Fact or fiction?
By shattered
@shattered (1728)
Philippines
December 29, 2010 5:56pm CST
I was just wondering how many of the discussions posted on myLot are based on real life events and are their myLotters that post purely fictional stuff? I understand hiding details with fictional characters and settings, like hypothetical questions, but are their posts that are actually purely imagined? When you post myLot discussions, do you base it on actual events, and fact or do you just make up things?
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@commonground (367)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I know, for myself, I only post factual discussions. I may leave out names or other personal details, as you mentioned, but I only discuss true events and legitimate questions. I think if I tried to just make something up I would stumble all over myself trying to keep it straight. That would be like telling a lie, wouldn't it? I don't do that. Not saying anyone else does either. But there may be some MyLot members that embellish, shall we say, to get a good discussion going. Or not. I can only speak for myself.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Mylot is about keeping the discussions going, and if a little embellishment will make popular and make the thread more active and interesting it wouldn't be so bad after all. You have a point.
Keeping up a lie would be very hard all through out right? It doesn't have to be telling a lie, like someone making up a different persona for his myLot than he has in his actual life... It would be more like role playing rather than lying. I think...
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
True. Role-playing maybe a form of therapy for others. They can use mylot as a medium to express themselves in ways they could never do in real life, at least here they get to practice before trying it out for real
I guess fiction does not have to be a lie. It is something made up to attract interest, unless someone swears that it really happened when it did not. An Idea or a though, a what if and what could have been right?
@commonground (367)
• United States
30 Dec 10
Ok, so a little embellishment might be a good thing, a lie would not be so good.
Good point about taking on a new persona for your online identity. We all probably do that to an extent, don't you think? While we are unknown to those here we might let a different part of our personalities shine through. As someone in their everyday life may be very shy, but here, undercover, they can let loose and be who they want to be. I can see that as a good thing, much closer to role playing than lying ;) And, quite possibly, good therapy.
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 10
hi shattered!
i will only reply and post things based on my experience.i do not know how to tell lies or make up things-i am not that smart to twist the truth so i will only write the actual events here.it will be different if we are writing a novels or short stories.then i will come up with unoriginal and things that truthly comes from my imaginations.since most of the questions are based on individual experience so we expect the other friends to be honest and share stories and views with others.unless the questions start with 'if', then i think the fiction will join that part along with the facts.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
You do have a point.
It really depends on the discussion I guess, If it were me or If this happened could lead to a lot of imagined comments and responses. That is true!
It is easier to discuss topics based on our experience and actual knowledge as it is easier to put into words things we already know. Its not just you, its all of us I guess.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
True, True! Fictional or hypothetical discussions allows us to think more and be more creative with our responses, while factual discussions needs actual answers either from our experiences or from the books.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
31 Dec 10
i like both questions- the fact and the fictions.the fictions questions sometimes makes us think more and be creative while the fact question really needs us to come up with the fact answers so we can't say much unless we really have many experiences and knowledge to discuss about it.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Dec 10
I don't know about others but I want to be very open with myself.I find imagining things and situations more difficult than narrating the real life incidents that have happened in my life.It is always a surprise to see that how much of interesting things have happened in our life that are worth sharing with others.As they say some facts surely are stranger than fictions.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
True. What maybe ordinary to us maybe amazing to other people.
OUr life is often not as dull as we think they are and sharing it with others will help us realize how amazing some things are.
Like you I too have a hard time making up imaginary discussions. It is easier to draw up from experience and actual events right?
@maezee (41988)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I would say about 99% of all the discussions I write are based on experiences I've had (or someone I know in my life has had), questions I've had, and just things that relate to my life. All of the discussions I start MAY not have necessarily happened TO ME (but then I would mention that "a friend of mine..." or "my sister..." etc.) I take a lot of 'inspiration' from my own life to come up with my discussions. Of course, maybe that just means I'm not creative enough to start 'fictional' discussions. I don't know, I wouldn't really want to and I can't even think what I would write about if i wanted to write 'fictional' discussions. Hmm.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Same here! I wouldn't know how to start and If I started one would I be able to answer the discussions well enough.
