have your close friends hurted you?

Yes my close friend hurt me so i experienced it. I love my friend so much and they also love me. I don't share my all things with every friend but share everything with my best friends. Once she hurt me. But latter everything was solve it out. Still she is my best friend and i don't want to lose her.

Damn I have experienced it when I was in College year! CAn't even forgive her until now and Im disgusted by what she did to me! I was very wrong of befriending her from the very beggining I just didn't knew it till one thing happened! I caught her not but act but by sensing my intution, she seduced my seaman boyfriend whom I loved at most at that time!!!! Oh men, just even discussing this again made me realize again of how unreal and naughty she is! God, why on earth would she do that when she has a longtime boyfriend! I respected her and loved her as my own sister and I even gave her all the time and effort on being with her through her very rough times! But I didn't let her win I stood up and fight for him and the thing is he was just a night stand to him... I confronted her and mocked her so badly that I even treaten to steal her boyfriend for a lesson! and I confronted my boyfriend also because I could'nt bear to understand why did he let her despite of our pledge on each other on our relationship! But we sorted and talked things out And luckily until now we continued our relationship and we became much stronger! Were so inloved at each other to the extend that I despised my girlfriend!To hell with her!

I was once hurt by someone I thought was my friend but later her real color appeared and I realized she wasn't a friend at all. She slandered me many times and acted like a crazy dog. I am glad she is now out of my life and I have sworn to be more choosy with friends this time around.

Yes I don't like to admit it, but i have been hurt by my very close friend because i told her that I had a crush on this boy which was our friend and next thin you knows she starts flirting with him I will never ever forget that. It really did hurt me that she would do that to me because we have been friends since the sixth grade and right now we are even going to college together they always say forgive and forget, but the forgetting part always seems to be so hard. Friends are there to help us in our most crucial times of our lives, but sometimes friends just end up hurting you and i think that she actually knew what she was doing and I just don't know why she was doing that maybe she was trying to show me that she can get any guy to fall for her and that I can't oh well I guess I am not even pretty. I am not a regular girl anyway I have a face of acne and that's normal for a girl because girls are supposed to have flawless skin and have that radiant look. I never told him how I felt because yeah he would not like me so I didn't other, but as the years pass by I will keep on improving myself until I finally feel beautiful because all girls love to feel pretty and like princesses. Friends are supposed to help us not hurt us and she even keeps telling me that she got bored one day and that she decided to talk to him on facebook it really did hurt. I think that he even liked her, but she has a boyfriend so I guess she likes to tease me or something my own friend.

Yeah...One good of friend of mine really hurt me a few years back. As in his doings are unforgivable. There are multiple accounts that was taken into account for me to end the friendship that we had. My other friends know what happened and they did tell me that it was unforgivable and told me not to speak to that person again. But 2 years has passed and still I was thinking of our friendship we had back then. So I decided to talk to that person and invited him to one of our outings. And my other friends who are with me in that outing was so shocked when they knew that person was coming along. You should see their faces when they knew. Bottom line is if you really had that closeness or connection with another person, treasure it and it will never fade out whatever happens.

I have experienced it. I believe all of us have gone through that. It is normal that our close friends hurt us sometimes especially if it is unintentional since nobody is perfect. Each one of us have different personalities. One may feel bad about a certain thing done by a close buddy while another close friend of that person won't feel hurt regarding the same act.

I felt very hurt by somebody that I thought was my friend. It was really just a misunderstanding but completely ruined our 'friendship'. I thought I was putting in all of the effort towards being friends and she really let me down when I asked for her help. She saw things differently so when I stopped putting the effort in we drifted apart. Still bump into her sometimes which is awkward but feel life is better without her.

Misunderstanding and dispute is unevitable in a relationship. Yes, I have different circle of friends and yes, I definitely got hurt not only once, twice but more often. I have friends for more than atleast minimum of 10 years and most of them are considered as family members. Even in a family, disputes usually happens, but love retains so forgiveness is not that so difficult to offer. Friends just like family has to be treasured. For me, I have more good times and memories to hold on rather than give space for grudge feeling caused by misunderstanding. I love my friends as well as my family. Any misunderstanding can be settled by coordination and communication.

Yes my close friend hurt me so i experienced it. I love my friend so much and they also love me. I don't share my all things with every friend but share everything with my best friends. Once she hurt me. But latter everything was solve it out. Still she is my best friend and i don't want to lose her.

Yes, I agree with you. I have gotten into a lot of fights with my closest friends too and it's really hard. But these fights make our friendship stronger, I think. It's really fortunate for me to have friends that understand me. God thing all our fights ended, we make up after a few days, sometimes months.

I think no one can say, "He is never hurt by his close friend". But no one care what was the circumstances when you got hurt by your close friend?. I am not saying the person you are talking about was right and you are wrong but did you ever thought what is his or her feelings about? is he/she is blaming you in the same manner?. You must explore the whole situation of the incident once again, recheck people around you during that particular time when the argument started. What was your feeding source of information and was that source reliable?. After this investigation journey of your inner sight, "Person you are mentioning is found guilty then you can consider him guilty. If you find yourself guilty then, "Please make sure you will get out the list of those person's who hurt their close friends". Regards

I think it is a entanglemental topic,we tend to be valued very much friendship,but in our life we often will encounter this situation,the closest people will at key moments stab you a sword,relentlessly to hurt you,let you completely without riposte of leeway,it not only give you crit and emotionally you also difficult to accept.

Hey, me and my wife do have a common set of friends who are very close to us. We do have misunderstandings, have been hurt a lot of times but in the end, we've worked things out and not ended the friendship.....

I think hurting by close friends would really depend upon what kind of hurt he has inflicted. Many times, a good friend is one who cares fo ryou. There are times he would be willing to make the sacrifice of hurting you to let you realize that there is something wrong going on. However, if the kind of hurt is the kind that involves betrayal, then that person is not a friend after all. That person is a traitor from the very start, and that kind of hurt should not be something that one should pay attention to.

I have some close friends in the past, and learned a lot from them..We've been closed and even shares secrets,but eventually some conflict we can't avoid no matter how close you are with each other.And so it end up like misunderstanding has lose the essence of being friends although we do care about them.I still love them and care about the friendships but it gives me a lesson for something about being closed a lot to someone it doesn't make good ending sometimes. Happy myLOtting!

I have many friends. But there is a little them are my close friends. There are many misunderstands occur between us. After that, we're more closer. If there are not misunderstand between friends, we can become close friends or not?

well... yes. and not only one time! :D i think is a must for living, so... and... await some more hurting, not only from friends, but by close relatives, too... is a thing of life, you can't escape!!! :P

Generally speaking,that close friends are hurted each other are mainly in money aspect,affection,misunderstandings. money and misunderstanding aspect are easy to understand. for affection it is possible that they simultaneously love him or her.after of all,love is selfish.

It had happens in everyone's life.But after that friend will really feel for that.Even i had do the mistakes so many times and feels for it later. With our fight/hurt there is no friends and no friendship.Friendship had everything under its belt not only love and care but also including fights and hurts.

obviously!!.close friends are there to hurt n convince us by sayin some reasons..and sometime v ll also do the same towards others..so v need to forget all those hurts n should lead a happy life with them like before and that values our friendship!!