Woman kidnaps her self to test how much her husband loves her

I think this woman is demented. If she had to go to these lengths to see if her husband loved her then they must not have that great of a relationship. First, a relationship of any value has good communication at its cornerstone. If you don't know who you are married to and have to go out and pretend to get kidnapped to find out you are alittle demented and your marriage is not going to get much more mileage on it.

I think that the police were right to sue her. i do not know what will happen to there marriage, only the two of them can really decide this. I am single and so at the moment this is not a problem i am faced with. We can't be with our partners 24 hours a day 7 days a week, we all need our breathing space, we just have to hold onto the fact that we believe our partner loves us, otherwise there is no trust and therefor no point in the relationshp really. One thing baffles me about this discussion though, i can see that she wanted to see if her husband truely did love her and what lengths he would go to to get her back but you never say how the police got involved. How do we know that the husband was not so worried that he contacted the police and left it to the professionals to deal with. That is something you don't explain in here.

I'd have told them "Give me 20k & I'll come take her back. Take the offer now, later I'll demand more". I hope she enjoys her cell after they lock her up.

That is so risky. The saddest part is the she learned the truth.

all i can say is she was stupid. i would have just asked him.

wow! what a nutter!! Who would do that??? well besides her? for real she has some serious issues, I would say her hubby has the issues but he was not the one kidnapping himself! I hope she has some time to really think about her actions and how she held up police officers following her prank when I am sure there where real emergencies

Really, I don't think I would go that far. I mean I may wonder how much my husband loves me but I will not go to the extent of kidnapping myself and all that. I think the saddest part in the story is that the husband didn't really care about her safety at all

Hi Albert, I am guessing that if the police got involved that the husband did in fact do something even if only hand it over to the police. The woman sounds as if she needs help and is extremely insecure. If the woman is going to these crazy extremes to prove to herself that her husband loves her, can you imagine how she acts and what she is like to be around on a daily basis? Sounds pretty messed up.

The way the woman behaved is far too extreme. She could just have disappeared and waited for her husbands worried calls or something like that.It would have been far more easier. She could have made him jealous by faking a call to a guy and having gossips with him. There are many nice and decent ways to find out how much your mate loves you. Another way would be to pretend to fall sick suddenly and tell him that doctor says complete rest and someone will be needed 2 hours to take, look at how he/she reacts You can easily find out his/her love for you. Not necessary,always a woman tests her husband's love, a man equally wants to know how much his girl loves him. So don't think I am supporting men Rather than getting yourself kidnapped and involve police into the matter, these tricks would work better. However,I will never try these things as I believe love can happen only once and for all. I will always try my best to keep my love alive between me and my partner. Neither will I wander away nor will I let him

Here's one:go to the park, museum or library all day and DON'T take your cellphone with you or let anyone know where you have gone until 8 o'clock that night. By just suddenly showing up at home no worst for the wiser...lol This might land U in the dog house with your mate later on after all the relief/joy that your safe & sound.

it's sad as well because it could be that the husband cannot give the attention his wife wanted but this is not a very good thing to do since there's really a consequence and police will really get you. what if the husband really did everything to get the money even stealing? i don't like to think that it would also be a reason for him to be in danger.

this is not a good idea to prove how a man loves his women. A women will come to know automatically how much a man loves him. By kidnapping herself, the man will become more angry about his women. Happy New Year.

really need to know how much his love but what if she was married and wanted to know more in that way, many roads but not in that way, for example: make a few mistakes that eliminates the husband's suspicion that she was your test by the way was with the same guy every day, that's enough do not need to kidnap yourself or try to get in a fairly traded jewelry surely deplete savings in bought to surprise his wife, either way she was and a little crazy

hi CaptAlbertWhisker i think it was stupid idea from her to test her husband.if i am in husband place i will devorce her because she is careless woman. stress of life is more than enogh and having kidnap story make it worse. her marriage for sure not going to be better if she does not be devorce because her husband will not trust her anymore even someone really kidnap her and she also not trust him because he does not do anything in last kidnaping. the best way as i think that she make him more relax not more stress.for example she can cook his favorite food or praper the room for romantic night or at least let him watch tv without interrupt !! if woman want to find a way there are so much atticals and videos in internet she can learn from them. to prove love is to stand beside your mate when she/he need someone. for sure any stratagies without fair and stress will work perfectly

that is really stupid... i never think of testing my hubby's love to me in that way... there are other ways that i can think of to test my hubby's love... now she has to reap the rewards for her stupidity... she might go to jail because of her reckless action... hopefully she learn her lesson from here... take care and have a nice day...

I think she deserves more than the cell. She looks like mentally sick for doing this kind of things. Love cant be judged through this kind of actions. Love only build on trust and understandings, if she dont have trust over his love she could walk on another way but now what she have done will hurt both of them for the rest of their life.

Well that right there wasn't a very good idea to do I know that I would never do something like that because I know that it would just lead to problems a lie is never good especially one like this it's nothing to kid about. I think what she should have done to test his love is well actually I really don't know how someone would do this. Still I do know one thing it's not a good idea to fake kidnapping because that is very serious.

That's quite insane.. But really, the husband did nothing? Then he must not really love her. he could have at least called the cops or tried to look for her. he just simple ignored her....

I can't really blame the woman for doing that, upon reading the husband's reaction. It's not really extortion yet since the husband didn't even care to do anything... The husband should also be put to jail for abandonment/neglecting your wife.

She's crazy for doing that, but then she was able to prove that her husband didn't consider her worthy enough to pay 20,000 euros. I am confident with my husband's love and i don't want to test it in whatever way. When you love another person there are several ways to show it by the way you take care of each other. I don't have to prove to my husband how much i love him since the fact that i married him and gave him a son is proof enough.