dont fall in love with a cheater/user?

So sorry asliah as this quite a bad feeling and I sure hope you can allow yourself sometime to see all the wonderful aspects of yourself and be aware of the potential users that may lurk in the future. It is so hard for some people to initially see this happening especially if the heart is involved.

Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you can find your true love next year. I think to be able to know if your lover is a cheater or user, you have to fully know him better first before giving everything you have. Giving all the love and emotions and all is involved in the everything part. Try to observe him and know his friends and hang out more often with the people he is. Try to be very observant in your dates and the hang out. Because of the experienced you had, i guess you will be very vigilant on your next prospect lover..hehe ;)

Some men will try to lie so that they can get what they want out of a woman. I am sorry that your boyfriend has done this to you. I went with a guy once that has kissed another girl. He told me that the kiss was damn good too. This really hurt me the most. I dumped him after this too. But when ended up reconciling many of times after this too. I don't think that he could be faithful at least to the woman that he married to right now if he still is.

I don't know if we discover in early stage when someone a cheater or not? Because most cheaters using good words and other things to hide their real behavior...

once should always try to be control especially when he or she finds himself/herself under an emotional situation. it feels good to experience the love however, it takes you to situation where you can be exploited or abused. so the maxim is that always try to utilized your brain whenever you feel flowing by your emotions. the best way to control you mind is to visualize yourself in different situations with different roles.

i can relate to this one. well i know youll learn from experience though. bit of cliche but its true that experience is the best teacher. best way for me i guess is not to fall that fast. make the other person prove himself first. if he doesnt give up no matter how long youre making him wait hmm then consider him :D youll only get hurt if youre investing emotions soo dont invest that soon. just enjoy the moment cuase its easier to use the brain when you havent invested emotionally yet :)

Disloyalty is one of the most upsetting things that can happen in a relationship. When one partner cheats on another it leaves lasting scars. At times those scars may not be obvious until later in life but nobody escapes infidelity unharmed. Being cheated on by a person you love and trust is extremely hurtful. When you are cheated on it impacts the core of how you relate with people.

If you already know someone as a cheater/user, stay away from them from the very beginning. Bu if you are already committed to him when you found out, that's another story.