Single or lonely!
By johnyang1992
@johnyang1992 (86)
China
February 7, 2011 10:18am CST
Hey,guys!A person is lonely,life is not in orbit,no plan,no goal!A man went to the park,but found all around the couple,i was lonely!Do you have the experience?How to do it!Please help me!
10 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Feb 11
There are times in each of our lives that we may feel sad and or lonely, we are all humans and cannot be expected to be happy all the time. I think that you should surround yourself with new and or additional interests that may help ease some of the loneliness.
Venture out a bit and you might find some of the lonely gaps to disappear. Best of luck to you.
@l0vxXmusic (179)
• United States
7 Feb 11
I agree with what you have to say about that we should surround ourselves was new interests or just try some new things. I think going to social clubs, or just go somewhere where people share a common interest like you, and go to different places,change your routine daily and do something different just so you can get rid of the loneliness feeling, but you have to know what that loneliness feeling is before you do anything else 1st.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Feb 11
Assuming from he says in the discussion that he has no plans and goals is one of the reasoning no?? Therefore one needs to delineate what they like and do not like and determine and commensurate some form of plan, which in a sense is determining the lonely feelings.
In the interim surrounding themselves with new interests and additional interest will help subside some of the loneliness.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
7 Feb 11
I failed to mention that I see you are new so a warm welcome to you to
myLot. 
@letski07 (38)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
it's okay my dear. There are times in our life that we're all alone. Just enjoy yourself. You can go to the mall and go shopping or window shopping. You can also walk in the park and enjoy watching people there. You can also jog in the park. There are so many fun things to do when you're alone.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
8 Feb 11
If you feel lonely, and you feel so void inside yourself, it will be better to have some friends around you. That way, you will find some happiness within yourself, and you won't feel so lonely any more. That is my suggestion only. It is ultimately up to you again. I hope that you will find your happiness later.
@danny_streetlive (60)
• Bulgaria
8 Feb 11
Do not worry.You won't be alone all the time.Just stop to think about finding the love.She will come,when you do not expect it.Thrust me.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Feb 11
have you tried volunteering someplace at times when you might find yourself lonely?
you might even meet someone you could enjoy life with. do you have a pet? that helps me. and son says he meets girls sometimes on his walks with coco. 
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
7 Feb 11
Well i think you should not be very sad.Just put concentrate to your work and give much time to your family member then you will feel batter.And don't think that you are lonely and have no body because though you don't have any girlfriend but have so many friends and lovely family member. So enjoy your life with them.
@lionheartguru (208)
• India
7 Feb 11
Aah ... i have been single most of the time. Simply because i simply do not find it logical to woo females and spend time in tolerating the nonsenses which come in a package. However, i never found myself lonely, other than movie theaters,gardens or discotheques. On the contrary, i always avoid these places where my emotions would come in a motion. Emotions are feelings in motion...and the motion is always in the wrong direction.
Being with friends , working round the clock , reading, networking , etc takes 90% of my weekly hours, thus keeping me happy and ignorant of the facts !
Cheers !
@remo86 (252)
• Egypt
7 Feb 11
OH MY GOD:| !!! i know really what are you saying..i'm single and feel so lonely,last time i was in relation from year ago and it was totally bad one..but now my space to meet new people is very small and this makes me more hopeless:(
Now i'm dis-pointed and can't explain my feeling ,nobody can feel my sadness and happiness...This is effecting on my life and my career in negative way
