how to be happy?

It's so hard! Believe me, i have definitely try doing it. I make a happy face when deep inside my heart and mind is aching. Well you just can't be lonely all the time when your friends are around and you family too. A problem is left to where is should be and not include those others who are not part of the problem or loneliness..that's what i always bare in mind. It sometimes works, but always not. Better yet stay at home and think of it than make other peoples happiness for your feelings of loneliness.

It is very difficult for me. It is not a better option for me to be alone, when we feel sad. Always I used to make some telephone calls to some of my good friends and share something with them. We can think about a best incidence that occurred in your life.

Hi there Asliah! The first thing to do to be happy is to love yourself. We know the saying that you can never give what you don't have and if you don't know how to love yourself, how can you be happy? You can never put your happiness in the hands of other people because sooner or later, they will change. You should have happiness within you no matter what. It is human, perfectly normal to feel lonely once in a while but with love inside us, it would not be hard to cheer up especially if you are aware of a lot of things that you should be happy and thankful for in your life.

Hi dear, What Nanyangel said is correct. We should love ourselves. It is a must and because all love is borne from within ourselves and we should respect, love, and do a lot more with ourselves. The self respect make us proud and what we do is mainly depend on our way of thinking and we must observe ourselves what and how we are dealing and treating others. Whenever we interact with others, we can come to know how good we are and everybody ignores us, means we have something to change within our nature. But being lonely means not ignorance. Sometimes we feel loneliness and be alone. It is a peculiar nature and we can be so in our special natured moments. I like to be lonely as much I can. This doesn’t mean that I am depressed or I am mentally tired. It is the nature of some people to be alone and they fully enjoy the solitude. Some people say that such people are more dangerous and they must have ego problems. To an extent it may be correct, because they don’t like to be more exposed to public due to his concept on certain way of thinking. They may be having some untold issues or problems which they don’t like to disclose or they may be thinking they are lacking o something. This gloomy thinking would lead them to be alone. I am sure that all those who like to be alone would be enjoying their life as how others are doing. All the best and have a nice day, Thank-s

It can be quite hard to be happy when your heart is lonely. So first thing you have to do is have a more positive approach to any bad situations. Wish for the best and tell yourself that tomorrow is another day. As soon as the next day begins tell yourself it is a brand new day and I am going to make the best out it. As the day progresses continue to tell yourself, I can control everything in life and I am doing the best that I can.

Who wants if he continues to dissolve in loneliness. Many people do not want to feel lonely prolonged. That's very fair, people were born in a social life, man can not live alone in this world, at least he has someone who is always accompanied his life. Uhh .. but not easily separated from the name alone. Loneliness will come when we are not able to get people who can fill us in every step. Loneliness will haunt when every man feels that he hoped people had been away and began to not notice. Actually all of it is just loneliness that do exist in us and we come up by itself because of a problem coming. We shut ourselves with others and that is where we open our loneliness to poison our minds. So what really makes us feel sad and lonely, we actually own the lonely call to come and accompany us. If viewed from another perspective, loneliness is not always bring bad impact in our lives. Loneliness can we make a capital to look at tomorrow. The spirit can we come up from a lonely. When we simply glued and chained in a lonely, we can only cry in loneliness ... But if we can take lessons from a lonely, why we can feel lonely, why we can be like that, what causes it, and everything that could lead to a lonely, we can anticipate and we can get the spirit of the fold - fold to go from lonely . Glad if ever feel lonely, because without us feeling lonely, we can not be better to deal with this life, because ultimately all the people we love will go .. That is life and life is a priceless treasure. Take care of our lives and make our lives worthwhile.