Have you ever fought anyone? How did you feel afterwards?
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
United States
December 30, 2010 12:36pm CST
Back in high school this girl wanted to fight me because she didn't like my ex-bestfriend and since my ex-bestfriend moved and I was closest & the smallest target she wanted to fight me at a friend's birthday party. Stupid right? She made me mad and I ran toward her and everyone held me back while no one held her back because they knew I could beat the crap out of her..
Have you ever fought anyone? How did you feel afterwards?
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14 responses
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
30 Dec 10
I would never fight with someone, because in my opinion fighting is not the best way for us to deal with the problems we have with the others. If that girl was hating you because of your best friend, just because you are friend with that person, she must be really stupid and you don't have to pay attention about her anymore. People who has no tolerance for us because of so crazy dependence between us and the others, don't deserve our attention at all.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I think it's stupid too. She hated me cause she and my bestfriend had drama which I see is stupid. She couldn't face my bestfriend cause she's scared but I'm a nicer person therefore she started stuff with me. She moved though which is a good thing, it's a bit funny too because she can say stuff but can't back herself up & I believe fighting isn't the way either to solve stuff. Thanks for sharing.
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@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
30 Dec 10
Life is short hun, don't waste your time with people like her who are looking for scandals and problems all the time.
Take your life as something precious and you will see how easy will be for you to avoid her, her own attitude and behavior. It doesn't matter what people do, it matters how we react or act in our life.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yes, life is no time to waste on pathetic people, I agree =] Thanks for sharing!
@tboyd79 (22)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I fought one of my best friends a couple times when we were kids, probably about 10 years old or so. It was a stupid thing to do, but similar to your story, my friend just made me mad so I punched him. Unfortunately for him, nobody held me back, and both times this happened he was somewhat hurt. I think he was exaggerating though, I'm not very strong. In any case, I quickly realized fighting's not the way to go... you either get hurt, or you get in trouble. I didn't really feel bad for my friend, he provoked it, but it still did little for me. There's really not too much to gain unless you have a great reason to resort to violent action.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Thanks for sharing, I am easily mad so that's why but did you get introuble?? Or was this like not on school campus?
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yeah, I would never fight on school campus back in high school hah I didn't want to get suspended. Lol, but yeah that's life :) Thanks for sharing!
@tboyd79 (22)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Both times were off school campus, i was afraid of getting in trouble at school, my parents were pretty strict. But I got in trouble anyways! One time a bunch of people saw it happen, another time he told his mom right after it happened. So both times it really wasn't worth it for me. That's life I guess, live and learn :)
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
31 Dec 10
no i haven't actually... i am a peace person and i don't like to fight with anybody as i don't think that it is a civilised thing to do... i argue with people using words when i'm not happy with the person... but not violence... never in my life i had ever use violence on anybody unless if i am forced to do so... like to defend myself... take care and have a nice day...
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
That is good I believe fighting doesn't help anyway cause that's not the good way to resolve conflicts. Thanks for sharing & have a nice new year!
@whateva (786)
• India
31 Dec 10
yeah back in school, i used to fight all the time.
i was vice principals daughter. Everyone hated me for no good reason, i didn't know.
Until one day they started being a**holes and turned in my way. Also some of them faked.
I can take anything but liars and i was really arrogant(because of those crazy peeps ya) :p
so i was fighting with guys all the time, Verbally,physically.
Girls called me crazy for fighting with guys. But i wasn't like that. I didn't wanna laugh at their non sense jokes, just cous i was a girl. Like people say girls are meant to be soft and giggling all the time( thats bull sh*t). i don't know why people cant accept us other way.
I always felt energized after a good fight. But after a fight with so called faking good friends, i always felt terrible.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Wow, you were the vice principals daughter? How was life like that? Must be hard...
I'd be mad too thanks for sharing!
@mahto1000 (51)
• India
31 Dec 10
ya quarrel is not a good thing. we all fight for something or other but later on we feel bad as it destroys the relationships. So try not to fight with anyone and live a peaceful life. Happy new year.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yup, I agree - thanks for sharing & have a happy new year!
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I haven't had a fight with anybody. Honestly, that's one of the things I wanna do during elementary grade and high school. But, never I lost my brain's screw. LOL. Just because I want someday, to have something silly , that I could share to anybody. Something about being brave.
Just wanted to have something funny I could share to others. LOL.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
You wanted to but you didn't have one to or you didn't have the guts to? :P Thanks for sharing.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
3 Jan 11
I never had a chance. lol. Though sometimes I do provoke my enemies during elementary to have fight with me, still nothing happens. We always ended up being best of friends.
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
I haven't really fought anyone physically but I've had verbal argument with people before and it is really upsetting but once you stood your ground and you know that you're in the right side and not just being stupid to think that then I feel really good inside.
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I have never been in a fight with anyone. One time when I visited my friend I think I pulled some girls hair because she said something about my family but that was it. I often wonder how I would react. Oh I almost forgot when I was in my first marriage my ex and I would fight alot physically. I don't think too much of that as a fight because it was more like a push and shove fight...
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Lol,Thanks for sharing :) I would totally pull her hair out if she talked more about my family, haha.
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
Why should I sit in a corner and lick wounds only I could see? When, I could retaliate? And, make my enemy suffer alongside with me?
ok, I'm not really a psycho but I do have temper issues, though I'm sly, I know the right time to fight back physically or verbally (I used to get into a lot of fist fights when I was young but now I have discovered a better fighting style, sarcastic insults, one-liners that maims more than any punch)
I think it's human nature to fight back, we need to if we want our rights to be respected but I'm not a bully though, I just am naturally passionate that I retaliate with flair and gusto...
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yeah, that's true however there are some nice people out there who can't but I'm someone who is easily mad.. Thanks for sharing.
@meuji100 (198)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
I have never fought anyone. I think fighting is not right to fix any problem. Fighting will just result in anger and hate to anyone. Any person who fights will feel ashamed after he/she does the fight. He/she will feel defeated after fighting with someone. If a crowd watches him/her fight, he/she will feel more ashamed. Many people will tease him/her for being a loser at a fight.
@sweetyellow (86)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
hi infatuatedbby....probably yes in my childhood years and it felt likes you're just not good enough, you can't quite believe that someone hate you then - at least not for long. You're worried that the person will ran you again on your back if not literally, then perhaps by both to be so upset we can't even talk.....
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@metrofashionevo (1)
•
31 Dec 10
Fighting is ones' expression of feeling. This may be good or bad. Good in a way because you will be able to express or let out your inner feeling , remember that keep too much feelings for yourself is bad. You may one day explode! While fighting may do harm to other. you may resort to other non-physical fights like sports contest or knowledge exams. Its all up to you to decide!
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Yeah, it's a 50/50 but I rather not because 1) I'm a female & I think it's more for males 2) It's stupid cause what's fighting going to do? You will get caught and con sequenced anyway & 3) It wasn't my problem.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Thanks for sharing & glad you realized that its wrong, I think it is too. Not the right way to solve problems but we can't help it!