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You could try it,but from my experiences it will start out calm, but then it would end up in a shouting match.Maybe you should just give it some time and see if it calms down on it's own. Maybe if you talk to them each seperatley telling them how silly it is then they will calm down. Good luck,keep us posted.

You shouldn't meddle with other people's businesses and if you ask me, that's meddling. Just leave them alone. That's their business. It's easy to ignore when it comes to these circumstances.

First let them calm down, give them a day or two. Then if you feel you can help do so. Never try to interfer when emotions are high. Someone might hit you. Blessings

hello, If they are your good friends,yes you can interfere (they are your friends)and be a mediator,that's what friends are for. But if just know them by faces,i don't think it's a good move. Here in our neighborhood,this case rarely happens. I think in my 11 years of living here since we moved,i only witness one incident that happens like what you've written. They are also good friends and yes,shouting their secrets (which is a real shock to the whole community)throwing things,since they can't reach other physically,other friends/loved ones are trying to pull them apart. This is ridiculous,how can a friend (you consider as best)shouts all your secrets. With your question,again,if you really knew them,or if they are your close friends,you should do what's in your mind. Or,even if they're not that close to you,but you knew them for a long time,you can try to talk to each other and listen to each story and then set for a heart to heart talk (they're good friends anyway) Who knows,you can make their friendship more stronger. Sometimes people becomes immature when they get's older (ugh) have a great weekend

All you can do is try, if you are going to be doing something for the good then to try it -as long as your intention is good and for the better then I see no problem in doing something about it. It would not be seen as interfering or meddling, or being nosy, it is better to try it to good and fail rather than do nothing at all and regret it later when you have the chance.

You have a good intention of bringing the two together by talking differences in a cool and calm manner. But it would be difficult knowing that you are not involve in their lives. They would just think bad about you for not minding your own business. Maybe, you could as someone that is close to them and if he or she could be the mediator of the two and let them settle there quarrels once and for all.

I think it's already interfering although the intention is really very nice. I think you just have to let time past and the tension ease a little so that when you interfere they won't be thinking that you are indeed interfering.

I don't see any harm in getting them together to help them talk it out. Either it'll work, or it won't work.