to remain single or find someone whom you wiil shared your life forever?

Don't worry about that.Love will find you no matter where you are and what you are.Negative experiences are part of our life.Love's perfect, but life isn't and never will be.All couples have quarrels,even separations.Never judge yourself by what you were, you can change.Leave the past behind.Think about what you want from your future relationships and try to avoid old mistakes.Good Luck.

In my opinion you have to be honest with yourself. Are you happy alone? Some people are. One thing too is why did these last two relationships fail? Perhaps you need to stay single awhile, get comfortable with who you want and want you need in a relationship and then,when you have that figured out get back in a relationship. You will have a much better time of it.

One should never get married except for true love. If you aren't sure, don't get married. True love won't leave.

There's nothing wrong with being single. It is a good way to express and keep your independence. Having someone to share your life with can be very rewarding. If we don't have that person, it doesn't make our lives mean less.

well life never ends and we have to move on, so you should look for a partner to marry and your life will again be on track. love can blossom any time my friend. so have fun and keep the fire of hope ignited in your mind.

Hey pegerhuet, I take it from your other discussion thread that you should be approaching or at 30. When was your last failed relationship? Was it recent? If it is so, maybe you really need to time-out before you make that statement about being single. If it had been a while, could you have made the statement so that in the event you really did not find anyone to entrust your life, ah....you had predicted correctly that singlehood is your lot. Frankly,from this discussion and "What is it when you turn 30?", I tend to get the feeling that you do long for companionship. I may be wrong, but if you do, loosen up, have fun knowing more people. Do not force fit guys into potential husbands or otherwise. If the right one comes along, there's no stopping you, because He will make sure you become his wife. I hope that helps?

If you ask me that questions, I would absolutely choose to find someone whom I share my life forever. Why? It is simple because I don't want to live alone. I want to have someone to share, to laugh, to love, to kiss and to hug. I want to have someone beside me to leads me, accompanies me, makes me secure and happy. Marriage is more serious than that and if I find the person I am comfortable with, I will certainly get married with him.

Greetings! No, don't feel desperate. I also experienced failed relationships that made me single for a very long time because I've learned from what have happened but still, I know I'm not meant to be single. I know there's someone out there meant for me. Time will tell when I would meet him or maybe I met him already. I'm willing to share responsibilities because if you love someone, you don't mind doing those responsibilities. If you're meant to be single, then its okay. If you're meant to get married, much better because you have someone you could spend your whole life with. Just follow what your heart desires. :)

For me don't gave up your partner in life is not seen yet take a prayer to Jehovah God that he can gave you.

u know peopel have different approach towards life style and life itself so different people spend thier lives in various ways have said that i believe in this path having a bitter experienc eof life partner or a partner could nto a final verdict to hold it but i guess its soemthign which could not happen in anyway for the sake of existance.

Dear I am about to get married. And i personally feel that you can share your view and feeling with your friend also but a life partner is very different. So if you think that you are having life partner only for sharing your feeling is totally wrong according to me.. Thanks

Well, if you personally feel that you are not yet ready, then you must remain single till the Love of your life comes searching for you! I mean, wait for someone who accepts you the way you are and wait till he is ready to share the responsibilities of yours along with him. I think, by then even you will be ready and you will have a happy and a balanced life in the future. Just don't come to conclusions. Sit back and relax! Give some time for yourself and then after sometime listen to your heart and get to know what it really wants! The answer you want is within you!

You should never give up! Life is so full of surprises. I have a friend who failed in her relationships a lot of times but she never gave up and right now she is happily married with two kids. But of course, if you're still in the process of mending your broken heart, do not hurry and take time to enjoy just being with yourself. You just don't know that the right person has not come yet, so just open your heart to the possibilities of loving someone again when you think that you are ready. Also I think living with yourself for the rest of life is kinda lonely, don't you think? If you're not ready to get married yet then by all means enjoy life with your partner and do not hurry yourselves in settling down. Being married actually has a lot of responsibilities but that is something that you should not be afraid of but something to prepare for. I am happily married myself even if my husband and I has to take good care of a lot things, but if you do it together, life is easy and marriage is something to be welcomed into your life.:)

maybe you are still grieving over your last failed relationship? once you've finally moved on, you'd again realize that life is better shared with someone than lived alone. it makes waking up much more meaningful :) but there's also such a thing as single blessedness. some people choose to be single and not to have kids and they also find meaning in that choice. there's no right or wrong choice between the two. it's about finding out what matters to you the most.

i still believe in love no matter how bad any experiences can be, remaining single is a choice and no one can force you not to do that but from my experience it still great to find someone whom you can share your life, someone you will spend the rest of your eternity with. It still great to have a family you can grow old with. Life can never be fair and you can't expect to be always happy, but what is important is that you get to be stronger with every mistakes you have in the past.

i know people who are married and are very happy while some are just feeling miserable and wished they never did. i also know of some who chose to stay single until now, they are happy, while others are still waiting for that special someone to come along. people are different in their wants and needs, it is really up to you where you will be happy. if you think you can stand waking up next to somebody (warts and all) every single day of your life and are very much willing to share your own life with that person, then get married. but if you feel you are too independent-minded and don't like to share your bed, responsibilities, and the rest of your life with someone else, then stay single. we make our own choices. whatever your decision, i wish you all the best, pelgerhuet!

am not officially in a relationship right now 'cause i guess i prefer being single -- for now. but i'm currently dating this guy. i believe i love him already. hahahaha.. he's just cool with me. but i just don't know why i don' wanna commit with him. he understands though as long as we go out and we're there whenever we need each other. i wanna get married in due time. i wanna have a family and enjoy life together with my favorite guy and kids. it's easier and happier i think if you have someone to share with of everything you have.