Am I in danger?

At least she's telling you whats happening. And not doing it behind your back so that's a good thing. It's comes down to trust you have to trust her like you are doing, you can't start not trusting her that will make things worst. My advice to you( and probably to myself) is to start paying more attention to your wife, start making her the most important thing in your life, mare her feel happy and wanted. I'm pretty certain people who feel wanted ,desired, and loved by their partners don't cheat. So if you excuse me I'd better go massage my wife's neck and tell her how much I love and appreciate her.

Oh, you love her very much. So its a problem for you.its nothing.

You need to stop your wife doing that, friend. Because you don't know the consequences after all. husband and wife must not be free to date someone they like because it will interfere a good relationship of both husband and wife

Trust is important in any relationship. However the fact that you are questioning it - sends a danger signal for the relationship. Even if she's not doing any thing wrong. I do not talk to married men on line. If I chat with them I include much quesitoning about thier wives and family. I wouldn't even think about meeting a married man alone - it's not a good setup. Why were you not invited to the party? I have an online friend and we are in a group that is planning on meeting later this year. But our entire families are included... that's safer.

First of all, don't jump to conclusions. The best thing in my opinion would be to have a discussion with your wife. Just tell her how you feel about her meeting her online friends. If there is nothing going on, she probably would like to introduce you to them. If she does not want you to know them or meet them, that would probably tell you why she does not want you to.

She shouldn't meet the net friends if she is really love her family. May I know the reason she went to meet those people? She is supposed to spend her time with the children and her husband. For me, I shall request her to stop all online chatting and dating if she appreciate of what she have at the moment. Recently, a statistic showed that the social network named facebook has become the marriage killer in the country, Singapore. I hope everything will not be too late for you and your wife to save your family.

do you mean in danger of losing your wife? i would say if she is telling you where she is going and with who then you should be ok. i don't know how comfortable i would be if my husband was out meeting other women from online. i just don't know the intentions of that other person. if we all meet together then i would feel better

Try to do something with your wife,and reduce your "internet chatting time". Although you love her and she loves you also,no one can predicts the future. You can make surprised time for her,maybe your life need some enthusiasm. Good luck for you~

I have never or will never go met somebody i met online. My fear is running into sombody like the boston strangler. You never know who you are meeting. I suggest you go with her when she does this. At least the first few meetings. Bring pic of the kids in case some guy has the wrong ideas.

Hi Oldsix691418 I not the kind of wife that enjoy meeting in a cafe other men other than my husband. My mother was, and my parents are divorced by now. I enjoy going to the church and meeting apostolate friends there. All in church and in church area. And everything is around church work. I would not enjoy that my husband meet somebody in a cafe, I wouldn´t enjoy that my husband meet internet friends. I wouldn´t allow it to my husband. That´s my personal way. Blessings!... Dainy

You know her the best. And it seems like it's harmful since she's telling you the truth, right? And if you trust her and she trusts you, it shouldn't be so harmful.

This is a question I can only answer from my age and culture. My husband would be VERY angry if I did that. But then, I would never dream of doing it. This is dating, something that (as I see it) only single people do). It sounds odd that all her friends are males. I don´t understand what you mean by danger. The use of that word by you means that you DO think you are in danger. It is something you must decide by yourself. Happy posting!

I have always been amazed by the fact that people change a lot over time.But if you think,your love is strong enough from both sides that could handle your relationship then you don't have to worry about much else.If you can't bear seeing her go meet her online friends then just tell her what you feel in a nice way.

The positive side is that she's telling you all the things she did. It only shows she has nothing to hide. My advice is that you should limit her meet ups with her online friends. You see to her she's just seeking for new friends but for some its a whole new outlook. Take time to talk and go out with her. Maybe she's just longing for the times new two went out on a date. try something new and exciting I'm sure that would get her attention and maybe forgetting her net friends.

well do you trust your wife? that is the question there but in my eyes she is cheting on you but she is telling you all about it so my be you should start asking her some question

I agree with some of these myLotters that you can trust her. I also agree that you give her more attention and praise. I have a friend I used to work with and now we are online friends. Sometimes we go out with others to dinner and talk about our old work place. There's no danger there. I think the danger might be that one day your wife might meet an online friend who is dangerous. So she should be very cautious. And why not bring you along with her sometimes?

Hi dear, the question to the answer is 50:50. As long as I don't know your partner and her nature, it is practically difficult have a clear answer to it. In my experience, if you name with a female and enter into a chatting site, within a minutes time, they will come to start with s*x topics. If the our side is slightly weak, they will tactfully deal th discussions and bring them to their line. It is my experience of the previous night. So, the frequent out goings and long day's plans may lead to any unwanted situations. But all are depend on your understanding about your partner only. If it all related to some kind of business promotions, or anything (means have a clear intention) for the partying, they it can be valued. But just for fund and get-together, it should be controlled (not to stop). Also, a dutiful and caring ladies won't prefer such things in so much of demand. In this specific case, as being her husband, you need to evaluate the situation based on all other facts. Thank-s

If she is not going to meet up with her internet friend then its safe, Though I know a certain guy who works abroad and while he is not around, his wife got bored and chatted on the internet then suddenly she met up with the guy and have an affair with him while her husband is working his butt off to provide a better life for her.

I don't know that would be strange to me if my husband started hanging out with a female that he met online. I don't think I would like it. Even if it was innocent the other person might not think so and try something with him.

I dont think so,For as long as she tells you where she's going and who's going to be with her!You might as well join her so you would meet her net friends