Marry for the Sake of the Baby... What can you say?

@zendie (10)
Philippines
February 10, 2011 5:21am CST
Do you think it would right to marry because you two already have a baby?
1 response
• India
10 Feb 11
Believe me, this is the weirdest thing I have ever heard. If you don't love someone how can you have children with him? This all is so confusing. May be you loved someone back then, so you married and had a baby. But somehow the love just faded out and you separated from your husband. This happens all the time. But having children with someone you don't want to marry - sounds a bit extreme to me. However, if you want to take my opinion, getting along with the biological father is good for the child. But if that is entirely against your wish, you don't need to do it. The baby is still young and before it knows who its real father is, you should get married. If you don't want to get married, then don't. That shouldn't be a problem at all. However, for a balanced development of a child the presence of both parents is necessary. If you think you can manage even without that then you don't need to marry.