He Loves Me, He loves me not
By markroderick
@markroderick (888)
Philippines
February 1, 2011 3:36am CST
Guys please I need help. I've loved this boy a friend of mine for 5 years already but i never told him about it or even my friends don't know about it. Aside from my best friend I really like him, but i don't know how to tell him. And im afraid that my friendship with him will change. he might know i like him. im not really sure but he might also like me back. it would be really helpful if i got some advice.
thanks.
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12 responses
@sunset_haze (97)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I f I were you I would firstly asked him if he is in love somebody else. Secondly, be honest yo him and tell him your feelings. But before you do it weight things first on the consequences of losing the friendship or winning a lover.
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@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Thanks for the reply yes for sure I would ask him if he is in love with someone else and if not I guess I will find the right time and courage to tell him about my feelings for him.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
3 Feb 11
Hi dear,
You were in my shoos now. Many many years before, when I was in school 6th standard, ie at the age of 12 there was a sweet girl in my class she joined from my class from a different school. Normally we got promotions, all the class students would be almost same from the 1st call onwards. I liked her very much and I was not knowing it was love or anything like, I just wanted to see here for ever, this much I was knowing. My age was only 12. It went on. The 'desire to see her always' grown with me till I reach 10th standard. I didn't even spoke her to about it. We never speak unless required some class questions that the teachers demanded.
And another 2 years of college also went in such a way, and I realised the desire was nothing else, but love only. Just like you, after having so many chances, I never expressed my desire and kept in my mind only.
What to say more, now she is a wife of someone else. My desire is still in mind only. So do you want to be like me or be active.
My dear, life is only for once and if you didn't act 'in time' we will lose it for ever. If such things things are important and you think you want him, stop everything and find a better time and call, express your desire to him. If he is ok with it, and free of any other affair and he can love you, he will agree. If any other issues around, and can be solved out, do it and first you get his opinion and don't be like me, a loser any more.
I know how much I loved her still because of my fault, I lost her for ever. Nearly after 25 years, I had a chance to talk to her abut 6 months back. It is a long story and please, be open and talk. Ok, mine was a different time and we are in the developed stage and he is very much around you. So, decide what to talk, how to talk and all and go ahead.
Best of luck,
Thank-s
@lisa0502 (1724)
• Canada
1 Feb 11
I feel that if you feel this way about someone then you should tell them. There is no shame in feeling something. He may not feel the same way but you will not know until you talk to him. If he does not feel the same way then there is no reason for you to stop being his friend. Unless you can not handle him being with someone else. But there to if he is not the one then there will be someone else for you.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
2 Feb 11
wow! its a great news.why you never told him?go close your eyes and tell him how much you love him dont think that he loves you or not.i think it enough for you that you love him.if your love is real then everything will be so perfect.go don't be late.
best of luck............
@denydungrani (359)
• India
2 Feb 11
I think you should tell your friend about this since you have been loving him for so long now. Its pointless to hide just thinking that you might lose him as a friend too. Its imp to convey your feelings to the one you love. Being your friend for so long he will be an ideal match for you.
@ceb1gajoc (9)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
Filipinas are not really confrontational or I mean they are not really the kind that confesses to the guy that they like him.
I think the best thing you can do is to let that guy feel that you like him.
You will know that he likes you too.
Just take some time and be patient..
Goodluck!
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Hi there.
Well, your situation is not really that hard. But, first you need to assess the situation. Know for example if he got a girlfriend already. If he does, then, rest your case and be silent about how and what you feel for him. It means that he might like you, indeed but only as a friend. Nothing more.
If he is unattached , then, go for it ,girl. We are already in the 22nd century. There is nothing wrong telling him how you feel. But, be prepared for his answer. He might reciprocate it or he might tell you upfront that he only likes you as a friend.
Anyways, you can start by half joking about it. As if, it is something like of no big deal for you. Why not ask him how would he feel if he knows you like him, and if he answers you can say then lightly and casually that you like hoim or you got a crush on him. Then, laugh about it.
He might think you are kidding him but this will give you an opportunity to know what he feels or at least thinks about it.
Goodluck.[em]cheering[/
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
1 Feb 11
Don't be afraid of the feelings you have. don't think about rejection. think only of your heart. If you never tell this person how you feel about them, they will never your love.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
1 Feb 11
Is there anything special that he does for me you only not for others and does he emotionally attach with you? If yes then may be he likes you. Or there will be something that will tell you may be he likes you. But i think you should talk with him otherwise it will be so late.
So good luck!!
@choconut (297)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
weigh your options before you tell him. For example, if you would to tell him that you like him and he doesn't like you back what would happen to your friendship? Or if he likes you back what now? And also don't forget to think about it over and over again, because once you've said it you can never take it back. SO when worse comes to worst you may never be friends with him again, would that be okay with you? I'm not discouraging you or anything, please don't get me wrong, but i just want to show you the different sides, because i don't want to get your hopes up saying he like you too then all of a sudden there's a twist and you end up hurting yourself. So please before you jump think it over and over again, and seek your friends advice.
@emilieyang (94)
•
1 Feb 11
The most important thing is to make sure this boy like you or not.
If he likes you, then go for it, you will be regret if you haven't do it.