What a guy....never worries about a dime

hi, i dont have yet spouse, but as a spouse and partner to your life, you should spend money for goods and relevant things and reasons, you have to spend the money of your spouse significantly.

Hi Missybear, That's sweet that he doesn't care how you spend the money but I suspect that it is because you take care to make sure all the bills are paid and you both have what you need. It sounds to me that you are spending it wisely and budgeting and he trusts you 100%. You are taking a huge burden off from his shoulders, I'm sure. Some people are just terrible with money and keeping track of the bills. It's clear that you are just good at it. When I was married, my husband had a good chunk of his check spent long before he got home on payday...feeding his head and killing his thirst. I was good with the budgeting but there wasn't enough to really do much in the way of shopping sprees so he really had no reason to yell at me for that. Now I'm single and I just do my best with what I earn and don't have anyone to answer to.

I guess your man feels safe knowing that you'll keep you both in the black money wise. So what's the problem? So long as he isn't spending loads of money himself and putting the two of you at risk of debt then I think you're very lucky! Congratulations on finding yourself such a great guy :-)

No..he knows it wouldn't do any good if he did..lol. I don't buy a lot of extras anyway. I usually just stick with what we need unless it's the girls...I do spend some extra on them.

Well my husband doesn't give me hell but he sure does not approve of my money spending. Yesterday for example the girls in our family got together for a shopping trip and I withdrew some money from my own bank account to spend. When I got home he had been looking at our bank accounts online and knew exactly how much i had taken out of the bank!!!

Your spouse probably believes that if you do the bills and accounting then you can afford to buy all the stuff you buy. Some people can be easygoing and not let a material thing like money worry them.

So long as the bills are taking care of I wouldn't mind. Of course if they aren't then it's a problem...

well, some guys are not good in accounting expenses. they know how to earn, but spending is not their thing. your guy seems to a normal guy about being disinterested in the expenditures and happy go lucky on life. however, i am not sure if i got you right, but your guy is not helping you with the bills. this surprises me, because it is a blow to a guy not to be able to help in the household.