Have you ever missed someone so badly?
By gracielle
@gracielle (346)
Philippines
January 20, 2011 3:38am CST
My husband is out of town, because of work & he's away for 3 long days. I miss him so badly, I wished he bring me with him but it's not possible. We have a son which is apparently going to school everyday. If I also went away, no one will take care of him. My mom can but i prefer not to, i hate how she nag me about it.
My husband & I we're so closed, when he's home most of the time we are together literally together, it's like we are glued together. If one of us is away for just a minute we missed each other right away. It's sounds OA right, but it's true. I'm possessive & he is too. Most of the time we fight about it. I always thinks that he has a mistress, hope I'm wrong but whatever things are happening now I still missed him so badly right now.
You?, have you ever missed someone so badly?
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18 responses
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
20 Jan 11
Well i can understand what you mean. I have a girlfriend right now who's staying far away from me and i miss her everyday. It's nice to know that you are a loving couple and would always be there for each other. I really like such couples. Hard to find people like those these days knowing how many breakups and that sort of stuff are happening around not only here but everywhere!
It's nice to know these couples still are there. I hope your husband knows how lucky he is!
Cheers!
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@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
21 Jan 11
Really well said. As one person once said the battles or wars are done only to show how much one loves another. I am seriously and honestly and sincerely happy for both of you!
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
My husband & I has a lot of ups & downs. Honestly we fight like two warriors, like another world war's gonna happen.LOL... :) But we seldom did that & that was years ago. When I caught him cheating, but his cheating gave our life a second chance. Because of it we get separated for months. Then he realized all his lessons because of it. To make the story short, I forgive him & we get back together. From that time we became so close, he seldom goes out with out me. Always gives me presents, it's been two years now & still he treats me like a princess, his queen. I love him even more now. Things don't happen so simple, sometimes we have to enter dark & stormy weather to see a beautiful sunny day & colorful beauty of rainbow.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
I'm here at the country's capital and my girlfriend is at my province and I haven't gone home for a while. I miss her already. We text but it's just not enough. I miss her so much.
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Yes, you're right. Texting is not enough, i wish holograms are available & affordable now. :)
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Right now, I am missing my ex-boyfriend. We just broke recently and it will be a week we are not chatting. I missed those times that even how busy the two of us, he always find time to send me email even twice a week. He has been a very good boyfriend to me but sometimes, there are just some things which both of us must give up to be truly happy. Both of our situation right now is very difficult. I already lose hope and I can see no future for both of us. As of now, I already answered a suitor of mine hoping I can forget my ex-boyfriend by means of putting my attention to my new bf. My bf as of now is a good man and tries to make me happy always but still, there are times that I feel alone because I think, I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend.
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
Breaks up are so lonesome stories & too hard to get over but soon you will. Honestly, being with someone right after a break up is not a good idea? That's unfair to your current BF, you know deep inside that you still love your ex, & to tell you honestly you can't love another man if you won't get over from your past. So it ends up that your cheating him & yourself. If you still have feelings fro your ex, then take a cool off from you present. Gave your self a space & air to breathe. Before you end up with someone whom you really don't love & you'll regret it.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
Yes i have missed someone so badly and i am missing him so much now. Its good that get to be away with your husband for only 3days, that's really not that long you for me. I think i can still take that, we can always call trough phone or using the internet to communicate. I am missing my bf so so so badly since we are away for over 10 months now. And it really is not a good feeling even if we can see each other through web cam, physical appearance is still more important. I cry almost every night thinking how far we are and how much i miss him already. Just try to trust your husband wherever he may be. It's for your family's good why he keeps on leaving you anyway. God Bless :)
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
20 Jan 11
Sorry but this sounds like a kind of sickness or obsession.I know the best thing in somebody's life is to love the person next to him or her but you should have your time which to spend with friends and change your way of life a little bit otherwise you will probably soon feel tired of each other and will start fighting all the time.How long have you been together?
