at any time for more open?

@pit33pit (534)
Indonesia
January 9, 2011 12:16am CST
I have been dating with someone for more than 3 times the meeting. I thought it was now more open up and talk anything more serious. how your opinion is this wrong? or not it time?
3 responses
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
9 Jan 11
Well what do you mean about a time to be more open? I remember the first few times I met with my husband. I was afraid to really eat in front of him because he might think I was a pig or something. I didn't like to tell him about what I really liked doing when I went out because he might think I was too wild. I remember I didn't even want to kiss me either because I thought he might think I was loose. I don't think he told me half the things he did either till we started to date some more. It can go good or bad if you say too much in the beginning.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
9 Jan 11
This sounds like me! Ha! I like to known as "good" but not "to good" no one wants to be known as a "goody 2 shoes" and not any fun, but there are ways to have fun without being loose, or drinking and being totally wild.
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
9 Jan 11
I used to be more wild when I was in my early 20's. I am really quiet but I did do alot of wild things, especially if I was drinking. My life is really quiet now because I have my kids. I don't really drink and it seems I have to remain this role model for my kids so I keep quiet. Yes I think people think I am a good 2 shoes which makes me laugh inside because if they only knew the truth, only my husband has now seen the truth.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
which I mean open, more familiar example is adjusted to the culture here acquainted with her family and others. talk about this relationship would be taken to any direction and others. I mean what is too fast. thank you. have a nice day
• United States
9 Jan 11
The dating period is the time you and a partner get to know each other more and more. Therefore, I would say as the "meetings" take place there is room for more and more discussion about one another. You certainly do not want to talk a partners ears off right away, gradually talk about things you like and dislike and the rest comes naturally.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
you are right, thanks.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
9 Jan 11
When you have strong feelings for someone, you should let them know as soon as you are able. Never leave them guessing. You can save a lot of time, by letting them know early in the relationship what your feelings are so that if they want to continue with the relationship they can make that choice. Also, it will save time and down the road if the other person doesn't the same way. You can either build a relationship that could lead to marriage or you could go your separate ways. Why put off tomorrow, what you can do today.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
that's what I mean. but since I spent childhood abroad, cultural clashes sometimes occur. what is embedded is me as an example of how to express difficult to apply to the woman in my country. I agree completely with the expression of what can be done today why the delay tomorrow. thank you