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hardworkinggurl @hardworkinggurl (37063) • United States 8 Feb 11

I am very fortunate/blessed to live with an Actor as I get to see him in so many different plays, taping of films and commercials. We travel many times depending on where and what show/plays he is doing. I am also the program...

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zapatee hmmm, free cocktails, meeting different actors, seeing the plays, seeing your man do what he loves to do, oh you really are lucky, hardworkinggurl!. just go easy on the cocktails, . i have so much respect for theater...

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goldeneagle @goldeneagle (6743) • United States 3 Feb 11

OK...I need some advice from those among us who are more computer literate than I am. I just created a gmail account for myself today, and I saw a thing on there that said I could get email alerts and other useful things with my...

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zapatee i had firefox before but it was very sloooow, so i tried chrome. at first, crashes were frequent and it didn't carry the easy features i liked about firefox. but when the crashes were much lesser and i noticed that it was a bit faster than firefox then i...

8 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee hi, jenintn. yup, often the passion and excitement is really high at the beginning of every relationship. i agree with your grandfather that "liking" the person you are with can boost the chances of having a successful relationship. mutual respect is also very...

8 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee yup, debbie, communication is really important as much as honesty, trust, and acceptance. often, misunderstandings happen because we don't talk with our partners when we should. well, it's part of making the relationship grow and mature and knowing each...

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee yes, being "jailed" or imprisoned is wrong in a relationship. freedom as an individual should still be respected and partners are supposed to make each other grow as individuals and as a partner in a relationship. thanks for responding!

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee that's what i think too, macdolinger. well, "controlling" people do exist and they seem to like having that certain sadistic power over their partners and that's just sad. these people use different forms of "owning" or "controlling" their partners like...

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee yup, tiffnkeat, a relationships is not about ownership and there is responsibility. each one must work to make the whole thing succeed, not just one or the other. trust is very important too as it is one of the basic ingredients that make it work, like honesty...

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee oh, okay, jete. well, methinks one-night stands are not relationships in the real sense of the word. relationships cannot be built in one night or a few days even. in my book at least, they take time--months or years and i don't think they are a waste of time....

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee i like that idea, macdingolinger! "mad money" for one's personal spending or savings, that's great. i think it would even be fun because i can sure use some of it to buy my partner surprise presents too . thanks for...

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zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee i completely agree with you on that, hardworkinggurl. often we let even the smallest or silliest things get in the way of making our relationships work. we also forget about the "partnership" thing, the give-and-take that binds two different people...

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zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee that's exactly why i opened up this discussion, lakota. i keep seeing couples, married, young or old, who argue so much about how one is supposed to "behave" as a wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend commonly triggered by too much jealousy, possessiveness, or...

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee yup, markroderick. one of the biggest things i really appreciate about couples who have been together for many years is how they try to give each other enough space to pursue other things outside of their relationship or marriage. i think that alone helps to...

6 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee you got that right, lhenpaule. supporting each other's dreams and interests while maintaining your relationship is great. while we may not understand some of our partner's individual needs or wants, as long as there is respect, trust, and some freedom given, i...

5 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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zapatee i agree, gambamarcela. each one of us should still strive to maintain our individualities and independence while keeping our relationships. i know many couples who have stayed for 20, 30, more years in their marriage, happy and with no lack of respect for each...

5 Feb 11

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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Suggar @Suggar (3606) • Bulgaria 4 Feb 11

Hello friends, i am just on my way to talk about relationships tonight. I'm not participating here regular, because i feel that i have nothing important to say, but tonight i have inspiration to share something important for...

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zapatee i agree with you, suggar. giving oneself a break before jumping into another relationship would really do us good. smell the flowers, like some say, and think about yourself for awhile. some people only need a few months before they get ready for another...

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thegreenbunny @thegreenbunny (214) • Italy 3 Feb 11

A collegue of mine is getting divorced and since he has a kid he had to go to a judge to decide who the kid will stay with, which is kind of sad. But the worst thing is that the judge asked the kid (he's only 4 years old!) "Who...

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zapatee some countries have laws that cover this predicament, like for a child at a certain age range is made to live with his/her mother while the father continues to give support. when the child is older, he/she then can make a choice whether he/she wants to live...

4 Feb 11

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