@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
You sounded like you don't have someone yet, or maybe you don't that same experience as I have. You seemed like you a type of person that don't like commitments. Well soon one day you'll experience this thing. All of us do go in this struggles. Yes, we may fight eventually, honestly we do fight like hell's gonna come up but when we're cool, romance is always in the air. :)
Fighting, struggles, pains, hurt & any other bumps that relationships that go through are part of a huge picture of happiness & love. You may say it's weird but it's true.
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
I'm missing my fiancée badly right now too, since I'm working out of town, I hate being away from him but I love my job so we just make sure that every weekend one of us would go to each other, I hope this set-up would change when were married already and that he would find a job closer to me, or I'd find a job closer to him...sigh
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@gracielle (346)
• Philippines
20 Jan 11
That's a bad news, you being away because of career. Tsk3..
Most guys can't take that & always makes that an excuse for them making dirty things behind your back. Hope I'm wrong, & hope you find a perfect job for you & for your fiancée. A job that both of you can enjoy without being so far away from each other.
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
21 Jan 11
3 days is a walk in the park for me. Being a military wife, I'm used to my husband being away months at a time. In the beginning, it was hard, but I learned from other military wives to keep focused on something else. I remember my husband's first deployment with the Navy. I put a 1,000 piece puzzle together in less than 2 days, expecting to take me longer. I was like, great what do I do now. I didn't have a computer or anything to pass the time away. So, I basically read, watched tv and slept a lot when I wasn't working.
Now, after 15 years of marriage and 2 kids later. The longest he's away is 2 wks, which is a lot easier to handle since I have my kids that keep me busy and wonderful neighbors. It does stink but what can I do about it. I knew what I was getting into, because I was also in the military when we got married.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 11
Hi gracielle,
that is called love i think
it is good if you both have the same feelings.
in my case, i miss my mother so much. but i can't see her anymore cause she had gone. i just look her picture and reminiscing all the time that we had spent together
@nenaandtrey (223)
• United States
21 Jan 11
I have a person that i miss the most and it is my uncle that passed in 1987. I just wish he was here with me every day. I know he watching over me but i would like him to be here with me.
Then my cousin that passed we had a lot of fun times. Memories.
Hope you have a great day
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
Right now.. I miss my bf. I always have this separation anxiety when he leaves away from my sight. His mere presence excites me, but his absence makes my day dull and most of the times lonely. Since his in Manila right now and I'm here in Cebu, I kind of miss his physical presence but I always try to cheer myself up and keep myself busy hoping I can take all the blues away. When he's away, we usually text and call through cellphones, or sometimes chat in facebook and yahoo messenger.
When we miss someone we love... we always feel nostalgic when we're far apart from each other. Hoping I'd get a big hug when he comes home.. ^_^
@craigy123456789 (1759)
•
21 Jan 11
I am a softie really. I am not in a relationship now but when i have been i have often felt the pain of lonliness by not having the woman of my dreams with me and in my arms because they are elshwhere. I guess that when you net see them it is an amazing feeling but it is a sad feeling knowing that you won't see them in a while, yes this is part of life but we can't help the way we feel and it shows how much we truly do love our partners.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
I am also missing someone so much right now and I can go and visit him, but he has work and he will just be stressed because we cannot spend much time together. Its hard when the one you love is away for a while.
@blue_servant (205)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
I am in a long distance relationship and it's really hard to be in such situation especially if you rarely each other in a year. But I believed there's no such thing as long distance if you really loved each other. I miss her everyday and I'm counting the days left before we'll meet again. Most likely this Valentines, I'll be surprising her through a visit.
In your case, i must say you're quite possessive. Nothing's wrong with that as long as it's not too much. It only shows how much you wanted and loved your husband. You can always stay in touch with him and tell him how much you love him.Use your endearments for him to be reminded as well to be faithful to you always.
Stay in Love!
@lizmik143 (137)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
I missed my boyfriend, terribly. :( The last time we were together was on the 3rd of this month. And I know it will be months before I see him again because of the nature of his job. Even though we talk each other on the phone more than three times everyday, still nothing compares the presence of each other and the company.
I wish one day, our situation will be better. I wish he could work near where I work. I wish...