can you blame my friend if her love with her husband has already gone?

Well if that's the case, your friend isn't be the one to be blamed. She should better be leaving that husband of his for good. That's not really good to live with a man like that. She will only be suffering for being with that guy.

nope, we can't blame your friend if her love to her husband was already gone since irresponsible man don't deserve the love of a sincere girl.. :)

Hi Asliah, Nope, can't blame her. Sometimes the person we thought we married turns out to be a different kind of person altogether. Also, people are constantly changing and sometimes the changes drive them apart rather than closer together. If she really does not love him then maybe it is time to look into getting a divorce.

hi, it's possible to happen but she needs to hold on with their marriage because marrriage vow is lifetime. sometimes i felt that i don't love my hubby anymore because im looking for something that my husband cannot give but i come to realize that what i have is the best he can offer but if an affair comes in... it's a problem that they need to fix.

I think no body should blame anyone in relationships, it is such a thing which is very typical to understand and still everyone want to understand it. It is the same problem everywhere but still no good solution for it. It happens and no body can stop it. Even if somebody is James Bond still he will never know if some one have deceived him in the relationship. So don't care much and tell her to live the life in what ever way she want to live it.

If I were on the same situation, I would have left that man already. Your friend deserve someone better. So it's defintiely alright if she doens't have feelings for the husband anymore. The man is a total jerk,.

i hate guys who are like that. he is not even man enough to provide for his family then he still have the guts to have an affair. where`s his balls. i even tell my wife`s friends who have husband like that to leave their husbands for it is no longer worth to live with someone like that. it is waste of time and waqste of life. we can not blame the wife here but we can blame her if she keeps the relationship, since she knows whats happening she needs to take action.

Well if that is the case. I can't blame your friend for not loving her husband anymore. A relationship is a work in progress. I does not end with the word I love you. Like food it has many ingredients, and if one or two are lacking the relationship is bound to fail sooner or later. I think your friend should move on.

Maybe your friend gave her husband a chance to change his life when they are still free as single before they got married. I never blame her if I were in her shoes the same feelings might happen. I hate the man who is irresponsible to his family. How can we live if he is not working for his kids and wife. I am not go with him anymore as long as he is not changing. but this is a big "if" i still love him.