We can make you talk bwa ha ha

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
January 22, 2011 1:12am CST
Cary has this rather annoying habit of not answering when I ask him a question. This morning the question was whether he had brushed his teeth. "Cary, did you brush your teeth?" No answer. No problem. "Cary, every time you don't answer me I get to tickle you." "Cary did you brush your teeth?" Tickle. Giggle giggle giggle. Protect his tummy. "Cary did you brush your teeth?" Tickle back of neck. Giggle giggle. "Cary did you brush your teeth?" Reach for the tummy. "OK OK I didn't." Bwa ha ha, mom knows how to make them confess....
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
22 Jan 11
Mine do the same thing.. though I'm not as nice about it cause it ticks me off!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
Cary has autism so I cut him a bit more slack than the girls...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Cary doesn't either really....
• United States
23 Jan 11
I knew that.. my kids have no excuse though!
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
22 Jan 11
Love it Dawn, you're a great mother to your kids. I would love to witness the tickling and it's great you got Cary to confess to NOT brushing his teeth lol. Brilliant tactics my friend.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
I think he likes being tickled.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
23 Jan 11
I love being tickled too..John hates it though, the wuss! Haha!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
22 Jan 11
Lol well done maybe next time he will talk straight away lol
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
Nope.... but he seems to like getting tickled.
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
22 Jan 11
ohhh, the terrible tickle torture!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
He seems to like the attention though.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
22 Jan 11
Sure you've found the right tactics that works well. I'll do that next time when my kid refuse to answer me.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
Let me know how it works...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 Jan 11
Now, come on if he doesn't answer it's because he knows you won't like the answer. Tickle does work.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
You're probably right. And hasn't quite figured out that I'm not going to let him get away with that... Maybe when he's 30.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
23 Jan 11
I usually turn to 'monster mommy' to help me with such situations but yours sounds like a better idea. I better start doing it. Do you think it will work with a 10 year old? I'm sure my 4 year old will have fun with it but not too sure about the 10 year old...who is the one giving me a hard time nowadays.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
25 Jan 11
lol....but it worked with my 10 year old the first time I tried....might not work if I try it often, though :) I tried it with both kids at the same time...maybe that's why it worked. But yipee......it worked!! :P
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Cary is 10, but he has autism, so he's a little "young" for his age. I wouldn't dream of tickling his twin sister (she might bite my arm off).
• United States
22 Jan 11
I'm not saying anything... Can I get tickled too? ;) Oh' this could set a dangerous precedent, if I want to have fun with mom, I know just what to do... Say nothing *Best Srgnt Schultz voice I can muster* See those fingers coming? Sure make a game of it... HEheheheeee Honestly, I'm not talking, I'm going to resist... You won't get me to respond... Nope, no how, no way... See how well it is working? Tickle, tickle Your turn... :)
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• United States
27 Jan 11
Run faster if you can... I'm closing in... Did I mention that I have a full beard??? Huh, huh???
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
tickle... run....
@BarBaraPrz (47308)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
22 Jan 11
The poor boy is obviously crying out for attention...
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@BarBaraPrz (47308)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
22 Jan 11
I think Dawn will know I said that with my tongue firmly in cheek...
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
22 Jan 11
This 'poor boy' has an excellent supportive Mom who knows her son and he is not crying out for attention.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
22 Jan 11
Then I sincerely apologise. I always leap to the defense of my friends. Not an excuse though as I acted hastily and deserve to be punished
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
24 Jan 11
Hey dawny! Nice going Mom! You're my hero! My Mom was a "tickler" too! And even more annoying she would "sing" (of key, of course) some stupid made up song every morning to make me get out of bed (wasn't a morning person way back them either)! I wanted to kill her then.....
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Um, what's wrong with singing a made up song off key?
• United States
27 Jan 11
I made up a song of a key, I sang it off key and it didn't open any doors, do you suppose that I was using the wrong key? Maybe I should keep tapping upon my keys?
