bad boys finish first and gets the girl

well as a man. i think that bad boys just can say what they can say. and good boys? well they actually cant even though they really like a girl or even love them.

Bad boys have one thing which many good boys doesn't have, confidence and guts. WOman are often attracted to man with confidence and guts for we feel sense of security being with them. ON top of that, bad boys do see the world in a different angle and that's where all the thrills, excitment comes. It's like a sparkle in the relationship, always unpredictable, with new things coming up all the time.

I think it has something to do with confidence level, attitude.I feel attraction fo nice guys who are equally witty,confident and dont ask if i can kiss you before they do it.

I think that the reason that there are a lot of girls that are attracted to bad boys is because the bad boys that we encounter during our lives make us step outside our usual comfort zone. I know that my first boyfriend was really a person that could be considered to be a bad boy and then a few years later when I was ready to settle down, I ended up getting married to a man that would probably have been considered a bad boy when he was younger.

I volunteered on a rehab program at our State Penitentiary many years ago. I was deeply disturbed by the number of girls who came to the program, invited by their inmate boyfriends. The guards had their hands full keep their hands off each other. While the inmates were relatively behaved their girlfriends were not! Yuck!

girl, how will you do with your boyfriend on valens day? he is good or bad to you. now you want to marry or not? maybe you are trying to find who is the best one for you.

i think it is for a simple reason... like you say, bad boys got the charm... in other words, they look 'cool'... this 'cool'ness is what attract girls to them even though they know that it is not the right thing to do... take care and have a nice day...

Girls are always soft and they trust people who make them beautiful promises about life and love. A real, honest good guy cann't make such false promises cause he fears of not being able to keep upto those promises... So no wonder girls fall prey to those sweet and promising words. But they themself should be mature enough anf decide for their part if the guy is trust worthy or not.

I started a discussion about whether we like people who look nice but are mean or people who look mean but are nice... and of course a lot of us preferred people who look mean but are really nice. I wondered if this may have something to do with our attraction to bad boys.. maybe we know that they're already bad, so, we end up 'forgiving' but when they're always good and suddenly do something bad.. it's really heart breaking. Or we keep wondering when are they going to hurt me and that burden is too heavy. In a show, a girl was with a good guy and she said she couldn't take the pressure and she ended up cheating on him! She felt like she had to be as good as him so she ended up doing something really bad!!

It must be the thought that these guys project a macho image. Just like in the movies, bad guys can be your protector against real bad guys, never scared of having a bout just to protect you. And sometimes, their being bad has that kind of sexiness. It makes us feel that we are women because with them being stronger and fiercer than us, we are our heroes and knight in shining armour while we are their princess. Oh, yes, bad guys can make you feel like you are the most important woman in the world. It maybe boils down into one thing.Bd guys are expected to do bad things and when they do good things for a woman, it flatters her. While good guys are expected to do good things so there's nothing new and nothing special about it. Also, in the animal world, those who are stronger, fiercer wins the female and also becomes the leader of the herd. He is the one considered as alpha male. It is innate in us.

Hiya frey, I know and have known at least four Girls now Women that have fallen for men like this and they have ended up badly done to. Their life has been made a misery. One even had to flee the Country to live in another that is not her own and she is still there to this very Day all because of the "bad boy". Yes this one is very charming, very handsome but that´s where I draw the line. She is so unbelievably pretty still and yet not able to live how she wants. This is the worst one I know of all the others live in my home Country but yes they have come off badly too. Another one I know from my Country also had her life made a complete misery and she was so young too. Him the other one goes around like nothing ever happened. I have met her in the Street with black eye and bruised face and pushing a Pram too. Don´t think I need to say any more than that.

I read an article about this somewhere. One of the reasons that good girls fall for the bad guys is that lost-boy charm they exude. Like, finding a cute, stray cat and bringing it home to nurture (Sorry for the allusion to cats, boys, but that's what the article says. Or, is it, sorry cats for the allusion to boys? Hmmm). It's also the challenge of changing Mr. Bad Boy into a Mr. Nice Guy who you could bring home to mom. And, of course, there's the "promise of excitement" that they give to goody good girls.

People have their own preferences, if you're attracted to bad boys, there must be something on them that does the attraction. You live your own life, people can't tell you what's right or wrong. One is responsible for his actions and doings. There's human's and God's laws and as long as you're not breaking any, you get to enjoy the life you're in!