karebear48464

@karebear48464 (10)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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As of now, what are the things that bothers you?

Bianca_mergillano @Bianca_mergillano (1067) • Philippines 9 Jan 11

Good Day! As of now, what are the things that bothers you? Well, me? As of now, the thing that bothers me is about school. I want to get a job and my teacher told me to talk to our head in school for the job. Until now I...

bothering

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karebear48464 As of right now, I would have to say that the only thing that is really bothering me is my ex-husband whom I share two children with. We have two upcoming court hearings this month and I'm really stressed out about them because it has to do with the kids and...

9 Jan 11

When In Doubt

cajimenez @cajimenez (452) • Philippines 9 Jan 11

Hello my fellow mylotter, I just want to ask your opinion about my friend current question. She found this message in his husband e-mail, the sender is a female friend. (the husband didn't know she knows his password ok)...

infidelity

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karebear48464 Okay, from my own experience, I would have to say that there is definitely something fishy about this e-mail. There's a few things that were brought to my attention: (1) Your friend already has trust issues with her husband else she wouldn't be checking...

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Child support hearing?

karebear48464 @karebear48464 (10) • United States 7 Jan 11

Friday is my ex-husband's third child support show cause hearing and he's $5348 behind. We've been to court twice in front of the referee but he's used the excuse that he is unable to find work because he's on Vicodin around the...

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Are you a Forgiving Person?

stepje @stepje (35) • Philippines 6 Jan 11

Forgiveness is a simple word but as we see around us it is also an action word that is so hard to practice. Everyday we face situations in life that we need o forgive. However, its really hard to to do it when someone has wronged...

forgiving people

happy people

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karebear48464 Yes, I do agree with that statement, "forgiving people are happy people". In my opinion, when we choose not to forgive someone for their wrong doings against us, then it becomes our problem and a burden that we must carry around with us. Even though, I would...

6 Jan 11

Are we good roll models for our kids?

celticeagle @celticeagle (166660) • Boise, Idaho 30 Dec 10

I have read alot of books on child psycology and talked to alot of child counselors and one of the monumental things we all have to remember as parents- we need to be good roll models for our kids. Sometimes its hard. I know for...

child counselors

child psychology

roll models

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karebear48464 I'm a strong believer that a parent is the child's first teacher. With this in mind, we have to remember that our children learn a great deal from what they see/hear at home. I do think that we worry too much but it's all for a good cause, in my opinion. Often...

6 Jan 11

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Were you able to achieve your childhood dream?

kaycharmedMD @kaycharmedMD (381) • Philippines 6 Jan 11

Children are natural dreamers. As I've seen in television, in pageants and contests for little boys and girls, they would always be asked "What do you want to become when you grow up?" I have to say majority of them would answer...

childhood

dream

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karebear48464 The very first dream that I remember having as a child was to become a mother and I can honestly say that I have accomplished that dream. I'm the mother to two beautiful little girls and currently pregnant with my last child. This seems to be a normal dream...

6 Jan 11

Do you have places you hate a place because of somrthing that happened?

cripfemme @cripfemme (7698) • United States 6 Jan 11

I hate Subway, because a boy left me in one when I told him I was bi. I haven't eaten in Subway since, although I've gone into them and eaten from them. Every time I go into one I want to throw up, even though it happened over 15...

experiences

hate

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karebear48464 Yes, I do have a similar experience with a place in my hometown. There was a county building where they held the weekly flea market and behind this building was storage sheds that held the county vehicles. When I was 11 years old (15 years ago) I was raped in...

6 Jan 11

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girl's instinct

jhazhy @jhazhy (18) • Philippines 6 Jan 11

I woke up early today to prepare the things for my husband but I found some annoying things in his phone. There's a girl keep sending a message with him, and of course my husband responded with it. I know there's nothing wrong...

dont lie

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karebear48464 There's a few things that caught my attention with your post. (1) What has brought you to go through your husband's cell phone? (2) Are you naturally jealous, or is it just with THIS girl? (3) Why did your husband choose to lie about communicating with this...

6 Jan 11

Staying in a bad relationship

freymind @freymind (1351) • Philippines 6 Jan 11

What are you thinking and why are you doing this to yourself are some of the questions that people throw at girls and guys that are in a relationship that doesn't benefit them and worst make them vulnerable on being hurt...

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karebear48464 I got divorced in February 2010 which was the end of a very unhealthy relationship that lasted 6 years. Even to this day, I couldn't really give an explanation as to what made me stay as long as I did. The relationship was emotionally and physically abusive...

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