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
27 Jan 11
Ok guys, very funny...NOT! If you heard my Mom's voice you would understand my not being a morning person and all, alright you guys don't get it, gee...I' going back to bed now
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@much2say (55601)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Jan 11
Ah, good one! My daughter doesn't answer because she's not listening (she's too focused on something else - like whatever she's working on or on something she's watching on tv or the computer). Maybe a good tickle would work . . . then maybe she'll listen the first time!! Your kids are lucky to have you as a mom!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
I think Cary's mind is either elsewhere or he just figures I won't like the answer...
@much2say (55601)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jan 11
Cary's a little older than my daughter . . . we'll see how she when she gets to his age!
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
23 Jan 11
That's a good trick! I'll remember that when my kids don't want to talk. My problem with them is the opposite. As soon as I ask them a question, they would respond quickly, 'I did!'. Even if they didn't. Just to get mo off their backs quickly too. There should be a way I could get the tickling in these situation with them.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Cary used to do that, but then I'd go check his toothbrush to see if it was wet...
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
22 Jan 11
I have the same bad habit as Cary. People will ask me a question and I won't respond right away...I'm thinking of an answer...the best answer. It drives some of my friends crazy. I eventually answer and it could be minutes or even hours later. And if it's hours later, I don't always restate the question so they know what answer I'm giving. But they know me so well, when I give the answer, they know what I'm responding too. Now, if they tried to tickle me to get an answer, they'd probably get a knock on the head. Run, Cary, run...Mom's coming to tickle you.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
That happens to me too, but then usually it's a complicated question preceded by a lot of information overload. IN this case, it was a yes/no question, and I think he just knew I wouldn't like the answer.
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
23 Jan 11
I don't know, it sounded like a question I would have had to think about... I did brush my teeth, but it could have been yesterday, so do I answer, "yes" or "no"? I can over-think even the easiest of questions. :D
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@margeryann (1845)
• United States
23 Jan 11
My son does that a lot too. He doesn't want to answer me sometimes when I ask him a question. Sometimes he gets annoyed when I do. He says I ask too much questions. When I don't ask him that much questions. I like to ask how was your day at school? Just so I know more about how my sons day was. He likes that question though he will let me know.I will ask him if anything new happened at school. The questions he doesn't like are the ones like what you asked your son did you brush your teeth?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Maybe he doesn't like it for the same reason Cary doesn't, ie he didn't do it. :D
• United States
25 Jan 11
Yep, I think your right. He doesn't like to admit anything. LOL.He feels its better to not answer then to tell the truth or lie.
@zapatee (477)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
i sometimes do that to my son . the first time he doesn't answer a question or dilly-dallies with eating his meal, i tickle him behind the ear. after a little giggle but still no response, then it's behind his neck, then to his sides. it actually works .
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Jan 11
Yes, it does. Not with my girls though. They're too dignified to be tickled.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
22 Jan 11
I had my granddaughter overnight and I wish I knew how to get her to listen to me! This morning she was showing off and I told her to settle down...boom! Down she goes..knocks her cheek against the office chair and cuts her tongue!!!!! Even after that she was still racing around like a nut!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
ouch
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Jan 11
sorry to say, i just left it go. when my kids were growing up, i had 2 boys also, that did not talk or answer things. it'd drive my daughter nuts and she'd scream at them to answer. id ask her why bother and she'd say, you need to be answered i cant stand it when the boys ignore you. a person should always answer their mom. she got results because they couldnt stand her screaming at them. lol.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
I get results too, but I have to get in his face to do it.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Jan 11
Such sweet and precious memories that we get to spend with our children while they are growing up.They grow up so fast , it is unbelievable.I hold on to many such memories of my children and we sit and talk about all their escapades and laugh...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Yeah pretty soon he will be too old and dignified to be tickled.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
23 Jan 11
Tickle torture always works..few can withstand it's effects.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
At least it works with Cary...
• United States
22 Jan 11
My son, Michael has a bad habit of not answering when we ask him a question. Normally, it's when he has done something he knows he wasn't supposed to do, and I have to keep telling me that most times, if he tells us the truth, he won't get into nearly as much trouble as if he doesn't tell the truth.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 11
Cary has autism. Not sure what the reason behind not answering is...