girl's instinct

What kind of messages does your husband gets? this depends too if you are already suspicious on something. But it is important to talk these things to your husband too and tell him that you trust him but you don't trust his friends. Also tell your husband how you feel. Just be true to him and tell also your man to not lie so that the trust will always be there. In a relationship trust is important. A wife should do what a wife should and that includes setting things right before your husband. Don't just believe to what you feel, investigate well and just don't get much on the emotion. Be wise as well as be gentle and know how to control your temper. You cannot think clearly if you are already so angry.

Sometimes our strong instincts might be able to shed some lights to what is played behind the curtains. In order not to be emotional provoked, refrain from checking on his hand-phone. But men are always playfuland like to fool around with their mobiles. As long as there is no bodily contact, let him have a little fun with sms.

Your suspicion is right upto an extent but you will have to believe your hubby what he says. Trust is very important and if start doubting, then things could turn into mess.

Hi Jhazhy, You are torturing yourself by going thru your husbands phone and things. You said that you trust him and that you KNOW that this girl and he are just friends. Still, it sounds as if you are looking for some sort of evidence to prove that there is more to it than them just being friends. Sounds as if deep in your heart that you do not trust him or her. I think it is time to have a serious talk with your husband.

Girls,instinct is always right because you won't feel anything if you didn't see or feel somethings that is going wrong.Like what you said,you saw it from his sent items of course,why he will tell you.He knows you'll be hurt. Simply,man are so good in hiding or keeping secrets and we all know that.They very much good in controlling things that they will not be caught.Your husband should able to tell anything from you and you must know who's those person in registered to his phone related to him. Try to confront of him and do a private investigate on his things.Try also,to know what they are texting about because that's the only thing you can find out.If he has extra affair to someone. I know you are trusting him,but remember his a human being, a man who will commit sin anytime.There's always a temptation and remember having another affair to someone is exist in all a relationship.That's the thing we can't avoid to happened no matter how hard will care our relationship.But,instead to give up if there really is,fight for it.For love is not about of giving up if there's problem but to fight for it and survive.

I am not sure exactly why you were going through his phone to begin with. You said that they were friends so there should be no reason why he couldnt talk to her. If he has not had an affair with her or been caught in a comprimising situation with her I believe you need to find out why you really are so jealous of her. Maybe due to your going through his phone and questioning him he feels he has to lie about talking with his friend because if he tells you the truth you get upset and jealous but he does not want to tell his friend he cant be friends anymore because his wife is jealous. No one wants to lose a friend because of that.

I want you to know that you need to listen to your instincts very carefully. As a wife, we have a special connection to our husbands through the many years being together and all the experiences we have ever had. You were reacting on your instincts when you checked his phone and found the messages. I don't know what they are, but my guess is that they must have annoyed you to confront him directly about it. I want you to be careful with what you know from now onwards. By telling him directly what you saw in his messages, it MAY just bring his activities undercover. But everything is okay now and you truly feel in you gut that everything is okay, then there is nothing to worry about. But deep in your heart, you feel that something is wrong, you would just want to watch his moves from now on. I've been there, so I know how it feels. Trust me, I've been through worse. This is the beginning. If you can nip it in the bud, great! All the best!

No way! You are going to eventually find out you are married to a looser. Honestly, he can only lie so long. He is still lying. When you do find out just slap him and turn around and walk away. Don't speak to him again. This is not about jealousy, it's about a marriage, big difference.

There's a few things that caught my attention with your post. (1) What has brought you to go through your husband's cell phone? (2) Are you naturally jealous, or is it just with THIS girl? (3) Why did your husband choose to lie about communicating with this girl? Normally, I would say that a woman's instinct tells a lot about the situation at hand. However, if there's a past of dishonesty within your relationship, then that could be taking a toll on your current trust issues. Has your husband done anything to cause you to not trust him? What was his "excuses" for lying about the message? I just know from experience that there's usually more than meets the eye with certain situations. Good luck with your husband.

Take care not to make the molehill! I think we must give some proof of wisdom. If indeed cheating on the truth will emerge (sooner or later). As long as you do not have evidence to trust him. Which is based on love?I think on trust and mutual respect. Good luck!

I beleive to a girl instinct...its treu..maybe if imyour shoes i would be jealous also.....You should investigate my dear....