zapatee

@zapatee (477)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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so sad . . .

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Feb 11

why do some people believe that in romantic relationships, one has the right to act as if his/her partner is a "property" and less of a person who has an independent mind, heart, and needs too? i've always believed that partners...

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2 people

who is it?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Dec 10

who is that one person (or persons) that you believe made a significant influence in your life or any specific facet in your life that contributed to your growth, positive change, or change of perspectives? does this person still...

positive influence

7 responses

half empty or half-full?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Dec 10

currently, do you see your glass as half-full or half-empty? do you think you have already accomplished a lot that you can already choose to relax or least be choosy with what you want to do with your life? or do you still...

accomplishments

success

17 responses •

1 person

tell me who your friends are

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 18 Oct 10

and i'll tell you who you are. do you believe that the kind of people that we allow into our lives also reflect who we are and what we believe in? it is often said that we can not choose our relatives and neighbors, but we...

tell me

11 responses

what reminds or tells us . . .

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 18 Oct 10

often, the busy lives that we live tend to make us forget the little things that's equally important and reminds us of simple joys or of thoughts that make us happy or remember who we are. stop and smell the flowers. do you do...

smell the flowers

5 responses

your kids and who they are

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

as a parent, would you let your children choose the dream or person they wish to be when they grow up or would you like to dictate your own ambition on them? do you think it is right to impose our own ambitions on our children...

ambitions

kids

5 responses

your favorite words

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

what is or are your favorite words? what comes into your mind or what do you remember or feel whenever you come across these favorite words of yours?

favorite words

3 responses

the sound, sight, and feel of rain

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

when you see, hear, or feel the rain coming down on you or on the roof where you are, what comes into your mind or how does it make you feel? do you remember something or somebody? or do you just get irritated?

the sound of rain

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2 people

can you work with the tv/radio on?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Sep 10

can you or do prefer to work while the tv/music is on? are you sensitive to noise that it easily distracts you from what you are seriously working/studying/reading on? if yes, how do you deal with it?

music

noise

work

28 responses •

7 people

should a mother/father feel guilty?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 5 Sep 10

should a single parent feel guilty about leaving their child/children with relatives when she/he needs to work far away from home? tell me what you think, guys?

10 responses

what irritates or frustrates you most? name at least 3...

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 15 May 07

what makes u wanna scream, groan or feel like pulling ur own hair because someone or something just irritated or frustrated u? sometimes our frustrations/irritations happen on a regular basis...sometimes some uncalled for...

groan

irritate

list

2 responses

what's the craziest thing you did for love..?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 30 Apr 07

whats the craziest (funniest, saddest, scariest, stupidest,etc)thing you ever did for, all or because of love?!? let's talk about your experiences with your partner whether ex- or present, or one with a beloved family member or...

at its craziest best

love

5 responses

politics in the work place...can we move on without it?

zapatee @zapatee (477) • Philippines 12 Mar 07

i've worked for over a decade now and even before finishing school. and through the years and number of offices and co-workers i've been with, i've encountered politics in various degrees and different faces. and through it all...

politics at work

sad but true

ubiquitous