writing letters seems out of date

One of my oldest and dearest friends is not computer savvy and isn't comfortable using one. Because of this she and I write snail mail. Postage does become a problem sometimes due to lack of fuds. It is fun to write and although I don't do it as much as I used to I do try to get a lettter written a couple times a month. It is good practice too. Keeps the fingers limber and the mind alert.

Hi ann,I too love receiving and writing the occasional letter by hand. My daughter writes to me sometimes and she too loves writing and receiving letters by post.I preserve all hand written letters sent or given to me by friends and family .I have a letter written by my mother 25 years ago while I was away and I find it really nice going through all the letters received at various periods in my life .I too send Birthday greetings by post though it has become less frequent now because of the telephone connectivity ....all the best n have a great day

I remember the days before email and other forms of modern communication. I remember when we actually had to wait days or even weeks for a letter or package to be delivered. I remember the days when we didn't have cell phones to inconvenience us throughout the day. I don't remember the last time I actually wrote a letter and mailed it to someone. Maybe I should do it just to remember what it was like to do it back then.

Hi tigeraunt! I must admit that I do miss getting a letter in the mail, at least a personal letter every now and then. The only letters that I do get are the ones from places I don't want to hear from, like bill collectors! I do write cards now and then and send them the old fashioned way! I still write to my Mom because she still doesn't want to come into the computer age!

Letters seem to be becoming obselete (with technology and all) but I do think that people still write them. I write my friends notes and always send cards on birthdays/holidays. I just like it. I like doing it. It feels a lot more personable than just writing an email or even sending an "e-card" (or whatever they're called). Plus, I love being on the receiving end of 'snail mail' -I really do. I save most letters, cards, and post cards I receive.

I could not agree with you more. I mean it is far cheaper to email than to text, or call, or write a letter. A letter in your own hand writing plus words that come from the heart says so very much, it makes the occasion when reading the letter more enjoyable. Plus it is great to hold it in your hands, you can't do that with an email, text message or phone call. Everytime when i went on holiday i always found romance and i would always write to them when the holidays were over as we were apart, it is a wonderful thing to do. Yes now we have mobile phones and emails, gone really are the times of writing a letter and posting it. I don't hve anyone to write to but when i did do it, it really was special and from the heart. With the other things available, it just really makes us that bit more lazy really.

Wow, that is pretty amazing in these days Ann, to get a real letter! I have not written or received a letter written in real handwriting for many years. I do get Christmas and birthday cards from my grandparents, but that is all. I actually prefer to receive email as it does not waste paper. I do know what you mean though about email not being as personal.

I have to admit that it has been a long time since I've hand written a letter to someone. I think that one of the reasons that I don't handwrite letters anymore is because of the fact that you kind of loose contact with people's physical addresses but you are able to hold on to their email addresses. I know that is the case for me. I've been able to get back in contact with old friends of mine through the computer but I know to have sent handwritten letters to their old addresses would have done nothing to get back in touch with them.

I have pen pals that I write to from all over the world! I really enjoy writing letters also. It is just nice to receive something other than bills in the mail! It is fun to get know others, even though I don't get to meet them in person. I have had pen pals for a long time, since I was in high school. A couple of them I still write to. So, I have pen pals that I have written for over 12 years! I still haven't met them in person, but maybe one day I will get to. But, yes, I LOVE writing snail mail letters! It is fun!

Writing letters has the same special charm as reading physical books instead of electronic books. I don't know the mechanism that works, but I feel I have other inspiration when writing down on paper, letters or notes. Maybe be it is something inside the human being in general. That's why also many writers still use paper to write their works. Yes, emails are faster, but letters are physical and can be touched and kept in their envelope as souvenirs.

No i don't write letters the old fashion. Usually i call people if i need or send them email. I never write any old fashion letter. But i think it's very interesting. So if i ever get chance then of course i will write old fashion letter. In school i have learned how to write old fashion letter.

I wish someone would send me an old-fashioned letter. It would feel more personal and I get to keep it and not just read something of the internet or some such. I think I'll send one today to my childhood friend back home. Thanks tigeraunt for reminding me how good it would feel.

Hello tigeraunt!!! Very strong name!!! Your right about sending letters, it is more appreciative because of the personal touch... I too, when I was younger I write penpal letters, sometimes on a stationary paper, those that have very good scents. But today I dont do it anymore, i use the Internet, the email, the chat and other soacial network, its fast and easy....

hi tigeraunt, I still do even the technology changed the way we send letters i still go for snail mail for me it's something special in fact just last week i went to post office and drop many cards for my friends not just around the globe but also to a friends who are here in Philippines. I prefer snail mail to send letters or cards in special occasions . happy posting

Do to lack of use my writing has become unreadable. I use to write a lot but with e-mail I just don't do it. I will send a card for a marriage, birthday or new baby and include money.

It's a personal touch to receive a letter from someone you know. Most people have gotten out of the habit of writing a letter. It's just quicker to email or pick up the phone. Even social network sites are used to keep people connected with each other. It may take some extra time, but letter writing shows that you care.

Sweety It may seem out dated to the present day youth, but i belong to the older generation, you know that well. i always write letters to my special friends, I use special sheets that has floral motifs, though it takes time, and spray perfume over them Hope you have preserved all letters and cards sent to you and your hubby. Thank you so much for this nice discussion.. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead.

I admit that I'm way too lazy to write a letter but I'll be really happy to receive one. Hand writing is full of personal touch, and sometimes can make us feel emotionally contact. I guess I should try again sometimes.

I haven't write letter for a long time. Because there are more ways to communicate with my friends now. I use e-mail, message and phone calls mostly. Why I don'y use mail because it cost too much time. You know, if I send mails to my friends in the other province, it will take about a week until he can receive that. And if I mail a friend aboard, it will take months! But if I use e-mail, message, they are instantly. And of course, mail cost much more that e-mail and message. However, letter is a kind formal type. When we want to inform something important or formal. We still need to write a letter. Such like invitation card or official announcement.

I think of letters (handwritten) as a more personal way of getting in touch with people. Some of my friends who live in another country still send me postcards during special days such as my birthday and Christmas. It is a good feeling to open the envelope and read what's inside. I think it takes more effort to write a letter - from the writing to the sending, unlike email or social media sites where you could do it sitting on your desk.