How do you overcome bad feelings?

Ah, it was not patchable it seems. I am so sorry to hear this. I hope I did not influence your judgment in deciding to finish the relationship. I am feeling like an evil, now. Cheer up, I know you will love again and next time it will be better.

Everyone is going to have their problems. Naturally, people have to work through them, and have to make compromises. If we leave everyone that we have a problem with, without solving them, then we'd have no one. There will always be conflicts. Me and my bf, have broken up, twice, but thats both of our faults, and each time, we've gotten back together, should we have broken up? No, probably not. We just needed a little time away for our brains to think things through. My relationship used to be long distance, and it was for a little over two years. What it came down to, is that I couldn't stand to be distant anymore, so I moved here to be with him. I left my bf while living here, but that was only because I was deeply homesick, and working so much, that we were both exhausted, and weren't seeing much of each other. I came back after spending two weeks with my family. I then knew where my real home was, and things back with my family, was the same, but no longer the same in my heart. What you do, is up to you, no one has the same thoughts/feelings, it is your own judgement that will tell you if its the right thing to do.

Good Day! Well, for me its just a matter of acceptance for all the things that are happening in our life. Like what you've said, we cannot get all the things that we want because maybe we're meant for something better. I always think of that whenever I lost someone or something. I just relaxed my or doing lots of things to make me happy to overcome those bad feelings. I remember when I had my last boyfriend. After we broke up, I didn't eat for two weeks. I drink only water. I can't sleep at night then suddenly, i realized, I was just wasting my time doing such crazy things so when I looked in the mirror one day, I was surprised to find out that I look so ugly! That motivated me to do something that can make me happy to bring back my glowing look. Hehe! You too could.

Well, I also had shares of heart aches when I was younger. But instead of mulling over the pain, I tried to bounced back, and put up a brave face to everyone. I really don't like being pitied on. So, what I did, me and my girlfriends went to the parlor and had a makeover. I just want to feel good about myself and forget about the pain, the rejection and humiliation caused by the break-up. It was during this time, that I finally met my future husband. You see, AnnieRose, life doesn't have to stop after a break-up. It is alright to cry and to feel pain. But, we all have to move-on. We may not have what we want right now because God may have something better planned for us. So for now, go out and enjoy life!

hi, i had experienced may bad feelings in my life, but i need to overcome it, i used to go with my friends and with my family, to forget a little bit of my past, sometimes i chat with other guys,and make friendship with them.

well,I have read a scentence before that the best way to forget a person is threat him as good as you can ,one day when you find you have nothing to give ,then you forget him!I don't know wether it works!but look forward is another good way to solve such kind of problem!hope you real Mr right will come to you soon!for me,I will eat ,go shopping or have a travel to relax myself whenever I 'm tired of my life!they are good ways!you know ,you may come cross you Mr right on the way! good luck

i'm so sorry to hear about your story... but one thing that amazes me is how can you be in a long distance relationship for 3 years and not visit you even once??? how do you communicate and interact with each other all these times??? i think this is what causes the misunderstandings between you and him because of the lack of communication as you hardly see each other... this is what i thought... anyway, hope you will feel better soon... take care and have a nice day...

The practical side of me says that you shouldn't have dragged a long distance relationship for 3 years and that too when your bf didn't even visit you once. But from the emotional point of view I think it was right on your part that you gave your relationship time to sort itself out but it didn't work out. Unsuccessful relationships leave behind a sting which hurts every time you see something which reminds you of the beautiful days. This hurting feeling will be there for sometime and will go away automatically. Just try to see if you can find love in some other form. It need not be another man because sometimes its not that easy to love someone else so soon. It can be a hobby or some thing which you can do which makes you happy. Try to do that, you will slowly forget about the pain and move on.

For me yes it is after a one month of breaking up and pray to Jehovah God that he can cure you and through your Borden to him in the time when you about to praying in him.

as of the "lovelife" thing... i dont have a story about it because i got no GF since birth... but about overcoming feelings.. when i'm angry at something or someone.. in order to overcome my anger.. i eat junkfoods... Lots of junk foods... :)

Hello annierose, Well, life is so wonderful and full of mystery. We are made because of love and this reason makes us very sensitive when it comes to love!. The feeling of heart broken plays a big part in our life to find someone better. For me, i never look for a man to fulfill my whole being as a woman. One day that perfect right man for us will just come along in our life. But don't let of making someone to fill your emptiness. We can can be complete as a human being even if without a man in our side. Feeling of insecurity and inferiority when one has no bf or gf is not healthy. When you reached to a point in life that you feel happy even without a man then you are much more happier and emotionally ready to receive someone as part of your life in a more deeper relationship.

everyone experiences heartbreaks and I think everyone also agrees that only time and your own willpower to move on can heal your wounded heart... ...moving on is never easy but not impossible...don't worry, get a new hobby, make yourself prettier, revamp yourself and you'll be surprised to realize soon enough that you've moved on...and became a better person

I suggest you use Sedona Method, or the art of letting go. I find this a very practical and easy solution to ease the negative feelings you feel inside. They say time heals everything. I find it true somehow; however, I still hear stories about people not getting over with their problems after a number of years. They will also benefit from this method. Check it out. Hope this helps.

It's like the scar from when one of The Nine stabbed Frodo Baggins in the stomach ("Lord of the Rings"). It never stops hurting. To find another man, love yourself. Loving yourself, you will go where yourself will have fun. Having fun, you will naturally attract the man (or the many men) whose fun is more-fun when you are sharing in it!

We have no control over how we will feel about something or someone. All we csn do is face the feelings we have. If we have bad feelings, we need to try to turn them into positive ones. If we don't we will live with regret.