It is easier to draw from real life and comment about it. If I'm going for fiction, might as well post it in a writing site like triond and helium right?
But then again, there may be some that are talented enough...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Dec 10
If I mention something that perhaps happened in the news I like to provide links sometimes. I totally post factual as this way I have plenty of room to respond back to each comment.
See participation is the key to earning here on myLot so if I make something up I do not think with the number of responses I get that I could keep it up. I would hope that when someone is saying they need help that they are actually needing the help.
At any rate someone else perhaps reading my response to a made up discussion may gain from my opinions and experiences.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Yes participation is the key in myLot earning. And people reading may indeed learn from our discussions, it doesn't have to be the originator that learns something.
A discussion whether made up or not is still an exchange of ideas isn't it?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I have enjoyed hypothesized discussion very much as it truly makes you think as to what if and what would you do.
I have engaged in a great many of them and have found some learning experiences from them. Exchanging ideas is actually fun and great as I am one even if the response is opposing, I will re-read it several times to see if gain from it.
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@jonnie7 (51)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I post both. Fictional and Real. Sometimes my real turns into fictional and I do not know how that happens. But real is always better. Because there is no lie and you do not have to remember it. But if it was fiction then you won't remember it. But sometimes fiction is better. That is when you don't have nothing to talk about and you have an active imagination, then you write fiction and, sometimes fiction is more interesting to read than just boring real life.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
True sometime fiction is more interesting but it is harder to remember it and it gives certain flaws to our discussions compared to when we discuss real events and experiences.
I guess it also depends on the topics right?
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
30 Dec 10
There are times when I wrote pure fiction. But that's what they were supposed to be, pure fiction. I wrote a short story and asked for comments...
Mostly I don't post something which has to be 'based on'... I write more about ideas and other abstract things. But if there's related to an event, that event is more of an actual one than not.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
This is the kind of thing I was wondering about!
There are very imaginative people in myLot that some discussions are truly amazing, though I admit some of them are real if not all.
Ideas and abstracts may indeed be fictional which would not amount to lying but just discussing.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Just like most of us, it is easier to draw from our experiences and the events around us that to "create" something. However, I would admire some who is actually able to role-play in myLot. I don't have the time and discipline to see it through
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
In my case it is often related to what is currently happening in my life, or maybe to what I've seen on the news. I don't make up anything and I didn't see the reason for that as well. Not at the moment. Sometimes there are ideas but not fictional.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Ideas are great topics for discussions.
I guess we are alike in that we extract from our experience. It is easier to do after all, right?
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Most discussions i have gone across with and i have started are mostly fact. I think it's because it is a lot easier to post and is less likely to have similar posts. We can even share a lot when we base it on actual events and experiences.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
That's right gaiza, when we share from our experiences we tend to have more to say about it as we know what we are talking about. And since it is based in real life there are very few similar discussions, that is a good point.
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I use life experiences in my posts. I would feel strange putting fictional things in my post. That is just how I am. I never make up things. If I post on something I heard, I try to include a link.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Indeed it would be strange to write fictional things. When we have experience about a subject it makes it easier to comments and respond. A link is a good idea as well.
@mabeldaclan (787)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
When I start a discussion, I base it on my experiences. I want to hear the opinion of other people because I know that opinions of people with different personalities can help me make a better decision. =). Sometimes, the discussions that I start are the things that I've been contemplating on for a long time. =)
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
The opinions of other people with different backgrounds and personalities would indeed give us a wider view of the thing we are contemplating on. If we keep an open mind we would actually learn from discussing with people having opposing views. Also, we would be able to discuss better when we are know something about the topic right?
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32748)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Dec 10
Mylot is my secret diary, so everything I say here is true, In the case of my facebook and youtube account though, I play safe because people are seeing my face there. Mylot is my place to tell my secrets without putting scandal in my life since people who knows me didnt know I was here.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
That is true. Being anonymous in myLot is sure a plus for its users. It allows us to be real and allows some to make a character they always wanted to be.
Wow scandals... maybe I should follow your discussions and find out more about these interesting stuffs!
