gossips?

Greetings! Of course when I heard others gossip about me i'll try to find out first what are they saying about me. Well, if its good and compliment its okay. If its not, its okay too, i'll just tell myself this "wow! I'm famous! they're talking about me?" at least I know in myself that what they're saying is not true and I can prove it through my closest friends. Another thing is, we don't live just to please all people so its okay.

I have gossiped with other people sometimes, i know it's bad but i just can't hold my tongue sometimes. It's not a bad gossip anyway.. I don't like to be talked about by many because i prefer to have a peaceful life, so when people talk about me, i really don't feel like going out or be with them anymore. I feel like i wanted to know what's inside their minds right then and there.

I am use to people getting together and talking about me, the only thing that they do not realise is that other people that they talk to also come and tell me,lol.All i can say is that if they have such a sad life that they only have talking about other people behind their backs, well shows how lonely they really are.While they are talking about me they are leaving other people alone.

Hi there asliah!!Most of the time I am hearing other people talk bad things about.They talk about the way I look and the way I dress and its kinda irritating sometimes that you will really hate those who are gossiping about.Well I will admit that sometimes I also gossip about other people but I really make it a point to control myself to avoid hurting that persons feelings.As much as possible I really want to avoid being talked about and also making gossips myself coz I know it wont do any people or even myself any good.I think it would be better if just all focus on our own lives and not other people's live..

i will be very annoyed and irritated,, who are they to make gossips at me,, i confront them and ask about how'd they get that issue or where'd they get that,,i really hate people spreading rumors about me,especially if it makes my dignity or my status in life at stake,,

of course, i will get annoyed to those people, i really hate that.

I guess if people are talking about me I must be pretty popular. I think that when people start to talk about you its because their own lives are pretty boring and they want what you have. I know that gossip can destroy a relationship because pretty soon you start to believe what is being said, gossip is never the truth.

If ever there are people like that around me, I will tell in front of them gossiping is not good. Maybe they are not aware of the act they are doing. I do not gossip that is why it is insulting if others will do it to me.

If people around would speak and rumor gossip about me I would be so shocked as I do not give reason for treating me this unfairly. I never engage in gossip as I so despise it and would simply walk away from it. It is so detrimental to certain people and certainly is not a good feeling.

Hello Aliah, i don't like gossip people at all. There are only two people, who i discuss some of my opinions and my decisions and these two people are my boyfriend and my mother, we share nearly everything together i mean - my mother and me and my boyfriend and me, no one of them is personally involved with the other one I am very very bad girl, if someone talk about me in hidden way, when we are together. By default i can feel who is friendly and with nice and natural attitude and who is fake person, who is always watching me and waiting me to make some mistake, so he/she can laugh or talk about me at the same time or later. My boyfriend has two friends, who loves to gossip for the others. I never stay calm around them, i see them because of him, really rare and never feel good, because i know what will happen if i share something with them - may be whole the city will know the information after that.

If the gossip was about the negative things about me, i will try my-self introspection, then i will fix my mistakes that have been i made. BUt if the gossip is not true why be confused, i'll let it pass

My reaction about it is I'll get annoyed with those who talk about me. let alone talk about them until I was a bad thing, I would feel very angry.