zendie

@zendie (10)

Philippines • Age 38

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No boyfriend since birth

mihama_poohbear @mihama_poohbear (449) • Philippines 13 Feb 11

It's Valentine's day today, and as always, I don't have a date. haha :) I'm 22 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Do I sound like such a loser or what? Oh well, I guess I just have to wait some more. God is probably...

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zendie Yup... maybe the guy is also busy praying for you. It's ok.

15 Feb 11

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Why i always get mad at him for no reason?

cashsearcher11 @cashsearcher11 (153) • Philippines 14 Feb 11

As i mentioned, We are apart. And im comfortable with it. The only way of our communication is thru cell phone. But i cant understand myself that every time he calls, i easily get irritated. I dont want to be disturbed with what...

love

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zendie probably you dont really love him...

15 Feb 11

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what books would you recommend and why?

HotBlaze2011 @HotBlaze2011 (264) • Philippines 15 Feb 11

i am the type of person who enjoys reading a variety of books. lately i've been drawn to a lot of books that are philosophic in nature. i would like to ask you as to what type of books do you enjoy reading and why. =)

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zendie The Alchemist... It helps someone redeems his spirit most especially if someone is down and feels like giving up to things that he can't have yet.

15 Feb 11

Will you consider yourself as a person who understand people well ?Why ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 14 Feb 11

Sometimes I WOULD CONSIDER MYSELF AS A PEOPLE ORIENTED PERSON and understand people really well. But somehow, I think people are always so complicated and it is just so difficult to understand them. Since everyone is so unique and...

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zendie I agree.. But for me I dont think I am able to understand them all. But i am a good listener. I cannot pretend that I understand their views even if their's are really opposite my views. I just respect each unique personality and I think that is different from...

15 Feb 11

Would you marry someone you don't love?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94912) • United States 8 Feb 11

Would you marry someone you don't love just to be in a relationship and not be lonely throughout life? For me, I would definitely not however I questioned a few of my friends and it was like 50/50, some said yes/some said no....

love

married

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zendie Me. I won't. I can never be happy being with someone I don't love. It may also just prevent me from seeing the person that is really meant for me. If I don't want to be alone, then I should not be too selfish making someone believe that I love him. Cause I...

10 Feb 11

Marry for the Sake of the Baby... What can you say?

zendie @zendie (10) • Philippines 10 Feb 11

Do you think it would right to marry because you two already have a baby?

marriage

unwanted pregnancy

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Do you strive for a career or just money

Sunehant @Sunehant (57) • India 9 Feb 11

Hey guys, I used to think only about money so I kept on changing my job without realizing my interest and dreams. The outcome was I was frustrated at the end and now when I have the job of my own interest I am very satisfied...

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zendie Same here. It would really be tiring working just to wait for the payday. Besides and as many businessmen may advise let your money works for you and not you work for it.

10 Feb 11

Do you strive for a career or just money

Sunehant @Sunehant (57) • India 9 Feb 11

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zendie I don't exactly believe in it.We know ourselves better than any people around us. Even our parents. We have the same situation. When I was younger I like to become an engineer but my parents didnt allow me as they told me there is a gender discrimination in...

10 Feb 11

How do you make your own luck?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 13 Aug 10

I just met a person who said that he didn't believe in bad luck or good luck. He said that he makes his own luck. Personally I thought he was just all talk. I tried to ask him if he makes his own luck, how does he make it? He...

luck

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zendie We make our own luck by starting to dream. Since we have dreams we have our motivations or something that we are looking up to, something that we are wishing for ourselves to have or experience. Then this dream influence us a lot in committing decisions and...

13 Aug 10

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