I got strange feeling lately - i'm talking to a wall

suggar so metimes things happen over which we have no control and we feel as bad as you when we cannot get back and comment on your responses. igts not that we do not care but that we may have been ill, or beng sent to new doctors and we just have a time crunch.But some here are making too many discussions and admit they do not commet back so I assu me they are the ones who think they get paid for our work of responding,no sto mylotters.WE RESPOND WE GET PAID. YOU COMMENT AND YOU GET PAID. SO DO NOT WRITE MORE DISCUSSIONS THAN YOU CAN EASILY COMMENT BACK ON. I do not like it when I can see this person with fifteen discssions in one day does not even want to comment so why make them. in order to discuss something it takes two to twenty five people to make it a real fun discussion.I feel strongly we must all comment back on our discussions to actually have a discussion going.

Hi, Suggar....I too have responded to discussion starts to go back later and see no comment from the original member. It's like a slap in the face. They ask a question or questions in the original post and then don't hang around to see the answer. I therefore do not comment if several comments have been made with no answer from the discussion 'opener'.

You will never be disappointed when you come to me discussions. I am one who feel uneasy when I start a discussion without acknowledging my responders. I will not leave my responses to fate. I might take longer time to come to each and every responses but I make sure that I comment to them without fail.

HI Suggar! I do not like it either. I really love to have such a long discussion but what I will received is a long answer.I do not mean to have a long answer but I really love t have such a long conversation or discussion between both party-the responder and the discussion starter.But it will ended like you said one question with one answer.Sometimes i hate that so much!

Assuming you are speaking of the numerous discussions which members make thinking that if they enter a new discussions and members respond they will get paid. This is the only reason I can come up with. As if it were someone like me who has had no internet then I can not come back and respond however, I have the feeling you are speaking of the repeated members who list discussion after discussion and never come back to comment on their responses. I personally do not get upset, but it makes me not want to respond to their discussions as it makes me feel like are they even reading the responses. I have noticed a few especially new members commenting back on their responses so I can see it picking up a bit. But there are many others non-new members still creating discussions and never commenting. So all we can do is either respond or not as really how much more can we continue to tell them that they do not earn for what I type. Only for what they type. I guess because a few members do comment back after my responses it does not get exhausting when the others do not, but I do have my days where it does make myLotting feel like a drag at times.

Well I am new to my lot and i only started a few discussions I do read and reply to my discussions and the post of the people that interests me, I wanna earn but of course I also wanted to enjoy the world and its different point of view and opinions, communicating with people on the other side of the world is fun....

Just because the thread starter did not respond to your post means that they don't appreciate it. I am one of those who choose the best response but I don't respond or comment on each of the posts on my discussions. I know it's supposed to keep the thread lively, but sometimes I don't really have the time to respond to each one.

Well, sometimes it's like that. Especially you see those newbies, the ones with little number of posts. You can see they comment a lot but after we respond, they seldom or never say anything back. I think I can safely assume either they don't really have internet access or they're just plainly typing to increase their post rates & also pure intention of trying to make a quick buck

You're not alone on this one Suggar. I'm working on a really really big project in my company right now and I see myself talking to the device I'm working on sometimes. I keep repeating: "Please don't fail. Please don't fail." whenever I put the product on the testing area.

Don't post more discussions than you can handle and comment back on, as it really isn't a discussion unless we can comment back. Granted, there are some who can't comment back for one reason or another, but for those that can and don't well, they will find that they won't earn from others, as they only earn for what they do. I haven't started all that many discussions, but the ones I have started, I have commented back to all the responses I received. I have seen some who have posted one discussion after another, and just don't take the time to comment back, and besides that, they just can't handle them all, as they have posted way to many. I won't respond back to those that just post one discussion after another, as they are only there to make money, and not really learn a thing. That is not what mylot is about, as it is about learning not earning. I think when users understand that concept they will discuss as that is what mylot is about. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

For me it is not good so take any herbal way so that you feel good.

Good day Suggar, Yes,I know what you mean not getting response on the topic initiated by members in which you have post a comment.So the discussion stops there,if the member does not respond to your comment.Well maybe they don't know how this site works, members should be active in order to earn rewards.It's not just posting a topic to be discuss,there must be inter action between members who posted comments on a topic.Yu type you earn.Thanks for initiating this topic.

Yeah it is common activities here in mylot after make discussion throw it like a trash, if there is a response never response back, because no money out there instead finding other with earning money. Little bit strange but happening here, so like I said in other response - response only to the discussion you like and if somebody response, response it back and you can earn attention and money... that is the trand here.. see you around

I haven't got the same feeling since I'm still new here but it would be really nice if comments were directed to the responders personally. hehe! It means people are relating and connecting with our posts and understanding what we are trying to convey or discuss. have a nice day! =D

I think I've been on this site for a while now to understand what you are feeling, and see the same thing with other myLot users. Although there are a few here that really participate in discussion, and exchanges of thoughts, there are even more who are just going through the motions of 'participating'. Which when you read their posts, doesn't really make sense. And is really like talking to a wall.