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@Vaultar (95)
• Romania
30 Dec 10
Discussions should be based on real events that happened in your life and if they're not you should at least tell us they're actually not... I don't think it's very nice to make something up just for the sake of getting that number near your name up a few points and then let the other myLotters kill their brains trying to help you knowing they'll influence your future decisions when it's all actually just fiction ...
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I agree with you if its a discussion about life problems and decision making they should be based on real life and not fiction. Some myLotters maybe concerned with you enough to spend time discussing with you foregoing something they should be doing.
But what about if someone was just playing devil's advocate without saying that he is? Just to give a different view or spin to the topic? Would it be so bad?
@western_valleygirl (1363)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I like to post about my own life and issues that are in my life or in the lives of others around me. I also like to discuss news and things that are interesting. But, I have noticed that some people might be posting things that are not realistic. Or that negate things that they have discussed or mentioned before. But, it isn't all that bad. And, there are more that are posting real things, since their personalities have shown over time.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Yeah myLot does not really prohibit fiction so its not a violation. I guess when you follow a certain person you would know when his statements contradict. Then again its all for the sake of discussion and maybe they are playing devil's advocate and you're right, its not that bad.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Dec 10
hi shattered I do not ever make up stuff as I have had a full
life and plenty of instances in my real life that might interest
others, so why make up crap?If others do fine I do not care, as if
the discussion is interesting I will respond. Now how do you knoe that what you think is made up might well be real? do you actually ask the
poster if it is real or fictional? to me thats sort of unkind as you
are in essence calling some of us liars. I know I resent that very
much.I do not make up anything and if you chose to believe otherwise
thats up to you.i ask again how do you know any of it is made up and why on earth do you even care?i know I do not as long as I am interested in a discussion and can understand it and add to it I could care less.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I haven't abandoned this discussion, I'm still finding time to read everything!
I wouldn't know if the discussion is purely fictional or not and I don't ask the originator either, I know discussion etiquette. And I know myLot does not require pure factual discussions.
It just came to mind as I was reading some threads that were, to me, something I would never consider doing. Haven't you ever wondered if a thread was made up or not?
@jujunme (2501)
• United States
30 Dec 10
As i mentioned previously, i don't question whether a discussion is factual or not, it really never crosses my mind to do so.Some discussions are very personal, where the discussion starter will pour their heart out here and you just know by reading it,the person would never make up such personal details about their life, just to have people respond to the discussion. You mentioned reading some threads that you personally would never post,would you explain what kind of threads you're referring to? i would imagine, many of us read discussions where we feel some things are better left unsaid, but, whether these things are made up or not, doesn't concern me in the least.
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@jujunme (2501)
• United States
30 Dec 10
]Hi Hatley.Just had to barge in here for a moment.I sure hope "shattered" hasn't abandoned this discussion, since i would also like to know how he or she knows if a discussion is made up or not. Like you, i could care less if they are or aren't, and i certainly wouldn't ask someone if they made up a discussion as the only thing im interested in, is the discussion itself.Come on shattered!, answer Hatley's question, can't you see that evil grin she's pointed your way?
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I think for the large part they are from our real life experiences. I can't think of any that are just made up. I know my questions are from real things I am asking. I don't think they are made up in general, but some might be. I don't answer on nonsensical ones though!
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I don't either!
I am basing my discussions and responses on my life experiences as well. BUt there are just some topics that are so amazing to me they don't seem real.
I'm not saying these mylotters are lying, mylot is after all a discussion thread that allows us to hide our identities, but maybe there are some that are just really imaginative right?
@Blacksun310 (559)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
If we post,respond or comment based on our experiences, we could add more details to it. We could make quality posts and share our knowledge to other people. If we just make up things, it will be most likely that we are dishonest to ourselves. Oh come on! This is just myLot! There will be no valid reason for you to intend on doing such things.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
First I would like to say that I agree with you. We can make more comments when we have experience of knowledge about certain things.
I'm not saying that these people, if there are some in mylot, are trying to mislead other myLotters, they may just be role-playing and answering or posting topics akin to the personalities that they've chosen to project. It is possible isn't it?