Remaining single whole life – is it something bad.

maybe sometimes people tend to be single because they just want to live the life as an independent person who only cares for himself/herself. and as for being lonely, i don't think people will get lonely because they are single they have their friends and family that can make them happy.

I suppose there are people who feel better when they are single,but I think there are few who enjoy living in a permanent state of loneliness,and I find it hard to believe that they are happy;I think only people who don't like,or even hate mankind can really be happy when they are lonely.There are moments when it's good to be lonely,but if that becomes a way of life,then it will be very difficult for a lonely person to get help from others when needed since nobody would care about that person.

Nope remaining single for the rest of your life is not bad. And every single thing that is happening in our daily lives has a purpose. Maybe God wants you to be on that stage of your life because He has other plans for you. And being single is not lonely its just that you just have to find your purpose in life.

Hi SHAMRACK, Most relationships that mean something are made up of a mix of good and bad. When a break up ensues, whether brought on or one sided, it brings with it a temporary state of reaching a point where the bad outweighs the good - and very often, though you can’t see it through the haze that is pain, it’s true. In one of the strangest displays of irony, two people who are just bad for each other, will go back and forth between trying and giving up, unable to see, that no matter how painful, getting out is the reasonable option, the sane one. Many of us seek security in relationships, and when the security is threatened, we cling, instead of letting go. Letting go is liberation, but it’s hard to see that. While it may seem like the better option to dive into a distraction, it’s not better, it’s just easier. If you’re wise enough, early enough, to take the road less traveled, you may well find, that just like Robert Frost promised, it does, in fact, make all the difference. Staying single is a choice, and a good one at that. Learn to love yourself, and you’ll find life happier all round.

This post of your's my friend has caught me up: you see I am experiencing today what they same as a heartbreak down. You see i always been not successful when it comes to love. I was always loss, i love but still i can't get love from someone.. I always get "busted" when courting, i guess i really have proper way of handling this type of things.. getting me confused.. I'm thinking to just be single for the rest of my life..but still i hope i can have the girl in my dreams someday..

The matter of being single is Subjective . However, i believe that if someone is earning good, is full of ambitions and is happy with s/he is doing , there are no possibilities of feeling lonely. One could be termed as Single only when s/he is feeling lonely and is in solitude most of the time. I am single too, but never thought of being lonely . In fact i make it a point to not feel lonely , by being busy doing something which will helps me make money. I buy happiness with the money i have earned ! I work hard , party harder. That's the rule of Being Single,Being Happy ! Happy Lotting

i think this is a very personal decision... when somebody choose to be single, it is his/her decision and we have to respect that person's decision... but actually in the Bible it says that God wants us to get married and those people who aren't married are actually being called by God to do His special purpose... take care and have a nice day...

it's not bad but it would be lonely for sure. unless you're going to adopt or let other people live in your house with you. i prefer to be alone most of the time and it's okay if i don't have a boyfriend but i would love to have my own family when it's about time.

It's all about your purpose in life. I know some people who dedicate their life to charity and all. Their attention is on this field. They don't need a partner in life as being in a charity already makes them complete. If I will be speaking for myself. I can't imagine myself being single in the future.

There are some person who chose to be single all their life , but there are those that wouldn't like to be but no one has asked him/her to be his partner. There are also those who have experienced to have a partner but was unlucky for a good one so after the break-up he/she chose to be single forever. But in my opinion, those single ones sometimes feels that they do want a partner in life who they can grow old with. It's just that they have gotten that old , and it's difficult already to find a partner. I can say that because i believe in the saying "No man is an island"

I definitely agree with the comments here. It's just a matter of choice. Sometimes, some tend to be too choosy when it comes to having a partner reason why they single. And that is their choice. They sometimes became sad and depressed because they are alone. Again, that is their choice. However, happiness is also a choice. Being single means having lots of time for yourself to look for happiness. For me, there's nothing wrong with being single as long as the person is happy and contented.

i guess it aint bad considering that its the individual's choice to remain single. for me, am sure i cant though am still single but young...sooon i will have to settle down to marriage because i know i cant handle feeling lonely when i meet my hommies with their couples!!!! if those who choose to remain single enjoy being single or those who have married and separated choose to remain single they definitely have their good reasons for that and we cant say it's bad because we will be judging them as per our point of view and not theirs!

Being single is not so bad?whats wrong if that is there choice theres nothing wrong with that?as long as they are happy if what they choose then that would be fine.In other side also there is a negative side of being a single especially when u become get ting older coz no one will take care of you.

Being single is not bad as long as you are happy and enjoyed.