not backward... i treat my past as my lessons in life and make sure that i won't make the same mistakes again in the future... take care and have a nice day...

Hi zaga, What is gone is gone and would not come back. You think you did something you should not have done. But now as you did it finally what else can you do? You just can not push the rewind button and make thing as they were before. Better be careful lest similar things happen and you are guilt ridden.

We all do stupid things and regret later. life unfortunately has no rewind button. However there is a silver lining here. To have the courage and honesty to take responsibility and the resolve not to do it again. I have done some very stupid things in life and have also learnt from these mistakes. We are humans and it is human to err. Try to forgive yourself, but do not ever forget the mistakes.

I'm sure there is nobody here that would say they haven't done something stupid in their lives. And for some, including me, we keep the making the same mistakes over and over again. I don't think it is stupid, I think it just says you're human. We could always try find comfort and wisdom with others. And if it helps to be anonymous, myLot friends would be a good place to turn to. If you need help or advice, you could always PM me.

Hi Zaga_cleuth and welcome to my lot. We all have things in our lives that we are not proud of. We all wish we could turn back time and go back to that moment in our lives. But alas we can't go back in time and change our mistakes we have to face what we did and repent of it and ask God to forgive us. These are called learning experiences no human is prefect we had one who walked with us but look what we did to HIM. We put HIM on a cross and killed HIM! So we all make mistakes forget about it and move on. Ask God to guide you and keep you from doing the wrong things. But if you slip up don't worry about it repent and ask God for HIS forgiveness and move on! God is the judge thank God for that!

Oh, great, not another Masihi in this world, I mean, ain't one of me bad enough??? Seriously, I try so hard to be good, but I always seem to have run-ins with people, maybe it's because of my anxiety disorder, I rarely know if my head's screewed on properly :-p I've done stupid things like biting peoples' heads off everytime they said something to me to getting my family into major debt due to a pyramid scheme to getting sucked in by a smooth-talking guy into an online affair. I'm lucky that I still have my head attached to my shoulders. Now I'm straightening out my life, trying to as much as I can. I regret every little bit of irresponsibility I did, but there's nothing I can do about it except to throw those times into the trash, so to speak, and seek to change by becoming self-aware and taking responsility for my actions. I wish that I can give you some magic advise, but the truth is, you can't change your past. Regretting and rehashing over the past will only get you further into depression. I know, because I been there. The *ONLY* thing you can do is own up to responsibility and change yourself to the best person you know how to be. It isn't too late while you still have breath in you.

the most important is that we learn from the mistakes we made. With our regret at least we realize that made a mistake. The second thing is commitment to change.

I understand that. To forget such things, you really should try not to stick on this one thought where you made this mistake. I also have that sometimes, and then I have trouble not to think about it anymore. But then I try to distract me from that by doing something else. This isn't easy for me, but else there's now way to get rid of these thoughts that you cannot change anymore.

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