Bedtime routines for children...

@buggles64 (2709)
United States
January 5, 2011 1:42pm CST
My son loves books, as a matter of fact, he always has a book in his hands. He obviously loves to read, as a parent/teacher this makes me very happy! I think though sometimes, he reads and writes to much, especially when I send him off to bed and several times throughout the night I have to turn his light off. He will sneak writing notebooks and reading books and hide them under his covers, true story! I know other parents are thinking...and what's wrong with that? At least he isn't doing something else under those covers, which is true. I would like to know though, what if any problems do you have with getting your children to bed at night? What works for you to get them to bed?
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 11
i have this problem with my duaghter but without books "_" she is two years old and she does not save the letters to read books but she is hyper active espically at night. she is jumping over everything, broken things and even i bit her she cry a littel and return to play again , my and her mam can't sleep half of night but when she sleep finally she goes in deep sleep until 3 oclok afternoon. i want to have soualation for this case but i don't know what should i do
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@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
5 Jan 11
Your daughter is like a little kitty, kittens are active in the night too.
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
5 Jan 11
I would try to avoid biting her, as you might be sending the message that biting is acceptable. Does she still sleep in a crib? Toddler bed? Wow! 3pm in the afternoon? My son is in school and in the 5th grade, so I can't let him sleep in that late.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 11
she is like tiger heheh she have toddler bed but she can jump from it and when she jump she afrid me so much because she can be injure by hitting her head in the floor now it's six oclok morning she want to sleep finally and she will not get up before 3 oclok afternoon what a relife :)
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
I would like to know though, what if any problems do you have with getting your children to bed at night? What works for you to get them to bed? hi there, my children basically have no problems when it's bed time especially if there is school, a simple sign like mixing milk or asking them to brush their teeth is a good clue for them already. Now on vacation days, I allow them to sleep a little later, so they will play games or use their pc. It's easy to make them go to bed but to be sure they are asleep is another thing and that is every good parent's delima ,guess we also did that when we were kids
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Yes, we have the bedtime routine down. Warm milk of course does help, and brushing the teeth. This is after he is bed for the night..I have tucked him in, and then he turns the light on and proceeds to read..or write or make up his comics. I'll go back in, turn the light off and he continues throughout the night. I may just have to move his bookshelf out of the room and make sure there is no paper, pens or other writing utensils for him to get a hold of :) Thanks for responding.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
8 Jan 11
The only thing that works for us to get our children to bed is to flat out threaten their lives. Of course I'm just kidding here. We allow Kathryn to read for about 20 minutes after she goes to bed because that is something that I did when I was a child and to this day I am still a reader. That said, we have actually never had a recurring problem with our children when it comes to bed time. There are isolated incidences where they don't want to go to sleep but it isn't a regular problem.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
8 Jan 11
lol...that's good. School is underway once again, and his sleeping is becoming more regular...it pretty much worked out on its' own, like somethings have to. Thanks for participating.
@pastigger (612)
• United States
5 Jan 11
My daughter is only three but I have had this problem a few times with the book. I have found taking them away usually works. You may just have to move the bookcase out and just set new rules that all drawing be done during the day and all pens and paper to be given to you before bed. After a few weeks of struggle probably he will get into a better habit of going to sleep when it is bed time. My husband is still a poor sleeper and I know we should get rid of the TV in the room but he won't hear of it. I think it takes 21 days to form a new habit so hopefully after some time he will used to be sleeping and not waking up anymore. It is tough to be a parent if they only came with instructions.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Yes...I believe you are on to something! Thank you for responding.
• United States
6 Jan 11
Racilla, TV in the bedroom is a bad idea for a grown up or a child it doesn't help you sleep at all it can actually keep you up. There are tons of studies on it, the lights stimulate your brain and make it harder for you to relax and go to sleep. My daughter will not have a tv in her room anytime soon. There are times when it keeps me up and you can even find yourself trying to stay awake to watch it. So to me TV is a very bad idea for kids and I have even seen the difference between my daughter who has sleep through the night most of her life and a lot of her friends who even at three do not sleep through the night and they have tvs in their rooms.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
5 Jan 11
Hello Buggles, i don't have children for now, but i would suggest you to tell your son that if he is resting more, he will do great job with his reading and writing. I can see myself when you write about him, i was the same way when i was child. I loved reading and writing and could do it all the time. But for writing we need fresh mind, our thoughts will be more clear if we are rested.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
5 Jan 11
Excellent idea, thank you :)
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
7 Jan 11
hi buggles64, diligent actually read one positive thing, just as parents we just need to set the time only of course with love approach.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
7 Jan 11
You are absolutely right, and I couldn't agree with you more. Thanks for your insight.
@youless (112511)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Jan 11
I must say that reading is a really good habit and it brings lots of advantages, especially for children. I am so happy for you since your child likes reading so much. You shall encourage him. Of course children also need the routine bed time. Probably try to let your child go to bed earlier and then read the books for some time and then go to sleep? Perhaps he really needs to read some books everyday so that he will be happy. I love China
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
6 Jan 11
Yes, that is a great idea too...downtime before actually going to sleep. Thank you for participating.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
7 Jan 11
I don't have a lot of trouble getting my youngest in bed. She is pretty much ready to go..lol..but that 17 year old of mine would stay up all night if I didn't keep a close check on her...lol...she has a bedtime but I have opened that door and seen the light from the cell phone or laptop shining from under the sheets. We just turn the router off at a certain time now..lol. I have taken her cell phone for a while too. She can be a hand full. My youngest does love to read and write too. She stays up late on the weekend.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
7 Jan 11
My teenagers, well they are all adults now did much of the same. They didn't like to read as much as my son though..lol. Thanks for participating.
• India
6 Jan 11
As my daughter goes for work we babysit our granddaughter. She is is two and a half years old with energy galore and by the time she is off to sleep our energy is drained off. Most of the time she prefers her grandpa to tell her stories, sing songs or list the activities of the day. He too patiently does everything for his granddaughter. At times she prefers stories from the book she takes along with her to the bed. Anyways putting a baby or a child to sleep is indeed a task that needs lots of tolerance and patience. Happy mylotting.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
6 Jan 11
Awe...now this sounds so sweet. Thanks for responding to this discussion.
• India
6 Jan 11
Well my baby loves to sing rhymes and songs so we let sing a few rhymes with him then tell him his favourite story and he goes to sleep smiling.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
6 Jan 11
That is sweet too. My kids enjoyed rhymes when they were younger as well. Thank you for responding to my question :)