I want to be happy!
By johnyang1992
@johnyang1992 (86)
China
January 12, 2011 6:56am CST
I am 18 years old,at work, the present life has been at the bottom.I really want to be happy.I'm exhausted.I do not know what?!
8 responses
@missybear (11391)
• United States
12 Jan 11
I don't know how to help you but you're way to young to feel like that, snap out of it there's lots of things to be happy about.
You can feel miserable when you old.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
12 Jan 11
Hi there,
Enjoyment is neither bought nor thrust. This is the condition of your psychic phenomenon. It very much happens that sometime I too do not feel like going to college as it is boring. But if you are enjoying it or not does not matter as it is your duty you have to accomplish it.
On such state of mind better you see a counselor and on prescription take medicine. And I am quite sure you are having lack of harmony between your body and mind
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
12 Jan 11
Hi johny, you are too young to go to work, you should have a plan day to day activities and a balanced time table then you can do your work perfectly and there is no exhausted or getting tired. Planning is more important if you are working, be happy and don't think much about your work and present life.
God bless you.
@money4moms (234)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
Hi! Happiness comes from within. Take some time to reflect the things in your life i mean the reasons for your sadness. Cry it out if you like to release everything from your past hurts. Then most important of all is to pray always especially when things are not good. Avoid negative thoughts. Focus on your blessings. Do the things you love & think of better ways to improve your life. I hope it helps a bit. Smile more often. God bless you more.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
15 Jan 11
Why you don't happy?What have been upset you..Maybe you should cheer up and have confidence in you,you r 18 now and you should be proud of that.I don't know why you're unhappy,but when i was your age i was happy and feel confidence in everything.Hey,cheer up!Everything would be fine!
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
12 Jan 11
You should take some more time before you start working, you are young enough not to work at this age. You can spend more time of sports and otehr fun activities, concentrate on studies.
Thank You for sharing.
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
oh, that must be really hard.
i can't just tell you to stop working and rest because then you'll have no income. and you can't live without income. do you have a hobby at least? you can try to cheer yourself up by doing what you like.
i have been working part-time since i was 17 and i'm still on it up to now. i need the extra income for some school allowance. my mom still sends me money but i don't want to ask for so much. i know she has a lot to pay for.
i'm still working now, and i sure am tired because i'm still in the university too. i try to relieve stress by doing what i enjoy best. i play the guitar and i love going to the movies. and getting my favorite food helps a lot too.:D
i'll graduate soon and i guess i'll be proud of myself then for surviving all the troubles that come with working while studying. i hope you can make yourself proud too. don't give up. something great is waiting for you out there.:)